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This morning before work, he got me off again with those fingers if his.

I was getting my clothes in order, about to get dressed for the day. He started caressing my body. I swatted his hand away playfully and told him I didn't want to be all flustered and riled up at work.. he replied by saying "How about if I send you off *satisfied* instead?" With this sexy smirk on his face.

I just say back and he got right to it. He knew we were pressed for time so he went straight for the kill and had me cumming in a matter of minutes.

Then I went to work, after cleaning up my very happy pussy... And he just washed his hands, and say back like nothing happened.
 

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IME, there is a decent percentage of women uncomfortable with this sort of complete focus on them. Even if you explain that my focus on your pleasure excites ME, my experience has been some are skittish. I think it is wonderfully rewarding for a guy when a woman completely lets go and welcomes his full and complete attention to pleasing her.
 

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IME, there is a decent percentage of women uncomfortable with this sort of complete focus on them. Even if you explain that my focus on your pleasure excites ME, my experience has been some are skittish. I think it is wonderfully rewarding for a guy when a woman completely lets go and welcomes his full and complete attention to pleasing her.

I think sexuality has been geared towards man pleasing for a long time... Long enough that perhaps some women feel odd being the focus of the experience. Just a thought that popped into my noggin. I'm sure there are a variety of factors at play.

I'm pleased (in several ways) that I'm not one of those ladies. I don't mind being the center of attention ;):p
 

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This morning before work, he got me off again with those fingers if his.

I was getting my clothes in order, about to get dressed for the day. He started caressing my body. I swatted his hand away playfully and told him I didn't want to be all flustered and riled up at work.. he replied by saying "How about if I send you off *satisfied* instead?" With this sexy smirk on his face.

I just say back and he got right to it. He knew we were pressed for time so he went straight for the kill and had me cumming in a matter of minutes.

Then I went to work, after cleaning up my very happy pussy... And he just washed his hands, and say back like nothing happened.
Dayum.
 

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I think sexuality has been geared towards man pleasing for a long time... Long enough that perhaps some women feel odd being the focus of the experience. Just a thought that popped into my noggin. I'm sure there are a variety of factors at play.

I'm pleased (in several ways) that I'm not one of those ladies. I don't mind being the center of attention ;):p

Won't speak for others, but I love it when my wife can just relax and enjoy herself - and not think about me. It is (I suppose paradoxically) intoxicatingly fantastic.
 
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So this finger-phase is going strong, to the point I felt the need to mention it. I asked him why his hands just can't keep themselves away from my squish-mitten lately, not with any complaint tho...

He kinda shrugged and just said "I dunno, I just wanna watch you squirm I guess. I love feeling those muscles clench down." I got a bit flustered, couldn't help but be obvious about it either. I asked why he doesn't pull his dick out. He gets hard every time. *Every* time. But, lately it doesn't lead straight to sex. It's just all about me having an orgasm, and relaxing. He answers "I guess I just want to tease myself and build it up for later".

I credit this to an evolving, healthy sexual relationship. Some people have asked how to keep a LTR interesting. Things like this... Serving it up, switching it up, and gaining pleasure from your partner's enjoyment are working great for us.
 

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Squish-mitten is my new favourite name for... squish-mittens.

It seemed fitting... Being that it's is a particularly squishy spot, and he's been so into using his hands :p
 

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So this finger-phase is going strong, to the point I felt the need to mention it. I asked him why his hands just can't keep themselves away from my squish-mitten lately, not with any complaint tho...

He kinda shrugged and just said "I dunno, I just wanna watch you squirm I guess. I love feeling those muscles clench down." I got a bit flustered, couldn't help but be obvious about it either. I asked why he doesn't pull his dick out. He gets hard every time. *Every* time. But, lately it doesn't lead straight to sex. It's just all about me having an orgasm, and relaxing. He answers "I guess I just want to tease myself and build it up for later".

I credit this to an evolving, healthy sexual relationship. Some people have asked how to keep a LTR interesting. Things like this... Serving it up, switching it up, and gaining pleasure from your partner's enjoyment are working great for us.


Plus 1 on the build up for later. I had a sneaking suspicion. Love this guy; wish we could grab a beer and a toke
 
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Isnt "digital stimulation" just watching HD porn?

In some cases, yes. In this case, it's all about how he stimulates and satisfies my body with his digits (fingers) :p

Plus 1 on the build up for later. I had a sneaking suspicion. Love this guy; wish we could grab a beer and a toke

So do I... So very much :)
 
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Only that?

Of course not.. tehehe! :p

Really tho, sometimes when I'm rubbing his back/legs while we're chillin on the couch it leads to his digits to wander into the warmth of the squish mitten.

So, it's all on topic ;)
 

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I remember giving massage prior to my career change. Back when it didn't intimidate my partner.
Now, they seem concerned I'm judging their technique.
And since I'm small, they are afraid to lean in and squish me.

Noooo. Don't try for deep tissue and I can turn the Inner Editor off.pleaae squish me a bit.