Here's the thing: I fantasize about huge cocks almost exclusively, but it's mostly sucking them off that I dream about. I'm actually extremely tight for a woman of my age, and sometimes I realize that even an average-sized guy can feel painful during vaginal intercourse. I can think of one hung guy who fucked me without causing pain, but it's been the exception rather than the rule. Size is mostly a turn-on for me orally and visually. I love being face-slapped and throat-fucked by big dicks. I love the power of a really thick, uncut cock in my face...but when it comes to fucking, I can't always take it all easily. I don't imagine many straight women are in my boat, but maybe some of you gay men are - you love sucking off big boys, but can't take them all anally? ** Sorry for the typo in the title - it won't let me edit it, alas. Insert an "in" between "difference" and "size", please! EDIT: got that for you, v.