Dildo help

bigguy4u

Legendary Member
Joined
May 7, 2007
Posts
506
Media
33
Likes
1,094
Points
348
Location
Stockton (California, United States)
Sexuality
80% Gay, 20% Straight
Gender
Male
For the guys here who do use didlos on them self do you get any satisfaction out of it? After reading a lot about prostate stimulation I thought id give it a try. I ordered a Mr. Jellie 8x5 which could be too big for starters but it was 3 bucks on amazon its pink, cut and really veiny. Anyways I was trying it out and it took so long to get it in there that I finally gave up! I tried it again the next night and got it in but didn't feel any stimmulation, was I doing something wrong?? I used plenty of lube and tried a few different position and no satisfaction. Any suggestions???

Thanks
 

unabear09

Expert Member
Joined
Jul 17, 2007
Posts
6,764
Media
14
Likes
230
Points
283
Sexuality
90% Straight, 10% Gay
Gender
Male
it takes patience and time. personally, I have to be in a certain mood to stick anything up my ass. I love the sensation (and the orgasms....both anal, prostate, and regular) IF I'm in the mood. I've tried inserting something when I wasn't in the mood, and it basically sucked. It just felt like I had a big turd stuck up in me.

If I were you, I'd back off a bit. Finger yourself really good and get good and warmed up. You'll know you are ready for insertion, as you will start craving something other than a finger or two. Hope that helps
 

matt121matt121

Cherished Member
Joined
Jan 4, 2007
Posts
1,360
Media
16
Likes
294
Points
283
Location
Fort Lauderdale, Florida
Sexuality
100% Gay, 0% Straight
Gender
Male
I ordered a Mr. Jellie 8x5 which could be too big for starters but it was 3 bucks on amazon its pink, cut and really veiny.

Could you possibly post the link to it on amazon? so we can see what it is your trying to use...

That would be great and then I'll be sure to provide a more thorough answer soon...
 

bigguy4u

Legendary Member
Joined
May 7, 2007
Posts
506
Media
33
Likes
1,094
Points
348
Location
Stockton (California, United States)
Sexuality
80% Gay, 20% Straight
Gender
Male
Last edited:

D_Jerry_Atric

Account Disabled
Joined
Jan 9, 2008
Posts
741
Media
0
Likes
37
Points
103
Sexuality
No Response
Use a condom on it, makes for easier clean up. Go slow and use lots of lube. The dildo is 8 inches so you don't have to stick it all the way in.

It's always possible that you're not wired for receptive anal sex. Not everyone is.
 

BBB2.5

Worshipped Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Posts
9,136
Media
127
Likes
18,399
Points
468
Age
58
Location
Unadilla, Georgia, United States
Verification
View
Sexuality
100% Gay, 0% Straight
Gender
Male
Question? are your a bottom? Do you enjoy anal sex in general?
Don't expect anal satisfaction so soon. It took many of us a long time before we learned how to actually feel all that was going on. Practice and patients. Breathing and flexing your all muscles will help you along the way.
Most of all, you have to enjoy the fun of it all.

:biggrin1: