Disappointing Affair And Size Does Matter (m-f)

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I had been married 8 years. I had been pregnant with our son during our 7th year of marriage and felt post delivery that my good looks and body was not the same afterwards. Don’t get me wrong, I know I was still attractive but there were changes that I was also keenly aware of for my overall shape. Plus, my husband seemed to not be as responsive toward me sexually although that may not really be true and just an excuse on my part. I can simply say that I lost confidence in myself as a female attractive to men in general like I had been earlier pre-marriage. Retrospectively, my inner feelings made me vulnerable to an approach by a guy that I knew who also was married.

I don’t want to get too specific but I work at a company in an office building where over the course of about 2 years I would interact with a gentleman, Vince, who worked in the same building but not at the same company. I can’t say how things initially developed except sometimes arriving for work, or on a break where as a smoker I would go outside so would he. We would chit-chat, and over time developed where he could joke with me, or we might share some personal things about marriage, kids, life, etc. It was never a planned thing it was just over time where we became friendly. Plus, we would occasionally flirt or make a dirty joke or innuendos all from my perspective somewhat innocently. It was more fun than anything beyond that. Well until one day during that 8th year of marriage where I shared with him being depressed about how things were working out on the job, at home, etc. He took my hand and held it and I felt flushed with excitement. He asked if I could stay after work and have a drink at a hotel bar across the street where we could talk more. I can’t say I am naïve and maybe I just wanted him to make a pass or determine if he would do so for my own ego. In any event, I agreed to meet him after work and called my husband telling him I had to work overtime on a project and would be home late.

Let me share more about Vince. I would guess he is about 40 (I was 31 at the time) very well built tall and muscular. I can’t say he is handsome but has a certain attractive rugged look and again a work out type of physique. My husband on the other hand is thin, not muscular, is not much taller than me and I am 5’5”, but he is attractive with a great smile and manicured. So Vince was very much opposite physically.

I was excited to be doing something different and looked forward to meeting Vince after work. But, I didn’t give it that much thought. At 5 pm I crossed the street and went to the lobby bar seeing Vince sitting there. He greeted me getting up and surprised me by giving me a quick hug and kiss (we had never in anyway had been physical other than him holding my hand earlier that day). We sat and talked while sipping some margaritas and I could feel myself getting a little buzz by the 3rd one. It was fun and we talked and talked about our marriages, hopes, dreams, and wishes. We were there together and even nibbled on some light snacks and the conversations just flowed. After about an hour and a half, Vince got up and told me he would be right back. I assumed he was taking a bathroom break. Perhaps 5 minutes later Vince came back and said to come with him. He paid the bill leaving cash and actually put his arm under mine escorting me to an elevator. Where are we going, I asked? I got us a room, Vince smiled as he pushed the elevator button as the door closed. We were alone in the elevator and with Vince standing tall over me; he reached holding me and gave me a deep intimate kiss. I can’t, I gasped but there was a tingle in my loins and my heart raced. Vince continued to hold me and said we only live once as the elevator doors opened. I repeated I can’t but walked with him. Vince said to me, we won’t do anything you don’t want to do but I have had too much to drink to drive right away and we can sit and talk privately.

I should have turned around and left but I didn’t want to. I hadn’t felt so good about myself in quite a while as it was clear how Vince was attracted to me. It felt nice to be desired and I was experiencing a rush I hadn’t felt for a long time. He opened the room door and we stepped inside. There was a few seconds of silence and awkwardness as we walked inside. Vince simply turned around and held me tight whispering to me how attractive I was and how much he desired me and then started passionately kissing me. I knew it was wrong but couldn’t help myself.
 

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I felt Vince's hand on the outside of my top gently massaging my breast and it felt good and I didn’t stop him. He then literally picked me up (something my husband would never be able to physically do) and kissed me again and then carried me placing me down on the bed as he got next to me. It was like out of a movie as we began undressing each other. Vince pulled down my skirt and panties and immediately moved to go down on me. Any embarrassment I might have had disappeared as soon as his tongue found my clit and I moaned. He didn’t rush and worked me up to where he then inserted one of his big fingers moving it inside me as he brought me to a climax.

