Dilemma over hookup

Growing123

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Yesterday I met a guy and we hooked up. He was very attractive and we enjoyed a chat together afterwards.
He mentioned after our hookup that he has moved from overseas to the States to be with his partner who is a masseur. When he mentioned his name I realized that this is the massage guy I use. I didn't want to admit that I knew him.
He said that there are some problems in the relationship but that he was not going to make a rash decision. He took my number to meet as friends. He mentioned as he left that he will tell his partner that we met at the gym.

He will likely show my profile picture to his partner who will recognize me and wonder how we met. I should have just been honest and admitted that I went to his partner for a massage. It's really messy and I feel that I have been dishonest or deceptive.
Should I tell him if we meet for a drink that I went for a massage to his partner. I was planning on going back for a massage next month.
 

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I‘m not sure what you’re hoping for. A social friendship going forward? A secret ongoing fuck buddy relationship? For him to break up with the massage therapist and start dating you?

If you have a professional relationship with his partner, I don’t see the harm in being honest about it as you did nothing wrong. It’s just a small world.
 
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