Dildos - are they enjoyable?

[B_infid3l]

You're talking about Kristina on BadDragon ) I do love her videos though I am not quite interested in going as far as she does. She is amazing, I have no idea how she does some of what she does. She is on this site as well maybe she will jump on this thread. I give praise to her and her husband/ boyfriend for their wonderful vids!!!

Also I agree with you. Many women can take things the size of their arms. My wrist is right at 6 inches. I can take a 6 inch dildo if I work up to it. There are many sites dedicated to women and large insertions.

To the OP, yes I enjoy dildos very much. You're very lucky to have such a playful girlfriend and she's very lucky to have you to play with! Enjoy each other. I would hope that if she wasn't into it she would tell you. The blindfold test sounds like great fun!

Awww, thanks, submissivegirl83! <3

RobNYC - I like dildos! We have from realistic to some very unrealistic ones.

I will break out with the toys if Infid3l's not around. It's more fun to have him use them on me, though. Sounds like we do kind of similar things. I love when he turns some hentai or other porn on the screen while he uses toys or his fist while I deepthroat him. SO much fun! ...and wow! Lucky girl. I want a machine!!!

My mate got me introduced toys into our play, too. Same kind of scenario, I loved the way it felt, getting filled up, he loved watching and helping me enjoy, we were doing perineal stretching, too. It just led up to my using really large toys. I haven't come very often with only using the big toys. I usually need clit stim, too.

The more often I use them/stretch, the more I can take. When I don't use them often, I have to work back up over weeks/month or so again. We've been using big toys for years and years.

My absolute favorite toy is Bad Dragon's large 8 firmness Anthro Dragon. I have a Vergil the Drippy Dragon, too, 8 firmess, large. If anyone thinks "pics or it didn't happen", we have vids and pics of my taking them. Got Vergil down to just a hair off the base.

I get comments and questions about "not being able to feel the real thing" as if using the big toys would leave me all stretched out - I do Kegels all the time, I take pretty good care of myself, I don't overdo the stretching where I'm causing scar tissue... According to Infid3l, the way it feels when he's in me hasn't changed for him. For me, the feeling of him being in me hasn't changed either. He's still my favorite! I'd take having him in me over the toys any day. It's a totally different, fuller experience for me, and it's usually how we end our fun after playtime with the toys.

I think you should take her word for it, if she says she's enjoying them. :wink:

- Kristina

 

[cece]

So ladies, do you like them?

Dildos are great, but personally for me, it doesn't compare with the real thing. Having a piece of hot, hard, meat inside me makes it a lot more thrilling. The way a real dick thrusts is also very different and unpredictable, which adds to the excitement.

......But I always wonder if they really feel good or is she just appeasing me?

I think that if she's really wet, it must really feel good to her. It's hard to fake being wet!

 

[B_subgirrl]

I prefer vibes, but I did recently find one dildo that works for me.

I prefer long and skinny in my vibes (and in my men for that matter). I've finally found one that meets my requirements so I'm pretty excited!

 

[D_Sparroe Spongecaques]

I won't reply to any of this as i won't give any of you the satisfaction of reporting me again and having me banned.

Alteredego,i have seen your pics and you are WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY bigger than any size 14!!

 

[IntoxicatingToxin]

I won't reply to any of this as i won't give any of you the satisfaction of reporting me again and having me banned.

Alteredego,i have seen your pics and you are WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY bigger than any size 14!!

There's nothing wrong with replying to a thread. The manner in which you state your opinions, however... is the deciding factor in whether or not people choose to report you.

 

[DasLeezard]

I don't believe in shoving foreign objects (real peen and fingers aside) inside any orifice.

 

[B_infid3l]

I don't believe in shoving foreign objects (real peen and fingers aside) inside any orifice.

Well, believe it or not, it happens! I have pics to prove it. Hee, hee. Infid3l said your avatar should have been dildo atheist! :tongue:

Kidding aside, do you mean you have never tried "foreign objects" and aren't interested in trying them, or that you haven't / aren't interested and think they should not be used at all?

Saying you don't "believe", the way I am reading it at least, made me feel like you are saying you feel people shouldn't use them at all.

- Kristina

P.S. Wow, your photos are absolutely beautiful, BTW!!!

 

[RobNYC]

Thanks for the replies, the initial responses I received put me off of this site so I have not checked back for a few days. Glad to see some thoughtful replies.

As I said previously my gf is very tiny, less than 100 lbs, so she has very thin arms. She also has the ability to take the biggest toys out of any girl I have been with. She used to use the Bam toy, which is very long and hefty. She could only insert that part way because of the tremendous width. As far as my size I am about 6.5 inches long, have not measured girth yet...
I have also found my toys deteriorate, some very expensive ones, and they get a bitter smell and taste after a while and cause irritation. Cleaning doesn't help, they get thrown away. I must try the dragon toys, have been using doc Johnson.

 

[HiddenLacey]

Thanks for the replies, the initial responses I received put me off of this site so I have not checked back for a few days. Glad to see some thoughtful replies.

As I said previously my gf is very tiny, less than 100 lbs, so she has very thin arms. She also has the ability to take the biggest toys out of any girl I have been with. She used to use the Bam toy, which is very long and hefty. She could only insert that part way because of the tremendous width. As far as my size I am about 6.5 inches long, have not measured girth yet...
I have also found my toys deteriorate, some very expensive ones, and try get a bitter smell and taste after a while and cause irritation. Cleaning doesn't help, they get thrown away. I must try the dragon toys, have been using doc Johnson.

