Did bottoming come naturally?

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I've never bottomed. I do have a long skinny dildo that I enjoy. I fantasize about being able to take a bigger one and being able to handle it like boypussy. I've been working on a thicker dildo, but still can't get it in too far and couldn't handle a pounding. Is it this much effort/training for everyone? I'm pretty thick, but all the bottoms I've been with take it fine. Porn (of course) always makes it look easy too.
 

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you're either made for it or not. You have to want it. you're born with the craving for cock up your ass. sounds to me like you want to be a bottom, so maybe you just need to practice more. First few times always hurt until you learn how to relax and ease it in.
 

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Bottomng came very naturally for me. First time I had a guy inside me was incredible and I still remember how hard I came. I was hooked, and while I pack a nice thick cock ad on rare occasion will top a guy with it, my love is taking cocks and anything else you can fit in me. My dream experience would be to pleasure an entire sports team, espeically wrestling or football.
 

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Have to say,pretty much so
like preferring hjs to bjs it just seemed to occur naturally
Tried for a while to make myself believe it was my partner at the time, his preference for topping, but serious thought and analyzing, was evident bottoming was definitley my preference in a more than natural way

and forget about the BS,that all / most bottoms are the effeminate of the Gay male ...
 

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Yep, I think some guys are just born craving it. I used to fantasize about having a guy put his dick in my ass, and wondered what it would feel like before I even knew what homosexuality was or that guys actually did that sort of thing.:eek:

And before anyone asks, NO, I was never sexually abused as a kid. :rolleyes:




you're either made for it or not. You have to want it. you're born with the craving for cock up your ass. sounds to me like you want to be a bottom, so maybe you just need to practice more. First few times always hurt until you learn how to relax and ease it in.
 

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Yep - any stimulation to my arse, which is really sensitive, drives me crazy, and the sensation of having a thick cock up there is like nothing else. Vers too so always happy to oblige an eager and willing guy who likes taking it too.
 

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I was curious about anal in my early teens (thanks porn!) so I wound up finding various things to stick in my ass. Eventually, I came to really enjoy it and that's primarily why I bottom. Lately I've been wanting to try out topping though as I've found myself being drawn to it more and more in my fantasies – just like when I started getting interested in bottoming. So far though, my partners have only wanted to top. I'm really into dominant types and I've yet to find a hairy bear that'll let me top him. *sigh*
 

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There may be some natural-born power bottoms, but for most of us, bottoming takes practice, practice, practice! I’ve found it’s best alternate between a toy and a buddy. You can only get so far with a dildo. He doesn’t have to fuck you right away, but his tongue and fingers can get you to relax and open up.
 

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There may be some natural-born power bottoms, but for most of us, bottoming takes practice, practice, practice! I’ve found it’s best alternate between a toy and a buddy. You can only get so far with a dildo. He doesn’t have to fuck you right away, but his tongue and fingers can get you to relax and open up.

Learning to properly clean out, was also a challenge and a work in progress. And I'm still learning more about my body, and the proper cleaning out process. I learn something new almost every time, I begin to clean out.
 
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I've never bottomed. I do have a long skinny dildo that I enjoy. I fantasize about being able to take a bigger one and being able to handle it like boypussy. I've been working on a thicker dildo, but still can't get it in too far and couldn't handle a pounding. Is it this much effort/training for everyone? I'm pretty thick, but all the bottoms I've been with take it fine. Porn (of course) always makes it look easy too.

find someone who loves u (black or whatever) explain it to him and ask him to go slow to start
nothing better then the real thing
 

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Learning to properly clean out, was also a challenge and a work in progress. And I'm still learning more about my body, and the proper cleaning out process. I learn something new almost every time, I begin to clean out.

Yeah honestly this isnt something you realise but your able to take ALOT more if your clean.

I can honestly tell with my partner when im not, it gets uncomfortable for me! However when im clean i can take a pounding like no other
 

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Yeah honestly this isnt something you realise but your able to take ALOT more if your clean.

I can honestly tell with my partner when im not, it gets uncomfortable for me! However when im clean i can take a pounding like no other

I agree with this, my body can tell me a lot more, if I pay attention to what it's telling me. If the entry is uncomfortable, then I know I'm not completely clean inside.
 

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I played around with carrots, magic markers and broom handles before I moved up to the real thing. The first guy who tried to fuck me was really big...the head and that was all I could take. My first BF was really small, that made things easier. It took a good 3 years of messing around with dicks before I could take a big one.
 

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My fist time was hard to take it in, this year Im gonna try being more bttm, so bought a dildo and start training my ass with it.... and first time I used it... took me 5min to get it in good, but then I sat on it, and took the whole 8"! :D ...made me cum instantly too:)
 

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I asked my fuck bud once about (topping), and he said similar. It part of you, it is either in you to do it or it is not. Because when you are there with someone else, you need to be able to give your partner the pleasure that they desire. People who are new to either top or Bottom role, should find a sex partner who understands and can work with inexperienced. I have (trained) Inexperienced tops before. I mean. . hell if someone has a desire to learn to do something. . why not teach them.

A man who has a HUGE dick, and lacks experience, can be trained. . That's all Im' saying.
 

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I asked my fuck bud once about (topping), and he said similar. It part of you, it is either in you to do it or it is not. Because when you are there with someone else, you need to be able to give your partner the pleasure that they desire. People who are new to either top or Bottom role, should find a sex partner who understands and can work with inexperienced. I have (trained) Inexperienced tops before. I mean. . hell if someone has a desire to learn to do something. . why not teach them.

A man who has a HUGE dick, and lacks experience, can be trained. . That's all Im' saying.

You make great sense. Nothing worse than having a hung top, who lacks experience, and finesse, and who genuinely cares about the bottom he's fucking. That too is important.
 

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Bottoming came so natural too me. From my first time, I was hooked and couldn't get enough of him!!!

He was in his 40's and I was 31 (Late Bloomer) I changed his flat tire and he took me back to his house and gave me the absolutley best time of my life at that point. He was very handsome and pretty well hung, I would guess abut 7.5 x 5.5, give ot take. I told him tht he was my first and he tokk it so slowly and gentlly. I never had any pain or discomfort. I would have to guess that he rubbed his dickhead on my hole for a good 5 minutes and took another 10 minutes to slowly enter me. As soon as his balls touched my ass, I came. He started to pull out and I begged him to stay inside me. Then he started a very slow and deep fucking for what seemed like a LONG time. I came amother 3 times when he finally said that he ws getting close4 and asked where I wanted his cum. I begged him to NOT pull his cock out as it felt too good. When he did cum, he must have been a distance shooter cause I felt each shot hit my second hole and that caused me to cum again, literally milking his cock of every drop. He collapsed on top of me and we stayed like that for a long time, with his cock still buried balls deep inside me.

I have been hooked on getting my tight, cock hungry ass fucked ever since!!!

Craig
 
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