Vince stood up still in his underwear and then removed them. I couldn’t believe my disappointment as he had a small penis. Well at least compared to my husband. At that moment I regretted now being in the situation as his small erect penis was not exciting to look at and it was like it didn’t belong or match. on such a well built body. Now, I hadn’t mentioned but my husband is a very well-endowed man. He sometimes has reference his penis as Mr. 8, meaning it is 8 inches long and though we have never measured it is a very long penis and decent girth. It simply didn’t occur to me that Vince wouldn’t have rivaled him in size being so much taller and muscular. Instead, maybe Vince’s stuck out 5” and nowhere near the thickness of my husband. Now other men before my husband didn’t match his size either but I would say were average or more. The appearance or lack thereof with Vince’s organ just again was disappointing. I was pretty sure my husband when totally soft was about what I was seeing with Vince totally erect. But, of course I didn’t want to let on any disappointment and said nothing and just smiled at Vince who moved back on the bed getting on top of me in the missionary position.

You are on the pill, Vince asked and I told him no worries. I felt him easily slip inside and at that instant I knew my husband had spoiled me sexually with his much bigger penis. The difference in sensation was significant and very apparent to me. Vince was thrusting back and forth but his short length was not coming close to hitting that spot inside that would set me off. I tried opening my legs wider but his smaller penis simply did not feel impressive. As he was fucking me I was angry at myself for cheating and being in this situation. Vince was doing his best, moving about, but the intercourse at best was relaxing but not orgasmic as I had been use to and most definitely not intense. I wanted it over, so I started pretending and faking an orgasm. I told Vince he felt so good although the truth was I could hardly even feel him. It felt small and made my vagina seem too large. I reached down to rub my clit as Vince fucked me but him not being able to go deep enough to hit my spot was making the sex not really pleasurable. I put on a good act and kept telling Vince I wanted him to cum. Finally I reached under him and held his testicles and whispering how good a fuck he was and finally I could hear his moans and he announced he was cumming. I remember secretly thinking to myself that I would never have known otherwise as again I could hardly feel him.

Vince I have to go, I have to get home, I am sorry that I allowed this to happen but I am not upset with you. You are a wonderful man but this can never ever happen again. Before Vince could even respond, I was getting quickly dressed. I rushed out and was angry at myself all the way home. However, once I got home there was a part of me that rationalized that it was good to know I still was attractive and desirable. There was a pride that I had done something exciting although the result was disappointing sexually.

I quickly jumped into the shower washing away the physical aspects of the experience. But, now my mind was about my husband. I was toweling myself off and turned back on the water. Take a shower with me I smiled at my husband. He looked at me like I was crazy as it was something we never had done. Our son was fast asleep in his crib and I shook my butt at my husband with a come hither look. My husband took off his clothes in his typical neat fashion which annoyed me but seeing his long soft penis swinging back and forth again made me smile thinking how I should appreciate what he had much more than I had gotten so use to it. He got in the shower and I took soap and a wash cloth right to his penis watching it pulsate and grow to his magnificent thick extension. I got on my knees and took him in my mouth and hands. I remember thinking to myself his penis belonged on Vince and Vince’s on him with the way otherwise they were built and laughed a little. I was very horny and didn’t want to do oral to completion and told my husband I wanted him to fuck me good. What’s got into you, he asked and I was tempted to say a little penis but very far. I turned off the shower and without really drying very much just got on top of the bed and beckoned him to join me. Instead my husband, as our normal routine was going to also go down on me, I stopped him and said I need that big dick of yours in me now. He laughed and having so recently been with Vince the tremendous different in feeling my husband’s big penis sliding inside so full and deep instantly hitting my sweet spot made the comparison so clear. I had been spoiled. It wasn’t ever a minute and I was coming from all the stimulation he was providing. Now when we were first marred sometimes he could go too deep and it could hurt but after 8 years I had no difficulties taking all 8 inches and it feeling so good. I can’t even begin to describe how much better my husband felt compared to Vince but it was completely different in every way so much better. I had an intense orgasm from his fucking and when I went into that cycle he could pull back and thrust forth with much more power because of his long length. It not only brought me to orgasm but kept the intensity throughout the remaining intercourse. Finally, I could easily feel my husband’s big penis spasm with his orgasm as well and he collapsed in my arms. When he withdrew it always made an empty feeling inside. He laughed and said we need to do this more often and then we passionately kissed for a good minute or more.

