It was actually this year that I really discovered I was larger than average. I met this woman on another site and we became friends. She showed me her modeling pics, and I mustered up the confidence to show her some pics of me. Now I am a virgin, so she was the first girl to ever see it. All she said was Holy shit, you're hung! I was so surprised by her response to it, I said really? She goes, I know you don't see to many guys naked, but i can tell you from my experience that you have is indeed big and very nice looking at that. Now you can believe me or not, but this woman was a former model for a certain famous adult publication. So a response like that from someone with her credentials was a huge boost in confidence. Now her previous bf was 8", but he wasn't as thick as me, I'm at 6" in girth fully erect, so definitely above average there. In fact she nicknamed me Girth and still calls me that even though we had a little falling out. But yeah, it was the biggest shot of confidence I have ever had, and it really has changed my life somewhat. I walk taller now with my head up.
I also discovered that despite my skepticism, I can wear Magnums. So that was another little bost in confidence.