Bad Dragon toys are the bomb. I have a small Anthro after purchasing the rather large medium Vergil. I love their toys.

You may also want to try The Great American challenge. A lot of members on FistForum seem to like that toy, male and female.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Bad Dragon toys are the bomb. I have a small Anthro after purchasing the rather large medium Vergil. I love their toys.

You may also want to try The Great American challenge. A lot of members on FistForum seem to like that toy, male and female.

People actually use it . That toy scares the shit out of me!

 

[HiddenLacey]

People actually use it . That toy scares the shit out of me!

Look, now I didn't say it wasn't scary:biggrin1: I've seen it repeatedly in vids lately. I'm not interested in that large of a toy. I do wish though that the Anthro Dragon toy was in 6 inch width. I like the small one but I want more length. TO get more length you have to get more girth. 7-7.5 is the medium in girth:frown1:

 

[B_subgirrl]

Look, now I didn't say it wasn't scary:biggrin1: I've seen it repeatedly in vids lately. I'm not interested in that large of a toy. I do wish though that the Anthro Dragon toy was in 6 inch width. I like the small one but I want more length. TO get more length you have to get more girth. 7-7.5 is the medium in girth:frown1:

I was looking at them recently and found I had the same problem. To get the length I want, I have to have a lot of girth as well, and I'm really not into girth unless it's attached to a human.

 

[HiddenLacey]

I was looking at them recently and found I had the same problem. To get the length I want, I have to have a lot of girth as well, and I'm really not into girth unless it's attached to a human.

Exactly! I ordered the medium one then freaked out and changed it to a small, which would be perfect if alittle longer. I have problems with the medium vergil I can only do the first knotty part of it so I rarely play with it but the texture of the toys is wonderful I love it. I want the length just not that great of a stretch from a toy. Sounds pretty weird considering some of the stuff I'm interested in:redface:

 

[B_subgirrl]

Exactly! I ordered the medium one then freaked out and changed it to a small, which would be perfect if alittle longer. I have problems with the medium vergil I can only do the first knotty part of it so I rarely play with it but the texture of the toys is wonderful I love it. I want the length just not that great of a stretch from a toy. Sounds pretty weird considering some of the stuff I'm interested in:redface:

It is a little weird :smile:. I'm similar though. I've done fisting, and I can take a fair bit of girth with a human and a bit of practice, but in my toys I just want them to be slim. I think I must get a lot more aroused with real penises and that lets me do the extra girth.


I've found that it is remarkably difficult to find long but slim toys. Maybe it's because most women seem to like girth, so if they want a longer toy, they probably also want a girthier one. I have finally found a long skinny toy though (it's 10 x 4)! I've ordered it and it should be arriving tomorrow. It's nowhere near as cool as the Baddragon toys, but at least it meets my length/girth requirements.

 

[HiddenLacey]

Haha, I've got one that's 8.5 inches long and I love it, it's thin about 4-5 inches around I think and it's orangish-red color! It's tapered to be smaller at the top and widens somewhat to about 5 inches at the base. It rocks! My wild gspot vibe is still my favorite though this one is right there as well!

I would be more interested in trying more girth with a person vs a toy for sure as well as the other act you mentioned:biggrin1:

 

[aglets]

what is a good way to warm a dildo up?

 

[HiddenLacey]

what is a good way to warm a dildo up?

Warm water works the best I've found.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Haha, I've got one that's 8.5 inches long and I love it, it's thin about 4-5 inches around I think and it's orangish-red color! It's tapered to be smaller at the top and widens somewhat to about 5 inches at the base. It rocks! My wild gspot vibe is still my favorite though this one is right there as well!

It sounds like your toy is similar to mine. Mine only comes in 'sea foam' or 'peach sherbet' *shudders*. I would like a black one, but given the options, I'm going with sea foam. Here's the one I'm buying:

Velvet touch vibe sea foam 10 inches Femplay

I would be more interested in trying more girth with a person vs a toy for sure as well as the other act you mentioned:biggrin1:

The other act is a lot of fun! I think it was the challenge that appealed to me most :biggrin1:

With toys I prefer them to have a 4 inch girth, although I can manage five. With real cocks I'm fine with 6 or 6.5, although I'll get sore until I've 'practised' a bit. I've also had a couple that were definitely bigger than that (not sure by how much - didn't measure) and I was fine with those as well. I've also done DVP with a person and a toy. I find it interesting that there can be such a difference in how much I can take with a person, compared to with a toy.

 

[HiddenLacey]

LMAO, I would have been all for some "peach" color!!

Here's mine I can't remember where I got it from I don't like the hard toys though. Only the smushy like a guy toys!

Oh and it's 9 inches long by 4 inches then 5 inches and the last two inches are 6 inches, wide:biggrin1: I've never found a long one that stays skinny I never really play with the base inches because I need something to hold on to!

DVP with a guy and a toy... hmmm what did the guy think about the experience?

 

[AlteredEgo]

LMAO, I would have been all for some "peach" color!!

Here's mine I can't remember where I got it from I don't like the hard toys though. Only the smushy like a guy toys!

Oh and it's 4 inches then 5 inches and the last two inches are 6 inches:biggrin1: I've never found a long one that stays skinny I never really play with the base inches because I need something to hold on to!

DVP with a guy and a toy... hmmm what did the guy think about the experience?

If you're looking for long toys that stay skinny, consider shopping in the anal toy section. True, they won't usually be shaped like a penis, but they come n interesting and fun textures, and nice and squishy like you (and I) like.