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I know there is a time and place for dirty talk and the mood can really set the type of talk. My question is..Is it still dirty talk or even a turn on if I guy keeps asking the woman. Do you like this big dick?, Can you take this big dick? , Do you want this big dick, etc... I’d think no and the woman might be like STFU I’m already taking it..


All this seems silly and only boosting the male ego by fishing for comments. I am just curious about what the lovely women of LPSG have to say about this?

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I hate hearing a guy talk about his “big dick”. Men are so obsessed with size, I couldn’t give a crap.
That’s kinda what I was thinking. I’ve never thought too much about it but today I was watching a video from another member and all he did was talk about his big dick and the woman was like oh yeah but it was so fake!
 
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That’s not dirty talk in my book, it’s narcissistic BS. I’ve had guys say it before and it really takes me out of the moment. Of course, I go along to get along, but it’s not a turn on at all. It seems to turn them on, so that’s why I go along with it, but it seems super silly. I don’t say, “like this tight pussy? Fuck this tight pussy” etc. I mean, what if I’m not tight to him? What if I’m pulling him out of his moment because I’m just saying something I think he wants to hear? Just seems stupid. And it makes it about me instead of about them.
 
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That’s not dirty talk in my book, it’s narcissistic BS. I’ve had guys say it before and it really takes me out of the moment. Of course, I go along to get along, but it’s not a turn on at all. It seems to turn them on, so that’s why I go along with it, but it seems super silly. I don’t say, “like this tight pussy? Fuck this tight pussy” etc. I mean, what if I’m not tight to him? What if I’m pulling him out of his moment because I’m just saying something I think he wants to hear? Just seems stupid. And it makes it about me instead of about them.

Thx for the honest feedback LaFemme good to know im not crazy unless you are crazy that makes us both crazy... Am I Canadian Ah? You hozers! Sorry thats all I got for ripping on Canadians! I actually love Canada I grew up in Vancouver for 8 years while my dad had a contract up there. Sorry TMI huh!
 
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Ill preface this comment that I haven't had a HUGE one... I've had decently long and decently thick, but nothing huge.

If it IS big, I suppose I wouldn't have huge issue with that kind of talk. It probably wouldn't be much different than "do you want this dick"? Because if I'm fucking you, YES, I want it. My only experience is from an average guy saying "you want this big dick?" and my thought was "where is it?" To LaFemme's point, it was all about him at that point. No thanks. If WE aren't in it together to BOTH have a good time, he's not going to be invited back.
 
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I'd cut off said "big dick"

Smack the massive prick in the face with said "big dick"

Kick the prick to the curb, toss the dick in the yard and let him fight with dogs over it. To see if he could "take that big dick" away from the doggo pack
 
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I'd cut off said "big dick"

Smack the massive prick in the face with said "big dick"

Kick the prick to the curb, toss the dick in the yard and let him fight with dogs over it. To see if he could "take that big dick" away from the doggo pack
In some parts of this world people pay good money to have this done to them.
 
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I am quite appreciative of my not talkative in the moment partner.
Teasing chit chat away from the metaphorical bedroom tends to be him riffing on what I say.
I have been assuming he wants me to point the direction, given my past.
Once I locate the trail, he owns the path, however.

He has never mentioned his size in dirty talk. I have said something like I miss the stretch, and he will echo that, getting me to give more information. (And it works)
See, he knows he has a decently large/girthy dick. He knows I like said dick. A lot. And in my mind, no other dick matters (unless it’s some Cheeto orange menace making up for a dick).
Except Dick’s. We get great shows there, and prairie dogs with plague.

Honestly, I get self conscious with any size talk. He’s recently been (positively) commenting on my breasts, but he’s in a loop with “enormous.”
I’m a D cup, and only slightly out of proportion. I’ve considered reduction.
I know he sees this as a positive. So I’m trying to accept them in the spirit intended.
But I might see if I can get him onto shape or feel. Something not as ... judgmental?...

If he started talking about his cock in size terms, as his own turn on, I’d figure a way to make it work for both of us.
But if he’d led with that? I might be single.
 

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Wanna dirty talk me? Talk about all the shit I don't have to do over the next few days.

Ohhh, baby, you don't even have too think of a deadline for the next three weeks.

Look at that big, fat, three day long vacation you have coming up...oh, yeah

Watch that storm cone track out to sea..uuuhhhhh

Really, anything but the size of your dick.

If a dude must talk about dick.. I prefer grunts, groans and authentic sounds of pleasure. But if you must mention your peen talk about how good you are feeling.
 

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I am quite appreciative of my not talkative in the moment partner.
Teasing chit chat away from the metaphorical bedroom tends to be him riffing on what I say.
I have been assuming he wants me to point the direction, given my past.
Once I locate the trail, he owns the path, however.

He has never mentioned his size in dirty talk. I have said something like I miss the stretch, and he will echo that, getting me to give more information. (And it works)
See, he knows he has a decently large/girthy dick. He knows I like said dick. A lot. And in my mind, no other dick matters (unless it’s some Cheeto orange menace making up for a dick).
Except Dick’s. We get great shows there, and prairie dogs with plague.

Honestly, I get self conscious with any size talk. He’s recently been (positively) commenting on my breasts, but he’s in a loop with “enormous.”
I’m a D cup, and only slightly out of proportion. I’ve considered reduction.
I know he sees this as a positive. So I’m trying to accept them in the spirit intended.
But I might see if I can get him onto shape or feel. Something not as ... judgmental?...

If he started talking about his cock in size terms, as his own turn on, I’d figure a way to make it work for both of us.
But if he’d led with that? I might be single.
That’s the thing. When you’re in love, you pretty much make anything work even if it’s not necessarily your thing. But if they led with it...yeah, not so much.
 
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I know there is a time and place for dirty talk and the mood can really set the type of talk. My question is..Is it still dirty talk or even a turn on if I guy keeps asking the woman. Do you like this big dick?, Can you take this big dick? , Do you want this big dick, etc... I’d think no and the woman might be like STFU I’m already taking it..


All this seems silly and only boosting the male ego by fishing for comments. I am just curious about what the lovely women of LPSG have to say about this?

Please go gentle on me
@LaFemme took the words out of my mouth.
It is narcissistic and fishing. I don't mind maybe one reference, especially if I comment first. But let's not make the whole night about your size.

Sex should not include a conversation.
Physical gratification.
We can talk later.
Probably not about the big dick, tho.
 
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I was on a members videos and and every video he is asking the woman Do you like my Big Dick, can you feel my monster cock? He’s big but not sure it’s monstrous. I only asked the group because I wasn’t sure. Maybe women like it and I’m missing out but I gather I’m not missing out and I shouldn’t start saying this. I’m glad it would of felt silly talking about myself like that
 
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I was on a members videos and and every video he is asking the woman Do you like my Big Dick, can you feel my monster cock? He’s big but not sure it’s monstrous. I only asked the group because I wasn’t sure. Maybe women like it and I’m missing out but I gather I’m not missing out and I shouldn’t start saying this. I’m glad it would of felt silly talking about myself like that
No, I think HE likes it.
 

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No, I think HE likes it.
Ding ding ding
We have a winner.

Here’s the deal, men act and talk like size is everything.
Two minutes in here, with the women, should show you that such a view is INCREDIBLY short-sighted.

So when size is in dirty talk, you need to be sure your partner is fully on board.
Because while my guy and I can collapse into giggles and still do the deed, others may not have such fortitude.
 
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