Don't get me wrong I love my wife to death inside and out. I would give my life for her. She is a very beautiful lady and has a wonderful heart. I sometimes question our sexual compatibility. I am 6 ft 205 lbs she is 5'2" and 113 Lbs. I am so hot for her. I have what I would say an above average sex drive and she has what I would call a below average sex drive. We have had great sex the best I have had, but when we do we only can do it spooning style? Or it is to painful for her and she doesn't enjoy it. One wrong move just trying to adjust my postion and its over for her. I know I don't have a big penis but for her most of the time it is to big. When I was single I was with women that were more like 5'5" and up and 135 and up and it was a lot easier having sex if that makes sense. What can I do to help her enjoy making love or did I marry the wrong women sexually? And again I do love her, I just want her to crave me like I do her