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I know I risk offending some by asking a question on this topic, but please know that my intent is not to offend, and I'm sorry if it does. I'm not sure what the proper way to ask my question is, and the way I ask is what might offend somebody, but here it goes:
I recently saw a video clip of a 25-year-old guy who was born with no limbs (he was featured on "20/20" recently) who travels the world as a motivational speaker - talking about his life and situation and inspiring people. (His website is Life Without Limbs :: Nick Vujicic)
I had to wonder (after all, what guy doesn't get horny and think about sex daily) not so much about his sex life and how a physical relationship might happen with him (although that's an issue and something to be curious about in itself), but how do such guys - guys with similar disabilities (quadraplegics, etc.) take care of sexual urges that all guys must take care of - to masturbate, that is?
I'm not necessarily asking or interested in the answer to the question if you would help a buddy out if he were in such a situation, although the answers to that would be interesting.
But I imagine there are all sorts of challenges to this guy in everyday tasks, but my mind can't help going "there" - to the questions about things we all do but never speak about - going to the bathroom, masturbating, etc.
Anybody have any knowledge about guys in these situations or know how they might cope?
I recently saw a video clip of a 25-year-old guy who was born with no limbs (he was featured on "20/20" recently) who travels the world as a motivational speaker - talking about his life and situation and inspiring people. (His website is Life Without Limbs :: Nick Vujicic)
I had to wonder (after all, what guy doesn't get horny and think about sex daily) not so much about his sex life and how a physical relationship might happen with him (although that's an issue and something to be curious about in itself), but how do such guys - guys with similar disabilities (quadraplegics, etc.) take care of sexual urges that all guys must take care of - to masturbate, that is?
I'm not necessarily asking or interested in the answer to the question if you would help a buddy out if he were in such a situation, although the answers to that would be interesting.
But I imagine there are all sorts of challenges to this guy in everyday tasks, but my mind can't help going "there" - to the questions about things we all do but never speak about - going to the bathroom, masturbating, etc.
Anybody have any knowledge about guys in these situations or know how they might cope?