Hi all. I'm new. Never thought I was very big before until now. Thanks. I think the reason is the appearance of my physical stature. I viewed some photos and saw guys with cocks that looked enormous, only to find out that my own is just as big as many. Then I realized that alot of you look much more slimly built than I. So I took some measurements and found it interesting. Please follow suit if you think so too. 1) I am 6ft tall, 215lbs. 2) My penis is 7" long erect and just over 5 inches around 3) My back, shoulder to shoulder measures 22.5" wide 4) My hips measure 17 inches wide 5) My thighs are muscled from years of working on ladders, and measure 9inches wide each. What I have now begun to realize is that my penis, however large, appears dwarfed by my "imposing" features around the rest of my body, and has caused me years of naive shame. When put on a slimmer build of man, it would be quite alot to look at. And maybe the girls I've been with weren't just being nice. ( I'm not kidding, to me standing in front of a mirror it LOOKS small). So, Measure those areas, and lets see if I'm just crazy. I want to know if anyone feels inadequate just based on body proportion. And women (or gay guys): Does a large penis lose its visual apeal when placed on a large man, or when you look at the dick, are you just focused on the size of the dick. If you saw two pictures of naked men with the exact penile dimensions, one with my build and one who was quite slimmer, which would you be most attracted to at first glance? Why? Be honest, and like I said I'm new. So if this has already been discussed, please disregard it.