Did i do something wrong at the porn booth?

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I'm a single guy in my late 20s, straight, with an exhibitionist streak in me. I'm well hung and I really enjoy showing it off. It's difficult to find ways to "show off" that are legal and consensual, so after watching some "glory hole" porn, I decided to hit up the local porn booth. I was naive, I really expected there would at least be some women. Nope, it's pretty much all gay men. I have no attraction to men at all, but initially I didn't want to give up so easily and I kept going back, watching porn, and jerking off thinking eventually I'd find a woman. I never did but eventually I realized guys watching me was still giving me a similar thrill and they often have filthy mouths, I've had men beg to suck me, beg for me to fuck them, and I found I really enjoy the attention, but of course I've never had any desire to actually do anything with a guy. I just sit on the bench and enjoy being watched while I jerk off.

I've been going to the same booth for about a year, so it was inevitable that some of the same men would see me multiple times. The most thirsty guy saw me recently and got extremely pissed, called me every name in the book saying these spots are hook up spots for gay men and I'm a huge asshole for going there and not hooking up. Now I'm starting to worry if I'm guilty of something like "cultural appropriation". I'm a big supporter of LGBT rights and that's the last thing I want to do, I just was trying to get a cheap thrill. So I'm curious what everyone thinks, am I doing anything wrong?
 

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I don't think you need to let anyone suck you or touch you if you are not into it, I've been before, I like to show off too, like to JO in the theater or booths, cool with me if guys or couples watch, I've had guys ask me the same things, I usually just say," I'm good " and keep stroking, no one has ever said anything rude to me, a few have ask again or ask if I'm sure I don't want head, and I say, no thanks, I'm good, that is usually the end of it.
 
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I'm a single guy in my late 20s, straight, with an exhibitionist streak in me. I'm well hung and I really enjoy showing it off. It's difficult to find ways to "show off" that are legal and consensual, so after watching some "glory hole" porn, I decided to hit up the local porn booth. I was naive, I really expected there would at least be some women. Nope, it's pretty much all gay men. I have no attraction to men at all, but initially I didn't want to give up so easily and I kept going back, watching porn, and jerking off thinking eventually I'd find a woman. I never did but eventually I realized guys watching me was still giving me a similar thrill and they often have filthy mouths, I've had men beg to suck me, beg for me to fuck them, and I found I really enjoy the attention, but of course I've never had any desire to actually do anything with a guy. I just sit on the bench and enjoy being watched while I jerk off.

I've been going to the same booth for about a year, so it was inevitable that some of the same men would see me multiple times. The most thirsty guy saw me recently and got extremely pissed, called me every name in the book saying these spots are hook up spots for gay men and I'm a huge asshole for going there and not hooking up. Now I'm starting to worry if I'm guilty of something like "cultural appropriation". I'm a big supporter of LGBT rights and that's the last thing I want to do, I just was trying to get a cheap thrill. So I'm curious what everyone thinks, am I doing anything wrong?
Get yer cock out and I'll let you know ;)
 

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maybe you just run into a bitchy gay guy, maybe he likes you too much and can not deal with the fact that he can not suck you. i find it hot seeing a str8 dude jerking off at a gay hot spot, i like how open minded you are.you don't need to let anyone suck you or touch you if you are not into it, he was just rude.
 

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As a gay man that has worked at an adult bookstore and was a frequent visitor to the booths of the local adult bookstores, let me offer my 2 cents.

One of the local bookstores had no problem with people just standing around in the back room (booth area). Some of the guys would be in the back area anywhere from 4 to 8 hours a day. Those guys that would be back there for many hours a day, were the worst about being aggressive with trying to get next to new guys. It was a competition with them. They would be pissed when the other guy wouldn't put out.
 
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I'm a single guy in my late 20s, straight, with an exhibitionist streak in me. I'm well hung and I really enjoy showing it off. It's difficult to find ways to "show off" that are legal and consensual, so after watching some "glory hole" porn, I decided to hit up the local porn booth. I was naive, I really expected there would at least be some women. Nope, it's pretty much all gay men. I have no attraction to men at all, but initially I didn't want to give up so easily and I kept going back, watching porn, and jerking off thinking eventually I'd find a woman. I never did but eventually I realized guys watching me was still giving me a similar thrill and they often have filthy mouths, I've had men beg to suck me, beg for me to fuck them, and I found I really enjoy the attention, but of course I've never had any desire to actually do anything with a guy. I just sit on the bench and enjoy being watched while I jerk off.

I've been going to the same booth for about a year, so it was inevitable that some of the same men would see me multiple times. The most thirsty guy saw me recently and got extremely pissed, called me every name in the book saying these spots are hook up spots for gay men and I'm a huge asshole for going there and not hooking up. Now I'm starting to worry if I'm guilty of something like "cultural appropriation". I'm a big supporter of LGBT rights and that's the last thing I want to do, I just was trying to get a cheap thrill. So I'm curious what everyone thinks, am I doing anything wrong?

You’ve been going to the same place for over a year and you are clearly a thoughtful and considerate man. I would brush this encounter off as someone else maybe having a bad day since no one else has ever approached you with a similar complaint.
 

