Dildos - are they enjoyable?

[HiddenLacey]

If you're looking for long toys that stay skinny, consider shopping in the anal toy section. True, they won't usually be shaped like a penis, but they come n interesting and fun textures, and nice and squishy like you (and I) like.

Hey thanks AE! I didn't think about that:wink: The only anal toys I've searched through are the plugs.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I won't reply to any of this as i won't give any of you the satisfaction of reporting me again and having me banned.

Alteredego,i have seen your pics and you are WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY bigger than any size 14!!

This is unnecessary, extra, and rude. You've never seen pictures of my body below my tits. Yes, my breasts require tops in a much larger size 20, but the waist has to then be tailored down to a size 14, the size in which I buy my pants is 12. Not all large-breasted women are fat. You've also never seen current photos. You've seen a handful of photos which used to be in my gallery years ago, under a different account. But god forbid someone contradict the fucking self-appointed "Princess". You're always like this whenever someone disagrees. I'm so glad you're leaving. I hope you never, ever come back.

 

[B_subgirrl]

LMAO, I would have been all for some "peach" color!!

Here's mine I can't remember where I got it from I don't like the hard toys though. Only the smushy like a guy toys!

Oh and it's 9 inches long by 4 inches then 5 inches and the last two inches are 6 inches, wide:biggrin1: I've never found a long one that stays skinny I never really play with the base inches because I need something to hold on to!

I've had one similar to this before. I think I'd have trouble with the base because it gets so much wider (well, only an inch, but that's enough!). I'm actually not a fan of the squishy ones. I think it's because I like to pound myself pretty hard with them and the squishy ones just won't behave themselves when I do that :redface:.

I do like the feel of the jelly though. I have a toy that has stainless balls inside it that move like ben-wa balls. It sort of simulates the pounding feeling that comes with real sex, but has jelly on the outside so you still get the nice jelly feeling. It's a nice combination of hard and squishy. If it was a few inches longer it would be perfect. I tried to attach a pic of it, but our connection is going to slow and it won't work.

DVP with a guy and a toy... hmmm what did the guy think about the experience?

It was his suggestion - he enjoyed it :biggrin1:. He prefers DP anal/vaginal though - so do I actually.

If you're looking for long toys that stay skinny, consider shopping in the anal toy section. True, they won't usually be shaped like a penis, but they come n interesting and fun textures, and nice and squishy like you (and I) like.

Good tip! Thank you :smile:

 

[AlteredEgo]

Thanks for the replies, the initial responses I received put me off of this site so I have not checked back for a few days. Glad to see some thoughtful replies.

As I said previously my gf is very tiny, less than 100 lbs, so she has very thin arms. She also has the ability to take the biggest toys out of any girl I have been with. She used to use the Bam toy, which is very long and hefty. She could only insert that part way because of the tremendous width. As far as my size I am about 6.5 inches long, have not measured girth yet...
I have also found my toys deteriorate, some very expensive ones, and they get a bitter smell and taste after a while and cause irritation. Cleaning doesn't help, they get thrown away. I must try the dragon toys, have been using doc Johnson.

Bad Dragon makes exquisite (but unrealistic) toys. In fact, I bought mine after watching Kristina's videos, and I am very satisfied. I have two, and both are the smallest size available. Your girlfriend may be more adventurous, and want the medium ones. The quality is very, very good.

Subgirl, and Submissivegirl23, that advice comes straight out of stealing my husband's toys and discovering the pleasure of long and slender for myself! I ended up getting one for myself (got tired of using condoms for masturbation) that reminded me of anal beads. It is latex, has a suction cup base, and the "beads" at the tip are much more slender than the ones near the base, which since I use it vaginally, I do not use. If memory serves, it has nearly 14" of usable length, but I think I stop around 7". If I can find it online, I will PM you with links.

 

[HiddenLacey]

I've had one similar to this before. I think I'd have trouble with the base because it gets so much wider (well, only an inch, but that's enough!). I'm actually not a fan of the squishy ones. I think it's because I like to pound myself pretty hard with them and the squishy ones just won't behave themselves when I do that :redface:.

