My girlfriends ex was 8.5 x 6.5. She has told me a few times how big he was. She told me how she could only get her mouth half way down it. She has told me how soar she would be the next morning. She had been sleeping with him up until 2 days before we slept together. I am a 5.5 x 5.5. He is 3 in longer and 1 in thicker. That is alot! She has said well he just hurt anyway (probably to make me feel good). What differences do you think she notices when we have sex?