I know it takes all kinds to make the world go 'round, but I guess I'm too old school for this conversation.
She cheated and lied. Somebody, somewhere gets turned on by this. I get pissed to the point of being physical!
Some people think it's strange, but I don't have a problem trusting my husband 100%. He's a musician who's gone weeks at a time, and before we met he was quite the honeybee pollinating as many flowers as he could. He said he had self-imposed celibacy for almost two years before. Now he pledges 100% loyalty to me, and I truly believe him.
But if I ever found out he had been unfaithful it would be such a grievous wound that I could never recover from. I could care less if she's tighter or has a bigger chest (why?) it just wouldn't turn me on in the least. And as for me finding someone bigger than him. Hell no! That would be the absolute last thing I'd be looking for if I had the least bit of inclination.
The secret? Keep each other happy. And we do, and that's why I trust him and he trusts me.
Actually, he was the one who had the most problem with us being a permanent item, the Idiot! He thought I would get hit on a lot and was more likely to "give in."
Darling, I'm so satisfied that you spoiled me for anyone else!!! :wink: