Did your first partner know you were a virgin?

Did your first sex partner know you were a virgin?

  • Yes!

    Votes: 188 47.2%
  • No!

    Votes: 100 25.1%
  • I don't know.

    Votes: 25 6.3%
  • I'm still a virgin.

    Votes: 85 21.4%

  • Total voters
    398

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Well, it was over 20 years ago and I lost touch with everyone from that part of my life right around that time.
If I hadn't told her she never would have known. We'd been sleeping together for months at that point. What would be the point of telling her beforehand? She was happy.
 

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for the record i am not brett favre (the guy pictured in my avatar). i am the skinny hipster type and really didn't expect to be taken seriously. i have no idea if favre is packing nor do i know if the packers/vikings locker rooms resemble a gay or roman bath house.

ROFLMAO... he really fell for it for a second...
 

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The first guy that I messed around with, I told him...However, after using and abusing my poor little hole, he tells me "And you said you were a virgin? I don't believe you!" ...wtf? The first time was so much pain. However, after finding a position that works with me, it's not so bad... I owe all that I know to porn. :) It was in a way an educational video.
 

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She was aware, but still made it very clear that she really wanted to have sex with me. I had no desire to hang on to my virginity, as I was 20 at the time, and she was gorgeous, so no complaints on my side!

I'll never forget it. After inserting about three quarters of my member, I got the classic "Oh my GOD! You're so BIG!", complete with writhing and gasping and all those other beautiful things women do in the throes of pleasure. I thought she might have been stroking my ego, but after she came twice, she had to pull off me and stop. She said that my size would take some getting used to. I'll never forget what she said then: "You're not bullshitting me, are you? There's no way you can be a virgin." Best first time EVAR.
 

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this was about two years ago. she knew i was a virgin.
and actually, i met her on this site! :)
 

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yep, I was. she wasn't, and about a year older. she was visiting her relatives in the neighborhood for a few weeks. she balled a couple neighborhood buddies of mine first, and one day, it was my day. she must have liked what I have, cuz she kept coming back for more everyday. the week I lost my virginity I was getting laid more than anybody in the hood. ah, to be 16 again!!!

a couple of weeks and you filled the last week and she still had a few buddies prior? what a trip ahaha.

in all seroousness if she was 17 i wouldn't want to see what she is working with at 32
 

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Yes, we were both virgins at 17... We had worked up to it for months and we were both very ready for it.

He couldn't believe I had never been with another guy. Said I was a natural... He still says I am a natural.... and we still have mind blowing sex after all these years..........
 

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. . . I was 35 and it was in our wedding night. . . .
Is there an encouraging, romantic story behind this? My wife & I took each other's virginity on our wedding night, but we were both 23 - which, at the time, seemed like a rather old age to start having sex. (Since then I've learned it isn't as rare as most young people believe.) We had met just a year and two weeks before we married, so there wasn't a really long period where we had to discipline ourselves to wait.

(You can read my experience as a Wedding Night Virgin if you wish. The moderator thinks I made it up - but, I was there; he wasn't.)