Did Your Attitude Toward Size Change At Some Point

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  1. RopesWife

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    I wonder how many other woman have switched from "it doesn't matter" to "it definitely does" at some point. Personally, I spent most of my life telling myself and my ex husband that it wasn't an issue. He was very self conscious about his cock and I tried to make him feel OK. But his self pity over it went on for the whole 15 years.

    I was always a little interested in the idea of a big dicks. We watched porn and I saw a few at work. It wasn't till I met my current husband that I go a chance to try a big one. What I wasn't ready for was how much different and better is was. I immediately changed my mind on the topic. I can't believe how much more fulfiling sex is, both giving and receiving with a bigger cock.

    Any other late converts? Who was it that changed your mind?
     
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    yea i always find it bizarre when women say "size doesnt matter" and they have never actually tried a large size. It's like saying you dont like eating kangaroo balls when u've never actually tried them! :p
     
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    Are they any good?
     
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    Actually this really pisses off the kangaroos who were expecting just a little fellatio.
     
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    My attitude changed when I was older and my opening had stretched enough to accommodate a larger one. When I was quite young I had to disappoint one or two fellows.

    Now I am able to support large penis in practice as well as enjoying the looks of them.
     
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    I change a lot of womens minds
     
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    yes i was converted 17 years ago. and believe me size does matter. it was and still is my hubby's cock as well as his whole package as a man all together that changed my mind, his big size cock was just a bonus that i don't think i could do with out if i had to down size in the cock department alone if ever their was someone else, they would have to be his size or it wouldn't work out for me sexually, as big is better no if and or buts about it. i have became a size queen and proud of it. other guys were very nice sexually and all, but after hubby's big one i couldn't go back to average or the small ones because sex is so much more enjoyable with a nice big and thick cut cock,
     
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    Yeah before my bf honestly I never really thought about it much, I just kinda figured it doesn't matter but when I did it w/my bf I found out for me it does honestly cuz it makes a big diff. Prolly not for everyone tho everyone is built diff not just guys.
     
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    i agree with Tiff. I didn't think of size as mattering or not really mattering until i had my first big one.

    Was an incredibly eye-opening experience and was so good that it did really make me wonder if size made that much of a difference or was it just good chemistry between the two of us. So it was a lot of fun to see that, no, it was size that made me that much more excited and enjoyable for me.
     
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    Wow. Amazing

    *shakes head*
     
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    yes, i changed my mind when i was in tears being stretched oh so good

    and he said wow past half way in

    life changing day that was believe me

    now a thick one can make me weak on site because i understand its power over me
     
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    Why are you shaking your head?

    Anyway, this was why I was so happy to hear that my GF's last BF wasn't hung. lol
     
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    Oh yes, I used to be a "Size doesnt matter" kind of gal, but two years ago I had my mind changed! Thanks P!!!
     
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    LOL - Good question - I was blessed and had big guys first - it wasn't until I had a average size that I knew that size mattered.
     
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    My pleasure: I aim to please. *wink*

    P
     
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    I see what you did there! Pleasure is all mine and trust me you do please!!! :biggrin1:

    J
     
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    This is a great question. My wife was very inexperienced when we met and I think she had no idea how much bigger than average I am.

    Sometimes I'd wished she'd fucked more than just the 1 other guy so she'd know.


    She's spoiled!
     
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    Kind of a stupid question.

    Big versus average is such a blurred line most of the men and women who draw a comparison rely on a small pool of experience (even with triple digit partners). Some think a 6" bp x 5" base is a big dick, others think it's 9" nbp x 7" midshaft. A preference for size exists, there is no denying that, but through evolution, the enjoyability of sex as a matter of size has its limitations (not to mention the availability of men). It is widely reputed that <1% of men meet the ever enviable 8" bp x 6" base-tip, though the truth of this is arguable. However, what logic lies in sensation relying on something that is rarely found?

    As a 7.25" bp x 5.5" base-tip, I have only ever met two women who [admitted] they have had bigger (I know, it is a small pool of data on the scheme of things), of the 30ish partners I have had. If we expound the data and include abberations of truth, let's say 10% lied, that is still roughly 15% have ever been with a bigger dick, and that is being generous. To think evolution has completely fucked women and starved them of satisfaction would seem backwards.

    I think what the point of this post is intended to do is take the emphasis off of the word 'big', and apply some constraints as to exactly what makes a woman cream. I think size queens, as a population, exist in proportion to their male counterparts -- as do vaginal sizes and dick size. In effect, obviously we are on LPSG, real world scenario's would put your average woman at an expectancy of 6" x 4.5" with anything above entering the realm of "big".
     
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    Hmmm... being that size I sense their expectancy is a little thicker than 4.5" in girth... more like 6" x 5". I know a half inch doesn't sound like much but in girth it makes a huge difference. And most surveys I have seen put average girth close to 5".

    I consider my erection to be thinner than what most women would expect or prefer.
     
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    There is a lot wrong with this sentence here.
     
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