Iâm really not sure where to put this topic. I really do not mean to offend anybody, but due to another thread all of my memories about working in a bar are flooding me. Being as this board has a fairly diverse group of people with a fairly high percentage of gay men I thought I would throw out one of my experiences and see what comes back. I have been wondering for quite awhile if I what I did was wrong from other peoples perspective. I bounced for quite some time in a small mining town in a fairly rough bar. One night a customer got pretty loaded early while it was still quiet, so I was going to leave him have his fun until it got crowded and he became a nescience bumping into others. He kept going into the bathrooms. I would follow him in to see if he was sick or snorting coke (the drug of choice in that town.) He wasnât and he would always leave the bathroom as soon as I entered. This went on for Â½ an hour. During that time one guy came up to me and told me this fellow was hitting on him. This is not really normal for a bar like that one, but I figured the guy who was reporting it maybe just did not like this other fellow so I just kept watching him. About ten minutes later another guy came up to me and told me that the fellow had asked him in the bathroom if he wanted a blow job. (I suddenly realized why this guy was spending half his night in the bathrooms.) The guy said that he thought he would tell me because though he just refused he (rightly) figured most other guys who frequented that bar would probably take a round out of the fellow for the suggestion. I asked him to leave and told him that he was more than welcome to come back the next night. (just giving him the reason that he was too drunk, which he was.) I justified it to myself that it was as much for his safety as anything. I would not do anything different than I did, but I am interested in the opinions of others who have different life experiences than I. Was it handled properly? Should I have left it? After all how many times each night in a bar do men make unwanted advances toward unreceptive women? And I sure as hell never threw all of them out- only the overly aggressive ones who couldnât understand NO. And this fellow would take and accept ânoâ and just move on. Though I never noticed it I was told that there was a fairly high percentage of gay men in that town so is it right that his advances were the catalyst for my asking him to leave even if it was for his own safety and to prevent an inevitable fight?