I've always let my current girlfriend set the boundries of dirty talk as I have with a previous gf way overstepped the line with something completely cruel, and I now don't trust myself. She enjoys the whole degrading, whore thing - but it stays quite firmly only in the bedroom. I did once tell her, when I saw some small change on my bedside dresser - " I left you money for last night" to which she replied "Oh, but that's too much" What kinds of line do you ladies draw in terms of dirty talk? Does it stay only in the bedroom? Really raunchy? Romance only?