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I don't like it. Something like a soft touch on the arm, the smell of a good aftershave or the sight or him sitting quietly, innocently on the couch turns me on more then someone telling me how hard they can fuck me. it seems pretentious and sets both people up for disappointment.
Sets both people up for disappointment? Aren't you the optimist
I'm a master of dirty talk. One Spoiled Princess on this site who shall remain nameless once described my dirty-mouthed-stylings as "Blokey"
I'm a master of dirty talk. One Spoiled Princess on this site who shall remain nameless once described my dirty-mouthed-stylings as "Blokey"
I don't like it. Something like a soft touch on the arm, the smell of a good aftershave or the sight or him sitting quietly, innocently on the couch turns me on more then someone telling me how hard they can fuck me. it seems pretentious and sets both people up for disappointment.
Hmmm sometimes my bf tells me how hard he's gonna make me cum but then he always does! :smile::smile: so I'm not disappointed. But yeah I mean I can't even form words usually so I don't talk much and he doesn't much either except sometimes to tell me about how he's gonna make me cum or something like that. But yeah usually we don't talk at all which is fine w/me.
What about before sex? I can understand not being too specific during sex but during the foreplay or even while you're still fully clothed and just making-out, seems like a good time for it. Otherwise there's just too much silence for my liking.
Yeah I dunno it depends on the mood I guess. Honestly sometimes I think the silence is hot cuz it sorta builds up the anticipation but sometimes yeah we'll talk a little.
I'll concede that silence can be hot with the right girl and right mood. Nothing like heavy breathing to build anticipation :smile:
Yeah I was just thinking about it and I think it's hot cuz sometimes just how he looks at me or touches me it says a lot eve w/o saying anything. Like sometimes we'll be sorta making out and he's feeling me up and then he just grabs my wrists and squeezes and stares at me and honestly when he does that I feel like he's telling me what he's gonna do to me and he doesn't even have to say it!
Oh yeah, I love that too...it is such a turn on when that happens for me.Yeah I was just thinking about it and I think it's hot cuz sometimes just how he looks at me or touches me it says a lot eve w/o saying anything. Like sometimes we'll be sorta making out and he's feeling me up and then he just grabs my wrists and squeezes and stares at me and honestly when he does that I feel like he's telling me what he's gonna do to me and he doesn't even have to say it!