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The fact that shithead's like this make you question yourself makes me pissed off at people like the guys there. You shouldn't feel any obligation to these people. I have had similar experiences at bath houses where people get mad if I won't play with them. Just because I occupy the same space somewhere traditionally meant to hookup doesn't mean I'm going to. If I am not attracted to you, not feeling it, or hell, just because it's a Tuesday, I have no obligation to do shit with you.

You go there to enjoy yourself and you keep being you. These guys need to chill with the predatory nonsense and maybe sit back and enjoy the show that is you. It's not like you being in there is preventing some gay guy who will play from entering. I have gone to femail strip clubs with friends and been very generous in tipping and also just gone and watched. The fact I am not buying lap dances or champagne rooms doesn't mean I don't have a right to be there.
 

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As others have said, you owe nothing to anyone. People go to venues for all kinds of reasons. Plenty of people only want to watch or show off, so you’re hardly doing something out of the ordinary. I’ve found over the years that sex venues can attract toxic types who take the philosophy ‘if I’m not getting any, neither are you.’ They will hover, follow or even try to ruin a scene. Some are passive aggressive and will do things like ‘take a nap’ in a prime play spot or lie down on sauna benches when there’s not much open space. Some become verbally abusive. Some are belligerent. I’ve witnessed a physical scuffle over a glory hole spot at the Vault in London and management threw them both out. Lol.
 

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I'm a single guy in my late 20s, straight, with an exhibitionist streak in me. I'm well hung and I really enjoy showing it off. It's difficult to find ways to "show off" that are legal and consensual, so after watching some "glory hole" porn, I decided to hit up the local porn booth. I was naive, I really expected there would at least be some women. Nope, it's pretty much all gay men. I have no attraction to men at all, but initially I didn't want to give up so easily and I kept going back, watching porn, and jerking off thinking eventually I'd find a woman. I never did but eventually I realized guys watching me was still giving me a similar thrill and they often have filthy mouths, I've had men beg to suck me, beg for me to fuck them, and I found I really enjoy the attention, but of course I've never had any desire to actually do anything with a guy. I just sit on the bench and enjoy being watched while I jerk off.

I've been going to the same booth for about a year, so it was inevitable that some of the same men would see me multiple times. The most thirsty guy saw me recently and got extremely pissed, called me every name in the book saying these spots are hook up spots for gay men and I'm a huge asshole for going there and not hooking up. Now I'm starting to worry if I'm guilty of something like "cultural appropriation". I'm a big supporter of LGBT rights and that's the last thing I want to do, I just was trying to get a cheap thrill. So I'm curious what everyone thinks, am I doing anything wrong?

That cunt sounds like a bitter queen. Tell him that next time he wants to open his trap. Now I will say this, you are wasting your time there, women will never go there. Anyways I suggest you find an online community that meets up to do stuff like. Like a nudist club? Idk
 
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maybe you just run into a bitchy gay guy, maybe he likes you too much and can not deal with the fact that he can not suck you. i find it hot seeing a str8 dude jerking off at a gay hot spot, i like how open minded you are.you don't need to let anyone suck you or touch you if you are not into it, he was just rude.
Amen to that !
 

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I'm a single guy in my late 20s, straight, with an exhibitionist streak in me. I'm well hung and I really enjoy showing it off. It's difficult to find ways to "show off" that are legal and consensual, so after watching some "glory hole" porn, I decided to hit up the local porn booth. I was naive, I really expected there would at least be some women. Nope, it's pretty much all gay men. I have no attraction to men at all, but initially I didn't want to give up so easily and I kept going back, watching porn, and jerking off thinking eventually I'd find a woman. I never did but eventually I realized guys watching me was still giving me a similar thrill and they often have filthy mouths, I've had men beg to suck me, beg for me to fuck them, and I found I really enjoy the attention, but of course I've never had any desire to actually do anything with a guy. I just sit on the bench and enjoy being watched while I jerk off.

I've been going to the same booth for about a year, so it was inevitable that some of the same men would see me multiple times. The most thirsty guy saw me recently and got extremely pissed, called me every name in the book saying these spots are hook up spots for gay men and I'm a huge asshole for going there and not hooking up. Now I'm starting to worry if I'm guilty of something like "cultural appropriation". I'm a big supporter of LGBT rights and that's the last thing I want to do, I just was trying to get a cheap thrill. So I'm curious what everyone thinks, am I doing anything wrong?
Nope. I'm sure there are lots of gay guys who go there just to jerk off or even just watch without getting sucked, so in this era of sexual acceptance how can you be verbally abused just for being straight? There are just self centered people of all sexual orientations who aren't mature enough to handle rejection and respect other people's right to say "No". Keep going and enjoy yourself. Don't let one asshole ruin it for you and all the other dudes that enjoy (respectfully) watching you beat your meat. ;):kissing_heart:
 
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Guys throwing hissy fits are really common at all gay saunas and sex venues, the reason behind that behaviour is complex yet be assured loneliness and desperation for physical intimacy are factors which would be present.

The type of guy who is a regular or frequent (every couple of weeks, months a few times a year) patron to saunas, sex venues and beats/truckstops/cottages is usually a troubled man. I know this is a massive generalisation, yet I was one myself and it's always the same types of guys who are socially isolated, socially inept, sexuality issues and many are living a double life who go these places.

20 years ago gay saunas were still important social places for men to meet others, yet times have changed radically and the social aspect has largely gone and they're purely sexual.
 
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