Did you feel more masculine the first time you made someone pregnant?

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  1. rrkrd

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    I have a straight buddy who has asked me whether I as a gay man regret never bringing a child into this world.He said the first time as a teenager he got his girlfriend pregnant there was not only a sense of responsibility for that child she was carrying, but he said he never felt more masculine and virile
    than when he knew his seed was growing in her and that it would be an extension of his life.

    I told him I can feel just as masculine and fulfilled when Im making love to my partner and that for me and my partner children are not likely in the picture.


    There are lots of gay men who have fathered children by different means. Did you feel more masculine and virile or is this a straight macho thing?
     
  2. Smaccoms

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    Some straight fathered children by directly impregnanting their wives; REALITY CHECK! *giggles*
     
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    I think many cultures feel it is manly/macho/virile to get a woman pregnant. I don't.
     
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    Why is this in show off
     
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    I can't say it's a macho thing for me, but I will say that it was powerful, liberating and beautiful, when my partner and I decided we were ready to conceive a child together.

    Sex did become more charged for me. I felt we were totally into each other and embracing into a spiritual bond that was earthy, magical and highly erotic. Sacred in a sense, although I'm not a religious person. Tapping into the great continuum.

    We were tossing the dice with a profound outcome being possible. I absolutely loved it. And I was absolutely in love with her.
     
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    Thank God I've never gotten anyone pregnant, but the idea really turns me on. I love the idea of an ovulating woman being desperately horny and me cumming in her and giving her a child. As a 23 year old, I don't want this to happen for at least ten years, but I sometimes fantasize about it while fucking my GF.
     
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    When my wife told me she was pregnant, I don't remember feeling more masculine, but I do remember
    feeling really fulfilled as a man....and though I never
    thought I could love my wife more than I did when I
    married her...I discovered it was indeed possible to
    love more.

    When our son was born...love even became greater. It's a wonderful feeling.

    I have friends who are gay who have had children by surrogates, using their own sperm, and others who adopted. I think having a child, no matter how it is conceived, or how it is obtained, brings with it a feeling of joy and happiness no matter what your sexual orientation or marital status.

    If a couple feels they could love a child and have the
    means to take care of it...then I think they should
    always consider being parents.

    There is nothing that can beat it!
     
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    Not yet, but I probably would, big time. I could feel it.
     
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    *draws heart around Mr. Rawbone*
     
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    oh my god rawbone that is so beautiful and romantic
     
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    I meant GAYS not STRAIGHTS my bad
     
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