While this is true for some women there are others, even with today's medical advancements, who die during pregnancy and childbirth due to complications. It's still a big deal. No getting around that.
No doubt about it... in fact, routine cesarean sections have removed a critical evolutionary selector.... many women who have difficulty giving birth , difficulties that used to kill them, can now give birth repeatedly and safely.... as a result women's hips are getting narrower, making natural childbirth more difficult for more women with each passing generation...
I see more and more women shaped like boys.
We could very easily get to a point where it becomes impossible for human to deliver babies without medical intervention.
Yes, we women determine, each on an individual level, who we will sleep with and what behaviours are attractive to us, but since there is no consensus among the women as to what that defined behaviour should be, there is no set behaviour for men to follow.
Just as there are bigoted misogynists out there getting laid as we speak there are gentle nurturing men out there with no sex on the visible horizon.
If we women have a master plan it hasn't worked yet.
THAT'S the very problem for us men... you HAVE the power of choice... but you can't tell us what you want...
It was WOMEN like phyllis schaflly that stopped the ERA.
Women who dress sexy to attact men's attention and women who condemn each other for dressing sexy to attract men's attention...
Women who told a whole generation that they wanted men to be sensitive and nurturing... that everything masculine was evil... and then hated the men who took them at their word for not being masculine enough.
My first wife was perfectly happy with me until the greater society of women convinced her that I was an oppressor who had evil motives behind every kind act... and that she was a lesser person for staying home to raise our sons... no wonder she drank herself stupid every night.
How many of you had the experience of thinking you had a great guy until your girlfriends cast doubt into your minds?
Women get so much conflicting feedback from each other as to what is acceptable or good... its amazing to me that your heads don't explode.
Face it girls, women, in general, get whatever they want... if they can just figure out what they want... and STAY happy with that choice...
The whole society would be happier
I am suggesting that we pay a little more attention to those aspects of desire and contentment that are wired into us genetically, so as not to fool ourselves into thinking we could be happy with something that merely
sounds good, but doesn't
feel good.
Women, intellectually, want men to be more sensitive... but physically, they are not excited by that kind of man.
You gotta come to some kind of resolution on that... and
select men based upon both heart and head...
cause really... when what we men see is that only the assholes get laid, we start taking asshole lessons...
In EVERY sexual species... female choice DRIVES male behavoir.
So come up with that master plan, and start choosing wisely.