Did women measure cock before sex

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african said:
Soryy i wana to ask women did you measure your gay cock before sex or just go direct to intercourse , then later you can decide to continue or not depend on size .

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I never care for sizes because most the ones that i had was average (99% average and 1% big) the difference that i notice was abouth girth in some of them & that alone was very nice :smile:

When i decided to not continue with a relationship was because we did not have much in common after all & takes time to get to know some one for sure. Prefer to get to know a person and then have sex.

i was in a relationship for 5 years with a great guy who was 14 cm and was pleased by him...the problem was my excess of lubrication made him feel small inside me & had to dry me up to feel friction during sex :redface: but still was very good 90% of the time :wink:

In my case never broke up a relationship because of penis size.
 

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Gisella, that was actually a very good point. Thanks for making what was one of the few sensible points on this thread! :tongue:

Now that I think about it, that's been an issue for me as well, excess lubrication. Funny how a new set of eyes can help us examine our own situations.
 

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madame_zora said:
Gisella, that was actually a very good point. Thanks for making what was one of the few sensible points on this thread! :tongue:

Now that I think about it, that's been an issue for me as well, excess lubrication. Funny how a new set of eyes can help us examine our own situations.

:smile: Aha!!! A Girl, finally!!!

Hi Zora!

U r a "fountain" too hmm ? :biggrin1: Than u understand what i mean for sure.:wink:

Thanks
 

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Quite honestly, I think measuring your genitalia, for the purpose of sexual gratification, more often than not, only decreases the entire sexual experience. Society has burned, with a rather scorching rod, into our minds, the concept that bigger is inextricably synonymous with better. As far as sex is concerned, nothing could be further from the truth. As it happens, sexual pleasure comes from your partner’s ability to find and illuminate your sexual cravings and act upon them – even the manipulation thereof. This most certainly is a task easier said than done; but, you’ll find that once it is accomplished your perspective of sex and sexuality will be little influenced by physical elements [penis size being one of many of those elements]. Psychologists have retained the idea that sex is ninety percent mental: I agree.

This is not to say that physicality doesn’t have an immense part in sex – many people would say that a larger penis is aesthetically pleasing, and just as many would say it’s even more aesthetically pleasing than a smaller penis. However, I have long maintained that there is a great deal of truth behind the old adage: beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Therefore, whenever you sit down to decided what has made you sexually happy over time, you’ll probably find that ‘a larger penis’ is not that high on the list. However, what you may find yourself doing is examining the relationships you’ve had in terms of attitude, perspective, and overall compatibility – and that should be the ruler wherewith you gauge your relationships, not the one that measures a man’s penis.
 

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Sam Beckett said:
My ex did measure me once, but that was around the 20th time we had sex and totally unannounced,

Spooky..this happened to me once many many moons ago when I was a wee teenager.....she didn't offer an explanation and I didn't dare ask! I must say I did wonder if the 'result' was a factor in why we broke up a few weeks later :confused: Still, it was ages ago and (now) it amuses me to remember it....thanks Sam Beckett!

For what its worth I think, and I can only speak from my own limited experience, that most pre and post coital 'measuring' done by women is cerebral (and, yes, occasionally 'digital' but thats just fine!) Fortunately for me some women seem to have had 'magnifying' eyes :biggrin1:

I would hate to think I, or any man had been 'rejected' on such frivolous grounds but I'd lay odds it probably happens albeit rarely.