Digital stimulation.

[Tight_N_Juicy]

You may be right, but it's still a good reason for the rest of us. And ya never know, maybe one person will take away a technique or 2.

*Read. Not reason. Fuckin autocorrect.

 

[Englishmansabroad]

Thank you lovely.. and you're onto something there. Part of the reason I started the thread was to be a possible eye opener to the fellas who seen to think cock is the only key to a woman's physical pleasure.

Well actually I often found that I felt a bit pressured to perform in that way, and would have liked just to concentrate just on the girls pleasure tight...

I guess I'm not an average guy though- or maybe its just that I'm getting old:I actually remember the 80s?!!.I'm sure women aren't like that now. Cocks are so Ronald Reagan and Bananarama.

 

[Max_Polo]

Badass.

He is doing something that gives you pleasure.

Relationships are about giving, not taking.

Bonus that he enjoys it too even though his priority is your pleasure!

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Well actually I often found that I felt a bit pressured to perform in that way, and would have liked just to concentrate just on the girls pleasure tight....

Fair point, but speaking strictly as a member here... I'm kinda teasing the fellas who try to pressure is into admitting that everything about sex and our pleasure gained from it as women revolves around their cock.

Just sayin

 

[Max_Polo]

everything about sex and our pleasure gained from it as women revolves around their cock.

That's bullshit of course.

Beauty (pleasure) is in the eye (vagina or wherever else) of the beholder (both donor and recipient)!

If my wife wants a quiet evening with me feeding the kids and getting them to bed, then relaxing in the jacuzzi, then missionary fucking (tends to be her preference), so be it! If she wants dinner out, then a long pussy licking, I'm on it! If she just wants a break and an early bedtime, that's great too...it's all about her in this context.

And of course, the more I focus on her pleasure, the more she focuses on mine.

 

[Englishmansabroad]

Fair point, but speaking strictly as a member here... I'm kinda teasing the fellas who try to pressure is into admitting that everything about sex and our pleasure gained from it as women revolves around their cock.

Just sayin

Well, I did say I wasn't average, and probably don't count as a guy at all, but yes, you're right: there is to much of that from them here- especially this bigger= better nonsense obviously.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

That's bullshit of course.

Beauty (pleasure) is in the eye (vagina or wherever else) of the beholder (both donor and recipient)!
<snip>

And of course, the more I focus on her pleasure, the more she focuses on mine.

I wanted highlight the bookends of your post.
I agree with the first and I have found that while the occasional greedy boink is fun (if both are into it) focusing on partner pleasure is cyclical in that it leads, as you say, to one pleasing the other, who then focuses more on the partner.

But, I occasionally set aside a session just for him.
My pleasure is secondary to his reactions.
I'm playing him like an instrument or marionette.
And it feeds my ego to know I have power over him.

I'm pretty sure he has moments of the same intention and reaction.
I'm happy to be his toy in the moment.

 

[steveo188]

Thank you lovely.. and you're onto something there. Part of the reason I started the thread was to be a possible eye opener to the fellas who seen to think cock is the only key to a woman's physical pleasure.

It's a great thread to follow, even for those whose eyes are open.

 

[AlteredEgo]

It's a lost art, for sure.
I've had so much bad digital stimulation that I was on the don't bother train.
Then a partner into neotantra blew my mind. With two fingers.

Of course, dating a musician.... oh, the finger dexterity...

I have a platonic friend with whom I used to have bass and bass jam sessions. Sometimes I'd catch myself watching his fingers with my lids heavy, lips parted, and mind far away. I don't think we've ever been single at the same time. I could never be his life partner, God no! But if the timing was ever right, boy could he get it!

 

[AlteredEgo]

Sadly, I think those types will still think you're lying and go back to their huge dick interracial cuckold incest porn.

Just saw this. Ew. LOL

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

He did it again.

This time there was no insertion of the finger(s), he just palmed my vulva while he fondled my tits with his other hand. We were just kicking it on the couch doing nothing... And somehow I found myself laying on top of him facing up.

