so after coming back to the site, i decided to...expand my gallery with a few choice pics of my ex and i in one of our favored activities. I'd gone back and forth on the matter for a while before my sabbatical, and now i'm facing the dilemma... see, the pictures were taken for just the two of us when we were still together. i justify it by saying that since i've done my best to maintain my anonymity on this site that her anonymity is protected as well. no one i know posts here and, near as i can tell, no one she knows posts here. we've been broken up for about as long as we'd been dating at this point...but at the same time, i still love her and i want to make sure i do right by her. so i seek the advice, counsel and wisdom of the lovely ladies here as my ethical and exhibitionist sides appear to be stalemated in the struggle of what to do...what do you think is the "right" thing to do here? cuz i'm slightly stumped and just want to make sure i'm properly balancing the fun I personally have here with a certain modicum of responsibility and consideration towards others. thanks in advance for any clarification or potential epiphanies you might be able to provide.