Well at 7" im usually on the larger side BUT not always. Im not embarrased or anything. We are all different. I have been surprised. One of the first swing parties we went to was a summer kickoff. Probably 75 or so people. This young guy 25 or so and his pregnant wife come up and start talking to us. He makes it very obvious he "wants" my wife. He asks me if i'm ok with that. I say fine...his wife says shes good so we all go to an upstairs bedroom. She starts giving me a blowjob but does'nt want penetration. Ok. I look over and her husband unleashes a long cock. Probably 9" or 10". Wife grabs it and starts jacking it to a full hard on. I was a little surprised. Anyway i asked her later and she said it was ok but he was'nt very imaginative in its use.