Firstly, I wasn't being mean, I was being honest. Your post made you sound like a prize winning asshole so I suggested you'd have more luck finding women if you couldn't speak, it was at worst, poor humour.
Here is what you said in your first post, based on how it came across to me:
1. I have an impressive willy
2. Women are obsessed with penis size
3. I'm on the shorter side
4. Women make assumptions
5. Women will jump at the chance to be with me if they see my penis
6. I can't afford a hooker
7. Come be my free hooker for the night
8. I don't want you, I want to use you to get other women
9. Fat chicks are eww
I broke it down so there could be no misunderstandings.
From your follow up posts, including the one where you threaten suicide, I can only conclude that you've got what I like to call "yappy dog syndrome" This is a personality/behaviour trait usually found in shorter men/women. There is no size requirement for this trait other than they be shorter than those they generally spend time with, be it friends, family or co-workers. It is demonstrated by a persistent victim mentality, a fixation on some other quality they have where by the convince themselves that all people within their chosen target audience are completely obsessed with it and generally being aggressive with others... I call it yappy dog, because lets face it, they have more to prove and go out of their way to be obnoxious little shits.
Here is my advice to you:
1. A good woman doesn't care how short you are
2. A good woman doesn't care how much you're packing
3. Women don't like being asked to fill in for a hooker because you can't afford one
4. Good women prefer the person, not the packaging.
A little about me:
I'm above average height for a woman. Until I got married, I was always one of the tallest people I knew. I got married and now, much like yourself I'm a good 6" shorter than the vast majority of people I spend time with. All the shelves are higher up than normal, they put things I use on a regular basis on those higher shelves and I have to go to them asking for help to get them down, clothes they buy for me swamp me, skirts and jeans are ruined because they drag on the floor, get caught in doors, and I feel like a small child attempting to get their attention when we stand around chatting, constantly having to look up at them...
It isn't a nice feeling, I do feel self-conscious about it when I'm around them. I feel like I look abnormal when I'm with them, and when they crack jokes about it... It doesn't help!
Do I let any of that show? No, because I am more than my height, and you are more than your height and your penis. That is what we're all trying to tell you. Get yourself some help from someone other than the person you've been seeing previously, and if I may suggest it, spend some time here chatting to people, getting to know them without all the baggage you've made for yourself, your height doesn't matter, your penis size doesn't matter, but leading with the two features you're having issues with, as I said earlier, makes you look like a prize winning asshole, and that really does matter.
We care about you as a person, not as a couple of a measurements!