did you once made sex with a gay?

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donkeyboy9 said:
I will nibble on this tempting morsel forties fun has posed ! I have made love to a woman in the past and it was beautiful and sensual.. just as is making love to a man! I see little difference in physical sexual pleasure between making it with man or woman; however , I derive a much greater emotional content when making it with a man!:rolleyes: :smile:

Thanks Donkeyboy9. I think this is genuinely interesting. The stereotype is certainly that MM sex is less emotional, more physical. MF sex is the opposite. Interesting that you experience it as you do, but then again, I suppose that is a working definition of "gay."
 

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fortiesfun said:
Thanks Donkeyboy9. I think this is genuinely interesting. The stereotype is certainly that MM sex is less emotional, more physical. MF sex is the opposite. Interesting that you experience it as you do, but then again, I suppose that is a working definition of "gay."

Forties -You know that I love you-but I have to disagree.
Being an exponent of men and having indulged myself on more than a few occasions over the decades, I can't agree that MM sex is less emotional.

I am gay because I am a man and need the filfillment of another to satisfy me emotionally and physically. It's what two men can do and do do to one another in their physical and indeed metaphysical connection.

Call it testosterone call it man on man but my lovers over the years have taken me to the heights.

When they have gone it has been like a chunk taken from me.

I am proud to be a gay man and to have enjoyed sexual experiences that have heightened me.

...and will continue to do so.......
 

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Hirsute said:
Forties -You know that I love you-but I have to disagree.
Being an exponent of men and having indulged myself on more than a few occasions over the decades, I can't agree that MM sex is less emotional.

You know I love you, too and am always glad to hear from you. However, I wasn't really trying to assert my own opinion on this one occasion. (There's a shocker!) I was trying to explore the stereotype and actually appreciate these counter-examples as they illuminate the situation. I think the OP was trying to explore the instances on which we have sex across the lines of our usual orientation. (It is a little hard to tell given that English is not his native language, but that seemed to be the implication to me.) I suppose it is not surprising that gay men find gay sex more emotionally fulfilling than they find straight sex. Donkeyboy obviously agrees with you, and I found his post interesting, but there again he is not the example that the OP was querying if I understood his point correctly. In order to answer his question I'd suppose we'd need to know if there are any straight men out there who have ventured into the world of gay sex and found it more emotionally engaging?