Did You Always Know You Were Hung, Or Did it Take a While? Were You a Late Developer

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  1. ignatius4446z

    ignatius4446z Active Member

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    I was a late bloomer I guess. I always looked younger than my peers and I went through puberty quite late (15 or so) and also quite slowly (ie: not in one big spurt). I still look young for my age - I'm almost 40, but most people think I am in my early 30s. I also have the physique of a younger guy (little body fat/firm muscles). So I suppose it has its advantages!

    Anyway, I didn't realise I was at all well endowed until my 20s, by which time I was just under 8" X 5.6". I didn't have many gfs in my teens, and in any case, most teenage girls back in those more innocent days probably didn't see enough cocks to make a comparative study. And we certainly didn't have the internet.

    I started to realise I was pretty hung when a black girl I was friends with in my early 20s decided to sleep with me 'cos as she put it, she "could see I was packing a piece" (I'm a "shower" and a "grower"). Then, after we split up, I had a string of casual relationships, and almost all the girls made some sort of complimentary comment about my dick, and many even said it was the biggest they'd had. However, I just put this down to girls just saying that to make guys feel better (ie: I thought it was just something all girls said to all guys). I still didn't get it even when one girl I had a one night stand with (another black girl) said that she would blow me, but not fuck me, 'cos she was a bit worried it wouldn't fit. Nor did I catch on when one casual girlfriend nicknamed me "Godzilla". Again, I just thought she was "saying" that.

    I didn't even twig when I couldn't get condoms on, or they went on, but would only go about halfway down, and even then, they usually broke.

    I suppose I eventually started to realise in my late 20s when I recorded me and a girlfriend having sex and when we watched it back, I thought "Mmmmm. That looks pretty impressive actually!" Then, a while later, another female friend saw the vid (she found it in my video stack and rather cheekily put it on when I was in another room) and she just came right out and said that she wanted to sleep with me after seeing "that thing of yours".

    After that, I felt the world was my oyster, and I started to take women's comments more seriously.

    My present girlfriend and I haven't slept together yet, 'cos although we met over here, she had to go back to her own country for a while. However, she has seen some pics, and she is very impressed (in fact, she mentions it almost every time we speak), and when she comes back here soon, I imagine we're going to have a LOT of fun together.

    Well, there's my story - I'd be interested to hear your experiences.
     
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    I found out via girlfriends.

    Going through puberty, the size of my cock was of 0 concern to me (acne was the big concern... oh how I hated the holy hell out of those pesky pimples. Stupid f***ing Stridex pads). I didn't think I was big or small or average, it just wasn't something I was thinking about.

    It was only over the course of some relationships where I actually measured (as a result of a truth or dare questions) and also got enough unsolicited feedback from girlfriends that I was bigger than average.
     
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    Around age 8.
     
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    It took me a while to realize that I was above average, because to me, my cock just looks "normal" and isn't much compared to the ones you see in porn. I had a hard time believing that the average penis size was around 6 inches, because I'm over 7 and mine doesn't look or feel large, at least to me.

    In one of my college courses on sex, the professor said that only 15% of the population is to believed to have a penis bigger than 7 inches. Mine is slightly above that, and I still have a hard to believing that I'm considered "large" by some standards.
     
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    My parents took a photo of me and my two older brothers standing up nude and wet together in the bathtub. I guess I was maybe 4 at the time and my brothers were 6 and 8 (at that time there must have been no problems getting photos of youngsters naked developed). It went into the family photo album. I was always ashamed of it because, unlike my brothers who I looked up to, my dick stuck out long while theirs were more close to their bodies. I viewed that very negatively because I was different!

    But I guess my largeness wasn't really confirmed until I was 22 and had my second gay experience. It was with a (more experienced), also married and taller man who was hung about the same as me. He shared that I was really lucky to be as hung, especially for my stature. My wife and I were virgins when we first had sex so we had nothing to compare to beforehand. I guess that's the norm for straight guys. But in the gay world, you find out a lot sooner about how you stack up to other men!
     
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    No, took years for me to discover how rare my girth is. HAHA :wink:
     
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    Apparently I've always been big. But I wasn't "aware" of it until I would say 18 or 19 - the "camming years".

    Before then there were incidents but I thought they were just being nice or cruel, saying I was big.
     
