Did Your Attitude Toward Size Change At Some Point

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Girls saying they cant go back....so what if partner was 9 x 6.5 and he dumps you then you meet the true love of you life and he is big, but nowhere near as big as previous? That would be like a guy saying he thinks sex with all other girls is rubbish as they arent as tight and wet as his ex wife. A lot of it is in the mind.
 

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Girls saying they cant go back....so what if partner was 9 x 6.5 and he dumps you then you meet the true love of you life and he is big, but nowhere near as big as previous? That would be like a guy saying he thinks sex with all other girls is rubbish as they arent as tight and wet as his ex wife. A lot of it is in the mind.

I agree with this, I think. My boyfriend is pretty small, and though I've never actually HAD a really big cock, I'd love to try it. Still, though, even if I did, and even if I loved it, I'd never say I "can't go back" to having a small cock. So many emotions are tied to physical enjoyment...

Having said that, though, yes, my attitude changed. When all I'd had was his cock, I thought it was wonderful. Then when we started using the dildos and vibrators, I saw what I had been missing!
 
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I've been told by several women that they prefer a really big cock like mine, but they still orgasm with smaller ones. In fact, a lot os women are just as happy with some great cunnilingus as they are taking on a big cock.

I've got one and I try to use it for mutual pleasure, but I don't neglect using my fingers, mouth and tongue either. Its a big turn on for a woman to cum (and even better squirt) no matter what tool you're using.

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I thought they were sexy, didnt believe that they had any real relevance to happiness, or fulfillment sexually. The two I had had were both very selfish and quick. Then three yrs ago, I had one that was a pretty decent size, took a lil longer to cum but was still very self centered. Then I realized that it felt good and looked good and that if any 3 of them had any sense that i would have had the best sex of my life and came all over the place (which i havent with an actual big dick ever). Then my BF and I started getting toys and That Toy Is The Most Giving Big Dick (lol) and only pays attention to whats making me feel good :)

So it hasnt always mattered to me either, it was a guy who's name and existence are completely irrelevant, and I forget the porno stars name that my toy is fashioned after.
 

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I wonder how many other woman have switched from "it doesn't matter" to "it definitely does" at some point. Personally, I spent most of my life telling myself and my ex husband that it wasn't an issue. He was very self conscious about his cock and I tried to make him feel OK. But his self pity over it went on for the whole 15 years.

I was always a little interested in the idea of a big dicks. We watched porn and I saw a few at work. It wasn't till I met my current husband that I go a chance to try a big one. What I wasn't ready for was how much different and better is was. I immediately changed my mind on the topic. I can't believe how much more fulfiling sex is, both giving and receiving with a bigger cock.

Any other late converts? Who was it that changed your mind?
Sure does matter, been told that enough, too bad you had to live with it for 15 years, long time hon !!
 

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I agree with this, I think. My boyfriend is pretty small, and though I've never actually HAD a really big cock, I'd love to try it. Still, though, even if I did, and even if I loved it, I'd never say I "can't go back" to having a small cock. So many emotions are tied to physical enjoyment...

Having said that, though, yes, my attitude changed. When all I'd had was his cock, I thought it was wonderful. Then when we started using the dildos and vibrators, I saw what I had been missing!
Hope you get the chance to try a few real cocks hon big and try real big you will enjoy, alot different than big dildos and vibrators babe you may not have a problem going back to a small one because of your emotions but I guarantee you will miss the big ones and wont be able to forget the different feeling you get.