Did you wear a condom the first time you had sex?Any worries about pregnancy or HIV?

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  1. rrkrd

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    My first time I didnt use a condom and we both worried that she might get pregnant. She wasnt on the pill either . I was14 she was13.

    Two years later my buddy and I fooled around having anal sex. He had been with a few older guys a few times and had unprotected sex.WE later found out one of those guys had aids. Thank God for anonymous testing .We were lucky and and became wiser.

    Did you take chances the first times you had sex without protection? Do you still take chances sometimes whether it is with a girlfriend or a same sex sexual relationship?If so why?
     
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    No I did not wear one the first time I had sex i was dumb but what you going to do the girl was on the pill.
     
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    nope. being a lesbian is a really great form of birth control :rolleyes:
     
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    That's no excuse for not wearing a condom! Oh wait, maybe it is.

    I wore a condom my first time.
     
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    I was 14 and I wore a condom my first time.
     
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    What about a dental dam?
     
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    yes I did wear a condom the first time and the second....third etc...........
     
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    My first experience was in 1977, long before HIV/AIDS, and with a guy so pregnancy wasn't an issue. The first time I was with a guy who insisted I wear a condom I considered some sort of sick joke.
     
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    I didn't. I was 16 and I didn't have one so we decided I would pull out. That didn't work out so well because her virgin pussy was so warm, wet, and tight that I pumped her full of cum almost immediately.

    I was scared and she was PISSED and scared. I was honestly terrified she was going to be pregnant and I was sure that if she was her old man who was a judge was going to figure out a way to have me thrown in jail for fucking his daughter. I have honestly never been more relieved than I was when I found out she was NOT pregnant.

    Since then I have always made sure I had them with me.
     
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    Not the first time. I was on the pill (for non-contraceptive reasons) and the guy I lost my virginity to was a family friend who I assumed (naively) was ok healthwise. It turned out all ok, but it was stupid of me to presume he was 100% healthy, when we didn't even have a discussion about it.
     
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    in my teen years i had a craving for rubber ... true
    and i got a mail order heavy duty washable condom from a chemist / pharmacy i suppose some call it
    fckn horrible thing when i think of it now..

    came all the way from england as most NZ products did them days

    masturbated for years with that washable condom... it was a bit BIG actually..
    HEAPS BIG now that i think of it
    anyway
    so YES', geuss i had me first sex with a condom..may well have masturbated without one prior of course..
    is that the sex we be talkin.
    enz

    did not think i would get pregnant, and HIV never existed in them days, so i geuss i am clear'
     
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    damn straight i did when i had my first time with a chick. still looking for my first time with a guy :p. no babehs for me
     
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    No, and I came in her. Turns out later she can't get pregnant. I am so fucking lucky.
     
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    I lost my virginity when I was 16 to a girl. We used a condom everytime and she was on the pill so I wasn't too worried about pregnancy or STDs. Starting when I was 17 I only had sex with guys and always used a condom until I was about 25. I still always use a condom if I'm the bottom but if I'm the top I sometimes don't use one. I still get tested every 6 months.
     
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    The first time I had sex was not consensual and there were no condoms involved. I worried for a long time that I'd contracted HIV and was too scared to get tested because I was too scared to tell my parents what happened. If there's anything good that came out of that it's that I never had sex with someone without having a sober talk about STIs and condoms beforehand.
     
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    no, the gal was on the pill she said. I seldom used a condom, and shredded a lot of them when I did.
     
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    First time: Yep! First few times actually...

    It wasn't until a few years later that I began to take "chances" by not wearing one. Like other have stated, I was dumb and naive. But no issues with STD's ever - so I guess I've been blessed in that dept.

    But now, I wouldn't make those same mistakes again. In fact, I've kept myself celibate until I marry. That's the best form of birth control for me.

    Simba
     
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    I have a friend who had a similar situation...I forgot how old he said he was, 14? 15?...but the girl he did it with wasn't able to get pregnant so no condom used.
     
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    I did wear a condom, but I was completely paranoid about the possibility I might scratch it with my fingernail, or it would fail, or anything. I'm actually still with the girl I lost my virginity too, but I'm quite happy we didn't have a kid at that age
     
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    the first time i had sex with a guy i was 16 or 17 and we did not use protection... it was both our first times so we weren't really worried about it.

    first time i had sex with a girl i was 18. We did use protection and she was also on birth control.
     
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