mao: One of my friends is large - 8.5" - and when we've had (drunken) chats, he always surprises me by saying that he can't believe 6" is the average as it just seems so small to him. Now from my perspective, 6" seems quite normal and average and I'm probably more correct in seeing him as being big and not me as being small! I suppose as a straight guy he hasn't really seen other guys erect in the flesh (whereas as a gay bloke I KNOW he's big!). Is this true with other big guys? Do you view yourselves as big, or that your size is the normal size and those of the average size as small? For the really big guys - 10", 11", 12" plus, would you see my mate as small and me as tiny?!