Having visited this LPSG site now and read some of the stories, I won’t say I am a size queen. I will say the reality for me is that my husband’s large penis simply feels way better than any sexual partner I had in the past and way way better than the small penis that Vince had. That was like night and day. So for me it is more about reality. I am sorry if that hurts anyone’s feeling but for me it is the truth. Perhaps if I wasn’t accustomed to a large penis for so long it might have been a totally different experience with Vince. But, I never allowed that to happen again.
 

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For a fictitious story your post is very close to my own personal experience(s). However I am the guy with the comparitively tiny penis. A former girlfriend confessed she cheated on me with other guys because all of her former BFs were much bigger.
She got very little pleasure when I actually fucked her and was actually glad I usually didn't take very long to cum. The foreplay was good but she quickly lost her interest when my tiny cock (as in your tale) failed to hit the places her former lovers and subsequent dalliances could. She never considered herself to be a size queen but had never been with any guy as small as me. She admitted the first time she saw my penis she was shocked at how small it is (particularily when it was in its flaccid state).
Before I was with this woman I was the guy who a married woman decided to cheat on her husband with. She was in a mentally abusive and over controlling marriage and sought the company of other men when her hubby was away.
I wasn't the first guy she cheated with either as she had been doing it on a regular basis after 5 years of a suffocating marriage. I totally disappointed her. She struggled to disguise her surprise and disappointment when she saw my tiny cock and merely went through the motions when I tried to fuck her. (I wasn't aware she totally faked any enjoyment she got)
She confessed it all when a few weeks later I asked her if she wanted to hook up again. I got the "your a nice guy but poor lover speech" which I have had before and since in a variety of ways.
She too pointed out that I was just way smaller than what she was used to. Her husband was horrible otherwise but he fucked the living daylights out of her when it suited him.
I have known more than a few women who were in bad relationships but compensated by great sex. Relationshipwise I am the opposite. They stay with me for a time because of other things but I always disappoint them in the bedroom.
( not a so much a problem though as I developed a rampant SPH fetish which has actually vastly expanded and improved my sexual relationships)
 

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Hot story, very well written.

Similar story, real-life. A longtime online MILF friend of mine, early 40s. Shes been married for some time. Hubby is small and not very good in bed. She runs a convenience store. Young guy like early 20s, would always hit on her when he came in. She held him off but he was was hot. Muscular, tall young. Finally one day she gave in and took his FB name so they could chat on messenger (she wouldnt give her #). Eventually the lust took over and she decided to have a discreet romp. I kept telling her to get a dick pic, she was too shy and said he didnt offer any (which seemed odd to me, especially a 20yr old dude, they pass out dick pics like ppl hand out candy on halloween lol) So I joked with her "Will be funny if he turns out to be smaller than hubby lol" Much to her dismay I was right. She hated it and swears next time she decides to get some side dick, she will get video proof first to verify lol
 

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Hot story, very well written.

Similar story, real-life. A longtime online MILF friend of mine, early 40s. Shes been married for some time. Hubby is small and not very good in bed. She runs a convenience store. Young guy like early 20s, would always hit on her when he came in. She held him off but he was was hot. Muscular, tall young. Finally one day she gave in and took his FB name so they could chat on messenger (she wouldnt give her #). Eventually the lust took over and she decided to have a discreet romp. I kept telling her to get a dick pic, she was too shy and said he didnt offer any (which seemed odd to me, especially a 20yr old dude, they pass out dick pics like ppl hand out candy on halloween lol) So I joked with her "Will be funny if he turns out to be smaller than hubby lol" Much to her dismay I was right. She hated it and swears next time she decides to get some side dick, she will get video proof first to verify lol
Despite the "size doesn't matter" thing plenty of women definitely have a preference. That is particularily evident if they are used to being with better hung men or aren't being satisfied by a "little" guy.
I have been smaller than all of my lovers former lovers and they discovered that it definitely can matter.
 

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Nice story, not many stories use wife point of view, in special when her husbans its bigger than the "NEW GUY".
In more then a few occasions when engaging in foursomes with my girlfriend and another couple the wife/gf has felt quite prideful that their partner was significantly larger than me. Since I have a decidedly tiny penis even average guys out man me and it raised their esteem level as well.
 
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