story: an ex girlfriend of mine whom i still care allot about as a person (she is, or was, an absolutely astounding person and amazed me with how great she was) has been having a rough time lately in life. i dated her throughout my seinor year of highschool and into this year as a freshmen in college. she was a senior this year in highschool. after we broke up (her decision) she tryed to make it as though we couldnt talk anymore because she didnt want to regret her decision, but she ended up regretting it more than she expected, and she tryed to push me away even harder. it really was frustrating, i just wanted to at least be friends and not have tension between us. but we got through it finally and started to become freinds again. she opened herself back up to me and told me of everything that has happened to her this year and everything that has bothered her. i heard terrible things. i was heartbroken to hear such things have become of this amazing girl. she was raped new years eve, and has become bulemic (spelling?) , depressed, and her friends used her and lied to her continuously, among other significant things. i didnt know what to do. how to help. i tryed to help but it only enraged her. finally, i went to her parents and told them, not because im a snitch, but because the only way she could deal with her problems is through professional help. her mind is in danger with all her thoughts about being raped and everything, and her health is in danger with her eating disorder. i thought that it was the right thing to do as she was endangering herself and i was worried she would damage herself beyond repair. now i havent been able to talk to her for 2 months. she is holding it against me, and she was mad at me (everyone to tell you the truth. she hated the world) even before she found i was the one who told. did i do the right thing? do you think i sacraficed our relationship for a worthwhile cause? i just want her to be happy with herself and be healthy. did i go about it wrong?