Did your father ever talk to you about? (18+ only)

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My dad caught me masturbating one afternoon in the basement. Pretty obvious what I was doing. Shorts were around my knees, dick was out the leg hole of my briefs. I was embarrassed when he caught me, he wasn’t. He gave me a brief talk about masturbation. Surprised that he admitted he did it regularly too
My stepdad caught me to and was the same "don't worry it's fine, i do it to in the shower almost every morning like i know you do to, you don't take so long for nothing but i'd rather you ddi it after casue other need the bathroom"
 

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No, not my dad. He did give the birds and the bees talk though but didn't really cover jerking off.
My neighbour did though. It was very coded and came about after he caught me fondling myself in the pool.
 

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My stepdad caught me to and was the same "don't worry it's fine, i do it to in the shower almost every morning like i know you do to, you don't take so long for nothing but i'd rather you ddi it after casue other need the bathroom"
the talk can be more awkward than getting caught
 

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My parents we're/are open so I saw them naked.
They never talked with us about masturbation or wet dreams.

My girlfriend and I are easygoing.
Nudity is normal in our house.
All of us walk how their mood is. No clothes, only a t-shirt, a boxer...so our sons saw us Naked.
They can ask without issues sexy related questions.
 

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My father is a raging alcoholic so I was not interested in talking to him about anything, much less jerking off. The only time we kinda had a conversation about it was after I got home late from a school trip and he drunkenly told me to “relieve myself” after being away when all I wanted was for him to go away.
 

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My father is a raging alcoholic so I was not interested in talking to him about anything, much less jerking off. The only time we kinda had a conversation about it was after I got home late from a school trip and he drunkenly told me to “relieve myself” after being away when all I wanted was for him to go away.
Sorry to hear that, man. My old man was a real disappointment too. *hugs*
 

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My parents where never together as my mother got pregnant by accident. I knew who my father was but never much contact. Until my mother migrated to Portugal and I wanted to study in the Netherlands. We decided to try to move in with dad till I found my own place. I was almost 19 by then.
Worked out pretty good. Off course by that time I had discovered masturbation myself. After few days he put white towels on my desk. Didn’t know what to think of it so I asked over dinner that evening. He just told me I could use them to cum in. The colored ones are for after shower and the white ones for cum.
That silly talk opened everything up and after that we had mature and honest talks about everything including sex and masturbation.
 

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My parents where never together as my mother got pregnant by accident. I knew who my father was but never much contact. Until my mother migrated to Portugal and I wanted to study in the Netherlands. We decided to try to move in with dad till I found my own place. I was almost 19 by then.
Worked out pretty good. Off course by that time I had discovered masturbation myself. After few days he put white towels on my desk. Didn’t know what to think of it so I asked over dinner that evening. He just told me I could use them to cum in. The colored ones are for after shower and the white ones for cum.
That silly talk opened everything up and after that we had mature and honest talks about everything including sex and masturbation.
Your dad sounds amazing!
He understands male needs.
 

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Your dad sounds amazing!
He understands male needs.
He is a man, so male behavior should be known to him. Haha.
He is amazing and lived a bachelor lifestyle. Brought dates to his bedroom often.
 

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My dad and I are super close and have always been totally open with sex and jerking. I figured it out on my own and he's seen me do it and it was/is no big deal. I'll give an example where I was 18 to keep in line with the thread.
I was on my bed jerking off when he came in to talk to me about a bad grade I got in math. He told me why he came in and he said he was disappointed I got another bad grade. I reminded him again I can never understand it even with a tutor. He said dinner was almost ready and he would keep it warm if I wasn't finished yet. I hadnt stopped masturbating during our conversation and he was allowing me more time if I needed it.

That's our relationship.
 

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Not a syllable on any sexual topics. He is kinda conservative. When he helped me prepare to the health education exam we skipped the parts where sex was mentioned.
 
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