I felt his dick growing in his pants against my butt, and it made the sensation he was giving me more intense. I went flying over the edge and his warm hand felt my pussy pulsate as I came.

We dismissed ourselves to the bedroom and things went from there.. but those hands got to me again. Figured I should share.

 

[Max_Polo]

He did it again.

This time there was no insertion of the finger(s), he just palmed my vulva while he fondled my tits with his other hand. We were just kicking it on the couch doing nothing... And somehow I found myself laying on top of him facing up.

I felt his dick growing in his pants against my butt, and it made the sensation he was giving me more intense. I went flying over the edge and his warm hand felt my pussy pulsate as I came.

We dismissed ourselves to the bedroom and things went from there.. but those hands got to me again. Figured I should share.

Sharing = good!

I'll need to head home now.

 

[Ed69]

The magic fingers can strike at times and in ways you never expect!

 

[693987]

This morning started out with snuggles, led to his hands wandering and ended with me bent over the bed. Lazy mornings + sex = win

Edited to add: he has very large hands and is a bass player All the stuff he does with firearms leads to some good manual dexterity/strength too..

 

[ronin001]

<<<<<<<< Not a woman; but I loved this thread

 

[Nosuportneeded]

This is a technique that I discovered with my first ever partner, and I've never had a partner that didn't love it. If I could only teach one "move" to others, it would be that one. I usually use index finger and middle finger together on the G-spot, though.

And I totally understand where I suspect his mind is. It's the best feeling ever to know that you've just given your partner a rush of intense pleasure without expecting anything in return. There's a purity in it that is addictive.

Not gonna lie. Learned this from porn in high school. It ain't all bad

 

[Nosuportneeded]

Lately he's been really into using his fingers in me. We seem to be going through a g-spot phase or something. It's absolutely sexy, sometimes he'll just start caressing my vulva over my pants/shorts/panties and quietly say "take em off" or even just pull em to the side and finger me to climax.

Then he washes his hands, and just sits back down like nothing happened. Doesn't pull his dick out, doesn't ask for reciprocation at all. Well, sometimes it kinda goes in that direction... But something about the past month or so, he just seems to wants to finger me off and watch me glow after for awhile.

I really love his use of middle finger on my G while he just puts gentle pressure on my clit with his thumb. Badass.

I'll keep you all posted on his techniques, and feel free to share your own experiences.

The man has game. To walk away like that is bad ass

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Not gonna lie. Learned this from porn in high school. It ain't all bad

I agree.. I've picked up some techniques from watching porn flicks. It can be useful to gain a little inspiration. It becomes an issue when people think it's a tool to educate themselves.

The man has game. To walk away like that is bad ass

Truth. He knows exactly how to turn me into the gooiest goo puddle... And I know how to melt him into a sloppy pile of satisfied as well. Tis a wonderful thing.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Digital stimulation...

He was playing The Division. Dark zone. Co-op. I decided to massage his scalp, which he loves. When he was visibly relaxed, and gave a little moan, I took it as my cue to reach into his pants. Apparently, no one else has ever blown him while he was gaming. I encouraged him to keep playing, but it was devastation upon his performance in the game. I've never seen him die so many times in five minutes. Just a teaser. I didn't finish him.

 

[Nosuportneeded]

Digital stimulation...

He was playing The Division. Dark zone. Co-op. I decided to massage his scalp, which he loves. When he was visibly relaxed, and gave a little moan, I took it as my cue to reach into his pants. Apparently, no one else has ever blown him while he was gaming. I encouraged him to keep playing, but it was devastation upon his performance in the game. I've never seen him die so many times in five minutes. Just a teaser. I didn't finish him.

Witty one, that post.

I was once blown while on the telephone. Could not talk. At all. I can drive during a blowy, but that thinking shit is out the window. It's true what Robin Williams said about men having two heads but only enough blood for one at a time