I do like the feel of the jelly though. I have a toy that has stainless balls inside it that move like ben-wa balls. It sort of simulates the pounding feeling that comes with real sex, but has jelly on the outside so you still get the nice jelly feeling. It's a nice combination of hard and squishy. If it was a few inches longer it would be perfect. I tried to attach a pic of it, but our connection is going to slow and it won't work.

Well I don't mean squishy soft. You know how a guy feels, that smooth squishy feeling over hard...:biggrin1: WE need a bigger grin:biggrin1:

It was his suggestion - he enjoyed it :biggrin1:. He prefers DP anal/vaginal though - so do I actually.

Yeah, I've never done those things with a guy. But, I tried a medium anal plug once with a vibrator at the same time to get the DP feeling... OMG I don't know how porn stars do it. Definitely awesome feeling, massive O's repeatedly, but it made the vaginal area super tight I couldn't deal with it for long.

AlteredEgo- you rock! I'm going to look for a toy like that today!

 

[scottredleter]

Why would she lye about it? It sounds like she's having a great time. Everyone has their opinions, but only you can know if she is really enjoying it, and it's not for anyone to say if she 'should' be enjoying it. If she is faking having a great time with the dildos and she really doesn't enjoy it, then it's not anyone's fault but hers.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Subgirl, and Submissivegirl23, that advice comes straight out of stealing my husband's toys and discovering the pleasure of long and slender for myself! I ended up getting one for myself (got tired of using condoms for masturbation) that reminded me of anal beads. It is latex, has a suction cup base, and the "beads" at the tip are much more slender than the ones near the base, which since I use it vaginally, I do not use. If memory serves, it has nearly 14" of usable length, but I think I stop around 7". If I can find it online, I will PM you with links.

Thank you, thank you, thank you :smile: 14"? Where would all that go?!? That would even be enough length to keep ME happy!

Well I don't mean squishy soft. You know how a guy feels, that smooth squishy feeling over hard...:biggrin1: WE need a bigger grin:biggrin1:

I know the squishy you mean :smile:. I think I like my toys to be a bit harder than my men, because I can't move my hand as hard as they can move their bodies. I like the poundy feeling :redface::biggrin1:

Yeah, I've never done those things with a guy. But, I tried a medium anal plug once with a vibrator at the same time to get the DP feeling... OMG I don't know how porn stars do it. Definitely awesome feeling, massive O's repeatedly, but it made the vaginal area super tight I couldn't deal with it for long.

It's nice isn't it? :biggrin1: I try to avoid doing DP too much when I'm alone because it makes me cum too fast - but sometimes I can't resist.

 

[B_Sinjay]

I'm in the middle of writing a story about a girl that I put a 17" dildo in and then reached in with my arm to pull it out. I didn't understand where it went, I thought it fell on the floor. She stood up and said it fell out but it was nowhere to be found. I was so confused that she couldn't feel it inside of her. I put her on her back and fisted her. When I reached in to "look for it" i noticed that it had rolled up and folded.

This video here is of a girl doing it with here ass and I would imagine the same affect of it curling up and around her insides took place, otherwise it would be in her chest.

Whole Dildo in the Ass !!

 

[HiddenLacey]

Thank you, thank you, thank you :smile: 14"? Where would all that go?!? That would even be enough length to keep ME happy!

PMSL, you don't have to use all the length, I darn sure couldn't!

It's nice isn't it? :biggrin1: I try to avoid doing DP too much when I'm alone because it makes me cum too fast - but sometimes I can't resist.

I've only done it once! :biggrin1: There are no words! You know I cannot articulate as it is when it's something I can halfway describe!

 

[RobNYC]

I've only done it once! :biggrin1: There are no words! You know I cannot articulate as it is when it's something I can halfway describe!

I have done dp with a few girlfriends using dildo/penis and besides them loving it so did I. I could feel the movement of the dildo in the adjacent orifice, and it made everything tighter - Oh my gosh! It also made me cum quickly so we usually saved it

 

[RobNYC]

I've only done it once! :biggrin1: There are no words! You know I cannot articulate as it is when it's something I can halfway describe!

I have done dp with a few girlfriends using dildo/penis and besides them loving it so did I. I could feel the movement of the dildo in the adjacent orifice, and it made everything tighter - Oh my gosh! It also made me cum quickly so we usually saved it for the end of a lovemaking session because of the intensity for both of us.

