Last night while my bf was in the other room on the computer I decided to pull out a porno mag. When came in the room I proceeded to hide the magazine. He said "give it too me!" Unsure I reluctantly handed it to him. "Everytime I see you looking at porn I'm going to rip it up or break the disc." I protested and proceeded to rip my Black Inches mag in half. I was devastated. Every one of them kats in the magazine was worthy of j/o material (except for one maybe) making it a great issue. I was heated and told him that it was unnecessary for him to destroy my property when earlier he express no interest in having sex. He stated, "you're a porn addict and you need to get it under control." "Are you crazy? I don't go about crushing up your fucking cigarettes because I don't want you acting like you're on the rag!" "If you want to destroy my cigarettes," he said," go right ahead." I was so pissed off I said words I didn't really mean, "I hate you and don't want to be in a relationship with you any more!" "I was joking but I realize I went too far," he added," if that's the way you feel about me over a magazine then you don't have to be with me! You made your choice to be in a relationship witrh porn and I was just a suppliment" With that he threw off his commitment ring and grabbed his pillow and went to go sleep out on the couch in the living room. Was I wrong for reacting the way I did? Is there any justification for such behavior? My bf has constantly told me I have an addiction to porn but when I bring up the health problems his cigarette habit causes he proceedes to tell me my habit is destroying are relationship. May I add that he has told me he has self-image/esteem issues stemming from his childhood making him very insecure. Was he right or was it really uncalled for? Or should I just leave him for being an asshole?