Didn't know I was hung... seriously.

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  1. hungthickdc

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    Just discovered this site. Thought I'd share my experience. I'm a gay man in my early 40's. Never had any sexual encounters of any kind with a woman... even when young. Always knew I was gay and thought it silly to fuck around with a woman ... and luckily never felt forced by my family or peers to prove my heterosexuality. That said, I ended up in a 15+ year relationship with the very first man I had sex with. My partner would tell me I had a large penis.. it was much larger than his, and I always figured his was just small. (Later I discovered he was of average size.) After we broke up, I went through what I call my "slut" phase. I guess I was making up for my lost time when I was younger. It was a real eye opener. When hooking up with guys, I would invariably get reactions when my pants came off. It was weird at first... to be honest, I didn't like the attention I was getting. It had the reverse effect and made me feel self-conscious. Often resulting in my not being able to maintain an erection. I guess some men would love the idea of being admired for their dick... but it makes me uncomfortable. That is one reason why I am primarily a bottom. I've also resorted to seeking out men with larger than average endownment because I found that many men were intimidated by my size. They would think that since I was much bigger than they were, I wouldn't be satisfied by them. (Seems there is this weird ideology that the one with the bigger dick is supposed to be the top.) I'm also finding that many men with large endowments have egos to match.

    Anyone have a similar experience?
     
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    Sorry to hear you haven't had great experiences, I am not hung myself and really appeciate a big cock. Never thought about it from this perspective before. You should be proud of it man, you are very lucky (how big are you? any pictures?)
    I wish i was admired for my cock size... but i guess i am happy to be admired for my cock hamdling skills ;-)

    Robski :) x
     
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    sorry.. no pics... but it's definitely a "grower"... When erect, it's 8.5 inches long but I think what impresses guys is that it's 8 inches around. I find even the Magnum XL condoms are tight.
     
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    8" around!!! NO WAY!!!... Sexy... I have only been with one guy that big. He was about 10.5" x 8" and thank god he was a bottom or i think he would have ruined my internal organs if he was a top.
    I loved the feeling of his meaty cock in my hands and looking and seeing that my fingers were soooo not touching and i tried to grasp that thick pole. I loved fucking hi on his back and holding onto his cock with both hands and it still poking out the top of my fists! LOL

    wow 8"... i would love to see that man... GET A CAM!!! you are a lucky lucky lucky man... the only way you could have been luckier, is if i was your boyfriend ;-) wink wink
     
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    Yes... it truly is 8" thick. I've never met a man as thick as me. I think that's what impresses people most. It's not that it's considerably longer than average... but that it's so thick.
     
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    wow man impressive... would love to cam2cam with you :-D
     
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    I am a big guy too Hungthick and am indirectly familiar with your feelings about your big cock! I do not share those feelings, but I have topped so many guys with very large cocks that I know the sentiment exists that the largest guy will inevitably be the top! Interesting thing is that this sentiment exists less now than say 50 years ago.. then it was almost a fact of male sex and it even carried over into the naiscent porno industry way back then! I did a stint there and was always billed as some sort of TOP! I did have to do a 69 with an Arab stud one time because he like me had a 9 + inch long X 7+ inch thick cock! You are right that you are the odd man among men.. so sorry though that you are not empowered by that exclusivity rather than being self-conscious! The ideal thing is when you have the equipment to accomplish any job that another guy might desire and you can muster the interest , the courage and yes the balls to do the job and feel good about yourself and your wonderful big cock.. it is more a blessing than a curse you know! I wish all the best for you and hope that sex with your big cock will always be a rewarding experience for you as it has been for me!:rolleyes: :wink: :smile:
     
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    Because you haven't spent a lifetime with multiple partners in the gay community, you never got the unfortunate ongoing cock worship that ruins so many otherwise decent gay guys who happen to be hung. Too many guys start believing their own press, that if they have a big dick, that that is ALL they need in order to be a worthwhile person, and unfortunately, too many people play up to that image. While I am not hung myself, I have been with a wide range of partners with differing sizes. Frankly, I have never gone to bed with someone because of their dicks--I rarely know what they have BEFORE we go to bed, because until that moment, it isn;t important. THe person who owns the dick IS important. I have been with a few large partners who I guess have been used to being cock worshipped, or at least having their partners focused on JUST their dicks. I had a few ask me what I thought of their dicks, when I wasn;t commenting on them--I guess they were expecting it. I told them, quite honestly, that Ithought it was wonderful and fantastic, because it was a part of HIM, and that I was there because I liked HIM< and by secondary effect, loved his cock. Some big guys were suprised and pleased, some were suprised, and disappointed, that I wasn't fawning enough over their dicks. Whatever. You don't have to seek out larger than average endowed guys to avoid your situation. You just have to seek out better endowed minds, hearts, and personalities. I STILL subscribe to the idea, that if two people have chemistry, and a connection, and enough in common and enough to balance each other, and are truly attracted to each other, you find and MAKE ways of making it work. THe human imagination, and ability to be creative is truly a wonderous thing, and can solve a nearly infinate variety of problems. THe same can be said in bed, if people would just allow themselves to think outside the box a little, communicate, and be willing to compormise and be creative. Hang in there--you didn't make it work with someone for 15+ years being stupid and selfish--nor being an egotist. No reason to change now--just be you, and let others be themselves, and find the ones who balance YOU! Good luck!
     
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    I suggest very strongly that you read this post over carefully hungthick dc...davidjh7 has laced it with keen insight and sage advice!:cool: :smile:
     
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    Thank you, donkey--it came from the heart.:smile:
     
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    Davidjh7, you've delivered again. Your posts are invariably insightful as well as empathetic, but this is one of your best.
     
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