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Got involved with a married guy who was out to his wife and kids but staying married to her until the kids went to college.
We had 3 months of pretty intense communication before he decided rather abruptly that he had to say goodbye and would hope to get in touch when he was ready to come out.
While I know most of what he told me was true, the abrupt nature of cutting me off has made me wonder if this guy was openly gay to his family or just one of the narcissist types that gets off on the thrill of hooking somebody in.
I want to believe he just freaked and the reality meant he realised he couldn’t keep up the double life. But the other part thinks he was pretty shitty and was toying me about.
Any other gay men in marriages - love your opinions.
Got involved with a married guy who was out to his wife and kids but staying married to her until the kids went to college.
We had 3 months of pretty intense communication before he decided rather abruptly that he had to say goodbye and would hope to get in touch when he was ready to come out.
While I know most of what he told me was true, the abrupt nature of cutting me off has made me wonder if this guy was openly gay to his family or just one of the narcissist types that gets off on the thrill of hooking somebody in.
I want to believe he just freaked and the reality meant he realised he couldn’t keep up the double life. But the other part thinks he was pretty shitty and was toying me about.
Any other gay men in marriages - love your opinions.