 

[HiddenLacey]

I have done dp with a few girlfriends using dildo/penis and besides them loving it so did I. I could feel the movement of the dildo in the adjacent orifice, and it made everything tighter - Oh my gosh! It also made me cum quickly so we usually saved it for the end of a lovemaking session because of the intensity for both of us.

Yeah I haven't spoken much to my partner about this type of thing. Stupid shyness It's an awesome feeling though.

 

[Pandora77]

A Dildo rolled up and folded......err, yeah, I am sure it did
I think you should put the story in the fictitious stories section

I'm in the middle of writing a story about a girl that I put a 17" dildo in and then reached in with my arm to pull it out. I didn't understand where it went, I thought it fell on the floor. She stood up and said it fell out but it was nowhere to be found. I was so confused that she couldn't feel it inside of her. I put her on her back and fisted her. When I reached in to "look for it" i noticed that it had rolled up and folded.

This video here is of a girl doing it with here ass and I would imagine the same affect of it curling up and around her insides took place, otherwise it would be in her chest.

Whole Dildo in the Ass !!

 

[B_subgirrl]

PMSL, you don't have to use all the length, I darn sure couldn't!

I can't help it if I think in terms of functionality!

I've only done it once! :biggrin1: There are no words! You know I cannot articulate as it is when it's something I can halfway describe!

Hmmm, the feeling when vibrations are running through your whole genital area? I make it even worse for myself by using a clit vibe at the same time. I sort of become like a body without a head because all of a sudden it's all about what's happening in my body and my mind has no say in it.

Good news! My new toy arrived today so I shall be having fun tonight :biggrin1:

 

[B_Sinjay]

A Dildo rolled up and folded......err, yeah, I am sure it did
I think you should put the story in the fictitious stories section

Excuse me, Pandora77, but I was there. I'm sorry if you don't believe me but it's nothing less than 100% fact. I was the one with the direct experience whether you believe me or not. What do you think happens to it dildos that long? You think they just keep going straight up? My hand grabbed the thing where it hooked up. I have a dildo just like the one I used on her and I can bend the thing in half so the 2 heads meet. When they get that long they are very flexible.

Did you watch the video I included? Do you think that dildo goes straight up into her body? Sorry, but it doesn't.

 

[B_infid3l]

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I have also found my toys deteriorate, some very expensive ones, and they get a bitter smell and taste after a while and cause irritation. Cleaning doesn't help, they get thrown away. I must try the dragon toys, have been using doc Johnson.

We've had that happen; the worst ones were the jellies (deterioration) and the vinyl (irritation).

If you hadn't already figured it out yourselves... I'd recommend against vinyl, or at least do some research before buying them, read reviews and such. We've found after a number of uses, vinyl toys cause us to feel a BURN. It is like someone had sprayed pepper spray on them, and it takes a while to get off/out. I'd wash, and every time I started drying, the burning would come back everywhere the vinyl had touched.

I prefer toys that don't have any smell, and I read the less smell is also an indication of less chemicals being released. Silicone toys have been the least smelling (they have hardly any smell) and best quality we've found. Sucks they're so expensive.

I think silicone is easiest to disinfect, too. You can just toss them in the dishwasher or bleach them or boil them, lots of different options.

Bad Dragon uses high-quality silicone. If you're looking for more humanish toys than what Bad Dragon offers, I've seen that places like Vixen Creations, Vamp Silicone, Tantus, etc., also use platinum, medical grade silicone for their toys (I've not tried any of theirs though).

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You may also want to try The Great American challenge. A lot of members on FistForum seem to like that toy, male and female.

People actually use it . That toy scares the shit out of me!

:tongue: Ha, ha! I have one of those Great American Challenge toys. It is great if you want girth, and like smoothness. Too smooth for me, though, now. I've gotten to really like more textured toys. It's kind of hard to manage if you like toying laying down, it's so long and heavy.

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I do like the feel of the jelly though. I have a toy that has stainless balls inside it that move like ben-wa balls. It sort of simulates the pounding feeling that comes with real sex, but has jelly on the outside so you still get the nice jelly feeling. It's a nice combination of hard and squishy. If it was a few inches longer it would be perfect. I tried to attach a pic of it, but our connection is going to slow and it won't work.
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Oh, wow, that toy sounds so cool. Do you recall where you got it from or what it was called? (If you can't, believe me I understand. I have one I've been asked about I've never been able to track down.)

