Just discovered this site. Thought I'd share my experience. I'm a gay man in my early 40's. Never had any sexual encounters of any kind with a woman... even when young. Always knew I was gay and thought it silly to fuck around with a woman ... and luckily never felt forced by my family or peers to prove my heterosexuality. That said, I ended up in a 15+ year relationship with the very first man I had sex with. My partner would tell me I had a large penis.. it was much larger than his, and I always figured his was just small. (Later I discovered he was of average size.) After we broke up, I went through what I call my "slut" phase. I guess I was making up for my lost time when I was younger. It was a real eye opener. When hooking up with guys, I would invariably get reactions when my pants came off. It was weird at first... to be honest, I didn't like the attention I was getting. It had the reverse effect and made me feel self-conscious. Often resulting in my not being able to maintain an erection. I guess some men would love the idea of being admired for their dick... but it makes me uncomfortable. That is one reason why I am primarily a bottom. I've also resorted to seeking out men with larger than average endownment because I found that many men were intimidated by my size. They would think that since I was much bigger than they were, I wouldn't be satisfied by them. (Seems there is this weird ideology that the one with the bigger dick is supposed to be the top.) I'm also finding that many men with large endowments have egos to match. Anyone have a similar experience?