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    My dates told me. So I didn't have big ego over that. Though hanging out at a gay bar and several conquests later, people introduced themselves to be just for a chance to see if it was true.
     
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    The first girls I slept with where pretty inexperienced so even when I got compliments they didn't sound convincing/had no real impact.

    I think it really occured to me when I was 17. A local girl that "gets around" literally showered it in compliments, and gave a curious, rather solid narrative on how and why it was big. I guess that's what made it for me :p
     
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    I found out when I was in the end of 7th grade. My older brother (of 3 and 3/4 years) was a "player" and would have girls over often. Sometimes, while he'd mess with one, the other(s) would amuse themselves with me while they waited.

    One day one of them asked me if I was "hung like my brother," and kept calling me "lil Jon." After having been embarrassed (being as shy as I was) I decided to give back what I received. I told her that "there was nothing lil about me!" to which she replied "prove it." She kept teasing me and I somehow ended up showing her.

    I was already in the 7 inch range at that time. Early bloomer ^_^. That in sync with a small 5'1 body definitely made me realize that I was... "lucky" as the girl repeated informed me afterward. I try to find the positive in what was actually a thoroughly wrong situation...
     
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    Early bloomer here, was fairly obvious being in the swim club in elementary school. It was actually a little embarrassing at first and I was rather self-concious about it (mostly the pubes.) But eventually I realized that some friends thought it was pretty cool and I then I actually started enjoying showing it.
     
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    I didn't really realize it until I was about 17. I watched porn from the age of 13 or 14 and of course all the cocks are big in porn, so I thought I was pretty small. I was also a bit of a late bloomer, so I wasn't actually that big at that age... maybe about 5" hard. And then once I got closer to my size now a few friends of mine wanked with me and one was the same size as me, another was even bigger, so I figured I was just average. But then once I turned 17 I started having a few sexual encounters with more experienced guys and each one of them told me how big I was. At first I thought they were just trying to flatter me, but then after doing some research, I realized that 7" is actually bigger than normal.
     
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    I watched porn in my teens so I had no idea I was big. Well til girls started pulling my cock out. They'd say it was one of the biggest, or pounce on it all the time. Still though I don't think its all that big.
     
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    When I started to develop an interest in porn I was comparing my self with porn actors so though I was just average.

    It wasn't until latter in Jr. high when I showered together with my buddies after PE that every one pointed it out -- at it spread like wild fire thought out the school.

    It also was until the coach saw me in the shower that he started to encourage me to go out for sports.
     
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    Like the previous posters, I had seen a lot of porn before I ever tried sex and it warps your sense of scale. I was a later bloomer and had no idea of my comparative size until the first time I tried to put on a regular sized condom.
     
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    I was a very late bloomer. Like many of you my views on size were skewed thanks to porn. I had always been ashamed of my size thinking I was small. I finally overcame my fears and posted pics on this site and found out that I wasn't small at all. That gave me a lot of confidence which I then used to go and lose my virginity. Seeing my penis in a girl's hand just cemented my newly discovered knowledge that I was actually big.

    It was all a matter of perspective. Now my view is completely clear. If only it had happened sooner!
     
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    I didn't realize I had a larger penis until I was 27-28 when I had trouble putting on a regular condom before fucking my bf. Like other posters I still don't think it's big enough and I'm consistently doing PE to make it larger.
     
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    i realized it about half a year ago, when my girlfriend said it was bigger then her exes, and sometimes when i cam, people also say that's it's one of the bigger ones they've seen... although i really don't think it's that big
     
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    I was doing a comparison with a friend, we were both about 12 and I was so big compared to him I felt freakish. I was already 6" by then
     
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    In Junion High, we had to take showers after gym class. I walked out of the shower, naked, to my locker. There was a black guy sitting in front of my locker. He looked at me and said, "damn!" It's only been recently that I've realized that he had reacted to the size of my penis. I'm not the most hung guy on the planet, but I'm not the smallest either. It's taken me awhile to realize that my above average size makes people look at me in a different way and the ramifications of being judged based on the size of my penis. Some people think big dick men are dumb. You don't really know if your sex partner is with you based on the content of your character or the size of your cock. Even though being hung can be a double-edged sword, for the most part, I like what I see when I'm naked.
     
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