Hi guys I was wondering if your wifes likes dirty talk in bed? I find it hard to get my wife into it. I will start talking to her telling her how good she feels and how wet she is. I then start to ask her questions to incorporate her into it, but she hardly answers back. Could it be she is in deep thought and doesnt want to talk? I have asked her about this and she says she likes it and will do it next time, but never does. Any imput?
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Best guess? She feels silly and awkward doing it/listening to it & doesn't want to.
"Deep in thought"... Or, hoping you'll shut up and stop copying what you've seen in porn?
Some people like doing it. Some don't.
Some people like hearing it. Some don't.
For me, dirty talk is fine if it's organic. Reciting porn lines repeatedly & going on and on about my size, etc would eventually turn me off.
I don't need a bunch of valueless verbal fluff to pump up my ego.... And neither does my girl.
"Deep in thought"... Or, hoping you'll shut up and stop copying what you've seen in porn?
Some people like doing it. Some don't.
Some people like hearing it. Some don't.
For me, dirty talk is fine if it's organic. Reciting porn lines repeatedly & going on and on about my size, etc would eventually turn me off.
I don't need a bunch of valueless verbal fluff to pump up my ego.... And neither does my girl.
Not sure how you came up with my comment being about my ego. Maybe read what I posted again, this time a little slower and you might, just might understand it.
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all u can do is keep on doing ur part during sex and hopefully she will come around. keep up the dirty talk on your end if she is enjoying it or responds to it. seems to me like she may just be telling you what you want to hear but deep down inside she's not into it. talking dirty in bed is not everyone's cup of tea and even it is, it takes even more balls to actually do it as you can do it wrong and just sound silly.
i say continue to tell her outside of bed how much you enjoy it and how it turns you on and then throw the ball in her court. don't push it otherwise whenever you start talking dirty in bed, she may feel pressured to reciprocate and therefore kill the moment for her.
i say continue to tell her outside of bed how much you enjoy it and how it turns you on and then throw the ball in her court. don't push it otherwise whenever you start talking dirty in bed, she may feel pressured to reciprocate and therefore kill the moment for her.
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I also very much enjoy it when she talks but she doesn’t do it often, I just keep dropping hints that I like it and sometimes she does. My wife says she’s just not a talker when getting fucked but other times she surprises me and usually ends up with me cumming faster! Last night she surprised me I was eating her pussy and she said “ just get up here and fuck me!” Well I didn’t last long after that!
I enjoy talking dirty to my wife as I eat her pussy and eventually fuck her. She not comfortable talking dirty but it sure is a turn on for me. I will just settle for her licking my cock and sucking on it. That is a big turn on as well. Eating her is a turn on too! When she gets real excited her tongue will loosen a bit which turns me on.
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My wife doesn't get into talking too much, but when I put that Hitachi Vibe to her, her moans are plenty "dirty" for me!!!
personally I can't do it, it just feels fake so I feel awkward or else I just collapse into laughing fits - I've had guys I've been with do the 'dirty' talk back to me and so long as it feels natural I've no issue with it, but actually so long as both of us are indicating in some way or the other that we're enjoying what we're doing, encouraging each other in what ever form to do what feels good, than all the good for me.
