Why do you think that you/women have such different experiences of orgasm from other women?
Do you mean that physically, emotionally, psychologically etc? or a jumble mix n match of all things?
I couldn't have said it better myself. Well done!Why is the sky blue?
Gillette's right. We are who we are. Some of us can't orgasm, some experience clitoral orgasms only, some vaginal only, some can experience cervical, some all three, some orgasm from nipple play, etc. I think a woman's sexuality and body is often more, well, nuanced, than a man's. Hidden places to discover, varied sensations. It's one of the wonderful things about being a woman. Always more treasure to be found.
I figured you were referring to that fact that the vast majority of men orgasm during every sexual encounter, whereas many women don't always get there (my wife included). All men are also individuals yet we seem to more often reach a similar conclusion during sex....the orgasm.
I thinks it's an interesting question LordP.
I can personally certify this as dead wrong.but mostly I think us guys' orgasm feels the same way, from guy to guy and from time to time.
I think it's a very interesting question too. I've heard this about the female orgasm my whole life...there are millions of different ways it can feel, but mostly I think us guys' orgasm feels the same way, from guy to guy and from time to time. Now, there are subtle differences now & then....I'm not sure it's enough of a difference in the overall outcome, for males.
Surely there must be.
I've had reports of it being felt in different ways by men. Pinky fingers tingling from oral, feeling like the top of their head was blowing off, thighs going numb, sometimes being able to continue stroking throughout orgasm sometimes paralysis as the orgasm grabs 'em by the spine.
There must be more to it than just a scale of intensity for you guys.
Mustn't there?
i've only one part of me that triggers orgasms...my clit.Not only do I have different stimulus zones that can trigger my orgasms (Clit/vaginal/cervical/g-spot/labial/anal/mental), but an orgasm triggered in the exact same manner as it was triggered the day before can feel remarkably different than it did the last time.
Why is the sky blue?
Gillette's right. We are who we are. Some of us can't orgasm, some experience clitoral orgasms only, some vaginal only, some can experience cervical, some all three, some orgasm from nipple play, etc. I think a woman's sexuality and body is often more, well, nuanced, than a man's. Hidden places to discover, varied sensations. It's one of the wonderful things about being a woman. Always more treasure to be found.
All of those things.
What's more my own experience of my own orgasms is different from one time to the next. It's never as simple as a rating from zero to ten. Not only do I have different stimulus zones that can trigger my orgasms (Clit/vaginal/cervical/g-spot/labial/anal/mental), but an orgasm triggered in the exact same manner as it was triggered the day before can feel remarkably different than it did the last time. It could be a feeling of slow shuddering melting or I could feel it as a sudden explosion of released pressure. Those are only two of many possible ways that I have experienced an orgasm. And I'm just one woman.
Now take the fact that there are endless women, each with attitudes, thoughts, moods, energy levels and hormones all in flux. .
Think of a woman's orgasm as the unfrigid snowflake.
No two will ever be identical.