Did you develop early?

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It was actually a major curse for me, starting developing my breasts at 8 and by age 9 I was fully developed as I am now. I also started my period when I was nine also.

I was teased constantly by both boys and girls at that age and had many older boys trying to have sex with me. However I never looked older, even today at age 40 I still get carded about half the time when I order a drink.

So just imagine a nine year old that looked like a six year old but with a body of a 18 year old. I was also confused about the transformation and the start of my period and my mom was not very helpful, so it basically sucked.

Your experience sounds very much like my wifes childhood. Imagine what it was like in 1957 for a 9 year old girl to get her period and breasts that were as big then as when she was 30. Her mother wasn't a help either and the boys and men were a problem.
 

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I developed very early compared to most of my friends. I have a very high testosterone level (which also explains all the hair). I remember being bugged when I was younger because my balls grew earlier than my penis did. So when I was 11 or 12 I had very masculine balls with a normal size penis. Everything started to sort itself out by about age 13 or 14. I remember masturbating with some of my friends at sleepovers and they were always in aww of my huge size. Anyone who actually has a huge penis and said they were ashamed of it growing up as an adolescent has been growing up in a backwards community. Where i'm from large size directly correlates with confidence and success.
 

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My wife and I were talking the other night, and she complained that ever since she was 12 she always had boobs and a butt. I told her that I had a large penis by the time I was 13. I argued that I had it harder because I was teased mercilessly and considered a freak, while she was probably proud of her assets.

She said she was also reviled by most girls who weren't her friends and the guys all gawked at her making her miserable.

So I'll ask the ladies here: if you developed early did you consider it a curse or a blessing?

Early. Was definaitely more a curse. I didn't have a sexual awakening till quite a bit later in life, so to have curves as bait for a thing I wasn't interested in was way more of a burden.
 

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In high school there was one guy who was a twin who was teased for having a "needle dick" and used to get towel whipped in PE. He wasn't in my year and I hardly knew him, just that he had a small cock :redface:

I used to tease my cousin too although I don't think it went around school. He used to expose himself all the time and me and my friends just used to say "it'll grow".

So really only one person in school. There were over 1000 people at my high school. Probably 600/400 boys/girls. Maybe American schools are bigger?
 

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I wasn't an early bloomer, but one of my best friends was. She didn't just get teased, she got harassed. And it wasn't just other kids, but even some parents would act like she was some kind of slut because she had big breasts.

I'm very surprised guys said anything to you about having a big penis. Generally speaking, girls don't know how big a guys dick is, so you'd think other guys would shut up about it (so girls don't hear about it).

It's the opposite situation with girls... everyone can tell if a girl has large breasts so other girls get really catty really fast trying to give her such bad self esteem that she's not a threat on the dating scene.
Regarding the last paragraph maybe it is a different country but I don't recall anything of the sort occurring where I am.

If what you elicited is an accurate surmise what evaluative criteria did they employ in self-analysing their behaviour?
Did they evaluate it from a meta educational empathic experiential perspective?.

I found concentrating on the educational portion of scholarly endeavours mitigated if not precluded any expository invidiousness.
 

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Regarding the last paragraph maybe it is a different country but I don't recall anything of the sort occurring where I am.

It could be culture differences. I've seen it happen several times here, so I don't think it was a unique situation.

If what you elicited is an accurate surmise what evaluative criteria did they employ in self-analysing their behaviour?
Did they evaluate it from a meta educational empathic experiential perspective?.

I found concentrating on the educational portion of scholarly endeavours mitigated if not precluded any expository invidiousness.

Um... what?
 

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It's kind of like I figured - those who received their gifts early without knowing how to use them usually bore the brunt of teasing and harrassment from others who were either envious or clueless.

What compounded my situation is that I developed everything else much later. I didn't weigh over 100 lbs until after 10th grade (around 15), so this "sausage" was more pronounced against my smaller frame really making me look like a freak.

Even when I was 21 and playing in bars I would get carded! The rest of the band would have drinks brought to them, but I was always passed over.

Couple of years ago everything caught up (ain't 40 the pits?) and at least my frame is semi-typical. Wife and I are a matched set in the endowment department, and while having borne our curses early in life celebrate them in earnest now.

Thanks for all of your posts.
 

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Early. Was definaitely more a curse. I didn't have a sexual awakening till quite a bit later in life, so to have curves as bait for a thing I wasn't interested in was way more of a burden.
Not the same here...I think I was wanting sex before I even knew what it was...it was always such a struggle for me to remain a "good girl" and stay true to my moral and religious upbringing...but then when I was 15 I was finally set free!:smile:
 

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I got my period during my 12th year but the rest of me didn't start until I was 14 - breasts, height. Always had a skinny ass, still have a skinny ass.
 

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I considered it a curse. from the time I was 11 I had the attention of grown men, and I wasn't at all comfortable with it. I was barely interested in boys my age. Girls were envious by the time I was 12 and 13, and started rumors about me. People would occasionally cop a feel, and that was lame too. I wore huge clothes, but in retrospect, they concealed nothing.
 

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I was an early developer. I started getting breasts when I was about 8 or 9 and right before my 10th birthday (in September) I got my period. (I have always suspected that maybe I developed so early because of perservatives and hormones in my diet. My dad was a cattle farmer and he did inject the cattle with hormones. I remember that.) And I loved to eat food that had a lot of perservatives in it.

Anyways I think I was the big freak of the family. Everyone was so shocked that I was developing so fast before their very eyes. And maybe because I had always been a little on the precocious side (very curious about sex and boy crazy).... my family and aunts and uncles and cousins and grandparents were all really overprotective of me. Maybe they didn't think I had a lick of sense.... I don't know. Or maybe they thought I was vunerable.... and I probably was.

All I remember was feeling different. Something had happened to me that wasn't supposed to happen for 3 or 4 years. I had started my period before my older girl cousins. I do remember some teasing from them. They were jealous and I had no idea why. I would have changed places with them in a heartbeat.

I remember being very quiet and introverted. I didn't want anyone from school to know. I was very relieved about 3 years later when other girls started talking about starting their periods. And everyone elses boobs started growing too.

I do remember older guys being interested in me. I guess I must have looked older because of my developed body. But my family always nipped everything in the bud.

When I got to high school my mother was there and she was a very popular teacher. No one wanted to get on her bad side. I was still introverted and in my self concious shell. But this time it was because I was the only one in high school with her mother there.

I don't think I ever had anyone that wanted to change places with me.

Nobody wanted to be me in high school.

Everyone wanted to be my friend (because nobody wanted to upset my mom) My mom to this day sees me and everything that I do as perfect. (I am far from perfect)

I really didn't get to come into my own until I went off to college. Far enough away from family.

So to sum everything up...... yes I did develop early and I do not think it was a good thing. More of a curse than a blessing.

I am happy to say that my 11 year old daughter hasn't started her period yet. I rejoice every day she doesn't get it.
 

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In my case, my breasts were an A cup size as a teen which was nice in a way, I didn't get stared at by boys, who I had no interest in at all during the time. Plus I was on the athletic side, lean, not the curvaceous type during those years.