My first time I didnt use a condom and we both worried that she might get pregnant. She wasnt on the pill either . I was14 she was13. Two years later my buddy and I fooled around having anal sex. He had been with a few older guys a few times and had unprotected sex.WE later found out one of those guys had aids. Thank God for anonymous testing .We were lucky and and became wiser. Did you take chances the first times you had sex without protection? Do you still take chances sometimes whether it is with a girlfriend or a same sex sexual relationship?If so why?