Dildo sizes and realism.

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I just bought my first two realistic dildos.


When I opened them up I instantly realized just how huge one of them was. Seeing it up close, to my face...This is a big dildo!
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The other dildo is smaller but I wouldn't call it small, but I instantly thought to myself, I'm bigger than this thing.

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Curious, I figured why not try to measure these two dildos, see how big they really are. Just Eyeballing them I guessed dildo 1 was 8 inches and dildo 2 was 6inches.

Well, I kinda want to see what sizes you guys think they are based solely on my pics of them in my hands... guess big, small, average, or even exact lengths if you want.

I'll post reveal pics of them later.
 

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Sorry, I kinda abandoned the thread out of seeming disinterest.

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I don't have a girth measurement pic but it's 5.5 inches.

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This one's girth is 4.5.

What really got to me was just how big the first dildo really is upclose to my face. It's somewhat similar to my size when fully bonepressed. Also, it looks smaller in pics being held in my hands so now I can see how big hands and far away distance really messes with self perception.
 

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I'm the same girth as the smaller one, but about an inch longer.

I'm surprised you thought it wasn't really small. I keep feeling mine is viewed as small because of its slender 4.5" girth.
 

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Yes, sorry it was late but she absolutely did.

@Scott8361 The smaller one does not seem small when in my hands and up close. Just smaller than me. But that also breaks my mindset because I never felt more big than holding that bigger toy after measuring it. The smaller dildo is almost exactly the average size and I kinda wish I could have most men who feel small or cant accept they're big get to hold it in their hands.

If they are like me, they won't think it's small but definitely realize they are bigger or even scarily bigger than average. If their ego can't accept that after... I dunno what to say other than ignorance and denial are powerful.
 

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Yes, sorry it was late but she absolutely did.

@Scott8361 The smaller one does not seem small when in my hands and up close. Just smaller than me. But that also breaks my mindset because I never felt more big than holding that bigger toy after measuring it. The smaller dildo is almost exactly the average size and I kinda wish I could have most men who feel small or cant accept they're big get to hold it in their hands.

If they are like me, they won't think it's small but definitely realize they are bigger or even scarily bigger than average. If their ego can't accept that after... I dunno what to say other than ignorance and denial are powerful.

Exactly. Even if we discount all the obvious forum trolls and SPHers, this site is chock full of guys who think their penis is way smaller than reality dictates, and sadly allow it to ruin part or sometimes all of their life.
 

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Most importantly, have you tried them yet? How did they feel?
Oh, is that important? Lol

Yes I tried to use them but I'm not the best person to ask for anal/prostate pleasure as something is wrong with me mentally sometimes and cannot experience any pleasure from anal play.

I did however succesfully take both and the bigger one was slightly painful and uncomfortable at first. The average sized one was actually perfect and I had no problems with it at all.
 

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Exactly. Even if we discount all the obvious forum trolls and SPHers, this site is chock full of guys who think their penis is way smaller than reality dictates, and sadly allow it to ruin part or sometimes all of their life.
Yes, I was one of them somewhat. I never felt like I had a big dick. I never feel good about myself in general and it reflects in all aspects of myself. Even now that I have irrefutable evidence of my size now i still kinda just think "hmm neat."

But I also want to help all the other guys who have the dick dysmorphia like I did and suffering anxiety even though they are quite large. This dildo really helped me with that and maybe my posting can help others out if even only slightly.
 

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I did however succesfully take both and the bigger one was slightly painful and uncomfortable at first. The average sized one was actually perfect and I had no problems with it at all.

Thanks for taking one (er, I mean two) for the team and giving feedback!

I think your observation is exactly what a lot of the women who post on this site have been saying about their experiences.
 

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Yes, I was one of them somewhat. I never felt like I had a big dick. I never feel good about myself in general and it reflects in all aspects of myself. Even now that I have irrefutable evidence of my size now i still kinda just think "hmm neat."

But I also want to help all the other guys who have the dick dysmorphia like I did and suffering anxiety even though they are quite large. This dildo really helped me with that and maybe my posting can help others out if even only slightly.
Thank you for writing this. It's what I've tried to do here any time I see guys getting down on themselves about size.
 
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Can we not see your dick next to these dildo toys. That would be a better compare
Hmm, I can try to do that but it seems impossible. See, I have to push back all the fat to show all my cock with one hand and hold the camera in a way that goes over my massive belly. Yup gross. But now I need a third hand to hold the dildo as well. Then there's the issue of the base and suction cup adding length that gets compared as well as all my fat and thighs. It just will look horrible. But I'll try.

But hey, I can understand if anyone thinks I'm lying or a fraud since I can't show proof of size.
 

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Yes..some of the dildos are bigger I think than the porn stars "molded" from! lol
I've read several interviews with porn actors who modeled for a replica dildo, and they all say exactly that. Their replicas are somewhat more generous than their organic penis.
 
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