Differences between masturbation and sex

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  1. drdna

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    When I masturbate, I can have an orgasm in 30-60 seconds consistently, but when I am making love with a woman, it lasts 30-60 MINUTES. Even if I am going all out and slamming away as hard and as fast as I can, it still takes 15-20 minutes of nonstop pounding. Does anyone have this problem or noticed a difference between masturbation and sexual intercourse?
     
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    While masturbating the value is teasing yourself (edging), prolonging the experience for a much derserved explosive climax and satisfying YOU.....and when you're with a partner it's about pleasing them.....and then yourself. So slow down when solo, and be happy you can delay the orgasam with a partner so you BOTH can enjoy the encounter to an explosive conclusion.
     
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    Excellent analysis dude!

     
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    im not a sensitive as the next guy, i dont cum from sex, i dont know if i ever will
     
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    One big difference is that my right hand never has a headache.
     
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    There are huge differences between masturbation and intercourse.. there are also lots of factors at play..

    I mean When I masturbate I can basically cum anytime I want as fast or as slow as I want, but just because i shoot a load doesn't mean that I had an orgasm.

    Its actually extremely hard for me to bring myself to orgasm.. as my mind and body have to be in sync with each other and have to be in a special place.

    Part of it could also be the tightness of the grip used.. since in many cases a guy will masturbate with a much tighter grip than can be obtained from anal or vaginal penetration.


    I'm glad to know I'm not the only guy with this problem.. I am unable to cum from actual penetration.. like when I'm topping.. I've come close once or twice, but thats rare as most bottoms get off too quickly or they start to hurt from a prolonged fucking.. and due to my thickness..

    draw22.. Just curious are you cut or uncut?.. I've always been curious if that is part of the reason that I can't cum from sex..

    do u ever cum from sex, or is it that you just can't cum when you are topping.. I know I think i've cum once or twice when bottoming, but my mind and body really has to be relaxed and into the entire experience..

    and it can be really frustrating once the other guy gets off and wants me to get off at the same time or similar time, as normally once a guy cums he looses all interest in sex and just wants things to be over with and stops touching my body and stuff.. so that really makes it impossible to cum.. if i'm not being touched, have lack of mental stimili such as porn, and then the pressure of them wanting me to get off..
     
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