A Dildo rolled up and folded......err, yeah, I am sure it did
I think you should put the story in the fictitious stories section

It happens IRL! I have vids to prove it!!! :wink:


- Kristina

 

[B_subgirrl]

Excuse me, Pandora77, but I was there. I'm sorry if you don't believe me but it's nothing less than 100% fact. I was the one with the direct experience whether you believe me or not. What do you think happens to it dildos that long? You think they just keep going straight up? My hand grabbed the thing where it hooked up. I have a dildo just like the one I used on her and I can bend the thing in half so the 2 heads meet. When they get that long they are very flexible.

Did you watch the video I included? Do you think that dildo goes straight up into her body? Sorry, but it doesn't.

While it seems far fetched to imagine this happening with most toys, there are certainly some that it could happen with. I could see this happening with some of the double ended ones - they seem particularly bendy.

:tongue: Ha, ha! I have one of those Great American Challenge toys. It is great if you want girth, and like smoothness. Too smooth for me, though, now. I've gotten to really like more textured toys. It's kind of hard to manage if you like toying laying down, it's so long and heavy.

You've been playing with too many Baddragon toys :tongue:. I admire your ability to conquer the scary - coz the Great American Challenge really does terrify me!

Oh, wow, that toy sounds so cool. Do you recall where you got it from or what it was called? (If you can't, believe me I understand. I have one I've been asked about I've never been able to track down.)

It is very cool, although it's only small (the only negative as far as I'm concerned). Unfortunately, I haven't been able to find it online anywhere and don't remember the name. I bought it from a shop rather than online and even the place I got it from doesn't have it on its online store. After the 25th when our connection speed increases again I'll put some pics up. That might help you track it down. And if you do find it online, please let me know! I want a bigger version.

The funny thing is, I didn't even buy that toy on purpose. I usually stick to vibes because dildos don't do anything for me. I picked that one up in the store to have a look at it and forgot to put it back again. So I paid for it without realising it, and found it in my bag when I got home. I figured I might as well give it a go, as I was stuck with it, and it has become my favourite!

 

[B_Sinjay]

While it seems far fetched to imagine this happening with most toys, there are certainly some that it could happen with. I could see this happening with some of the double ended ones - they seem particularly bendy.

Yes, they are super bendy when they're 17" or 18" long. We're not talking about Rambone or toys of that nature with balls and a suction cup. And of course nothing smaller than 12". They just don't bend nearly as easily. I'm sure some won't even allow themselves to be folded in half.

But I gotta tell ya, her vagina was fuckin deep as all hell. Very deceiving from the looks of it. And she was probably around 5'9+/-. Drop dead gorgeous. OMG.

 

[HiddenLacey]

Hmmm, the feeling when vibrations are running through your whole genital area? I make it even worse for myself by using a clit vibe at the same time. I sort of become like a body without a head because all of a sudden it's all about what's happening in my body and my mind has no say in it.

I used this toy so I had no need to use another hand to stimulate my clit :biggrin1: This toy drives me crazy. I prefer it to the rabbit, which is an uncomfortable hard toy IMO. This is the only toy I have ever squirted with. I still want an NJOY.

Wild G-Spot Vibrator - Vibrators - Sex Toys

 

[B_subgirrl]

I used this toy so I had no need to use another hand to stimulate my clit :biggrin1: This toy drives me crazy. I prefer it to the rabbit, which is an uncomfortable hard toy IMO. This is the only toy I have ever squirted with. I still want an NJOY.

Wild G-Spot Vibrator - Vibrators - Sex Toys

Aha! So you had the triple stimulation thing going on too!

My very first vibe was a little like your one and a little like a rabbit (it was a dolphin). But I've found that the ones with a clit stimulator attached don't really work for me. I end up with neither of the bits hitting me at the right angle, plus the depth is limited by when the clit part ends up in the right place. So I tend to have separate vibes, sometimes more than one at a time for my clit and surrounding areas - I think I might overdo it a bit :redface::biggrin1:.

The toy I mentioned above with the stainless balls makes me squirt more than any other toy I've had.

I just googled the NJOY toys - pretty and shiny!