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I am an older man in my 70’s. I have been married many years and my wife was rarely a real sexual person except many years ago. However, it might have to do with my endowment or lack thereof. We dated in the early 1970’s and eventually lived together. At that time I believe our sex life being young was active and good. In fact, my wife had minimal sexual experiences prior to our dating and she thought I had a decent sized penis. So did I! In fact, one of my first sexual experiences the older woman I was with commented that I was big (although we were in a dark room). So, I believed it. In those days other than porn in a theater, the only naked people you saw were in gym showers or similar settings. Most guys seemed to be around the same size soft maybe some might have a big one but everyone else more or less were around the same. Plus, it wasn’t like I was staring or carrying a ruler. Any other early sexual experiences I had at that time any reference to size never occurred. I also assumed the big ones you saw in movie theater porn like John Holmes mostly was out of the ordinary because it was porn.
While young and still living together we had moved to Miami Beach. The move pretty much solidified that we would get married which we then did. We moved into an apartment complex mainly consisting of people around our age or only somewhat older. There was one couple that lived in the complex that we became friendly with as the complex had a pool for anyone to use. Some of the same people including this couple would spend time there on the weekends as we did. Perhaps, a month or so later now that we were all acquainted, the husband (Lenny) asked if we would ever be interested in using their hot tub with them on their enclosed patio. It sounded nice and we came over. Now, interesting that despite the mainly younger crowd that I mentioned, this particular couple (Lenny and Mary) were a bit older perhaps mid 40’s. They actually were former hippies and he had long hair, a beard, she was not particularly attractive although thin and friendly. It didn’t matter really as we all got along great.
If you ever have used a hot tub one of the nice qualities is it can be relaxing if the warm water is not too hot. We went to their apartment patio and without their saying a word they both stripped naked and climbed in. Well we were young at the time and figured that is what you are supposed to do so we stripped and climbed in very quickly as well. Perhaps also being on their turf, so to speak, had us feel that we were supposed to do what they did. Everyone relaxed; we smoked a little weed, and enjoyed a pleasant afternoon. However, they somehow turned the conversation to swinging, and started sharing some of their experiences but in a non-graphic way. It was more like they were educating us on the lifestyle versus trying to convince ourselves of anything.
At one point maybe 30 or 40 minutes of us being there, Lenny got up to sit on the edge and you couldn’t help but notice a very long soft penis hanging down. He didn’t appear erect but it was like a relaxed erection if that makes any sense. In other words, it was big but soft looking hanging down. His wife started talking about how he was well-endowed since it was right there to see and told us a story of how his first sexual experience was with an older neighbor when he was young and mowed her lawn. He then jumped in the conversation saying she told others about this big penis and he had a few fun experiences with older woman and has always been liberal in sexuality. Now, I was feeling myself getting erect in the water so I had to stay seated. I really didn’t know what my wife was thinking but despite our nudity she at that time of life was shy. And, again, there was never any suggestion that we were to have any sex with them. It is sort of difficult to explain but all that I am sharing was more like matter of fact conversation as part of other conversations than a real sexual focus.
One thing I couldn’t help but notice, however, was his penis was bigger in comparison to mine. But, I figured he was just a uniquely endowed guy. I wondered if my wife seeing his penis gave any thought about mine being smaller. So, my mind wasn’t about her attraction to him. Like I said he was an older hippie and I sincerely doubted she would find him of interest sexually. But, secretly, I wondered was she comparing in her mind like I was or had any thought about it? We eventually got out and headed back to our apartment and not one thing was ever discussed about it. Nevertheless, over the course of a few months time we would occasionally get together with them in their hot tub and really only on a few rare occasions would anything be mentioned about swinging or anything of a sexual nature. Well, until one time…..
I actually can’t recall if this offer came while we were in the hot tub with them, or just in a social setting. But, on this occasion they had shared that there was going to be a swinger’s type party the following Sunday at a very well to do persons home with a huge private area and would we like to go. I do recall being excited by the thought but my wife quickly laughed and said no. You don’t have to do anything, there is no pressure, you can watch, relax, no one will bother you; it is all very friendly they explained. My wife still was saying that it wasn’t for us. We got back to our apartment and I really wanted to go. I told my wife we would absolutely not do anything with anyone else but it would be fun to see what all this was like. She kept saying no and finally I said that I was going to go myself. We argued and my wife was upset with me. However, I didn’t back off although in reality I pretty much inwardly knew I likely would chicken out going alone. The next day or two my wife said if I promised we would do nothing with anyone else she would agree to go. I might have felt some guilt for sort of backing her into a corner to go but my excitement ruled.
After work the next day, I knocked on the door of our friends and Lenny let me in as he was by himself. OK, I told him we would go and I explained the agreement with my wife that we would not participate sexually with others. He said that was fine not everybody automatically did anyway. He wrote out directions and said there would be a gate and to use their names as folks who invited us. He also provided me with more details and said there could be 50 couples, a few single women, but everyone knew the rules. You will have fun everyone is real nice he added. Then when I got up to leave he said something at the time that seemed a little strange to me and because it was said without much emphasis I am not even sure that I gave it a lot of thought at that moment. He said, your wife may find it exciting because of course most guys are your size and up. (Now remember at this date and time, I believed I had a decent sized penis).
That Sunday finally arrived and we headed in the early afternoon to this place/home. Yes, I was nervous, excited, etc. Interestingly, my wife seemed more calm and confident than I was. In fact, as we got to the gate I actually discussed maybe we should turn-around but my wife was like we are here let’s go. We followed the instructions and when let inside we were surprised to see the elegance of the home. There was no doubt whomever was holding this event was very wealthy. There were cars parked along the front area and grass at the house and there was a large wooden fence around the house. We knocked on the door and were surprised to see a security guard open it. We realized that as our friends had said this was a secured place.
Inside the home, people were dressed casually, some in dry bathing suits, but not one person was naked. We learned that you took your clothes off (it was optional) once you stepped through the back door where there was a big pool and a few small rooms, a shaded area, etc. They had lockers right outside the door. We stripped off our clothes except my wife just was topless and kept the lower part of her bathing suit on. We looked for our neighbors but didn’t see them but we did see many naked people and even one couple fucking. There were a few others watching but at first we were too embarrassed to stand and watch too. However, what I almost immediately noticed was other men might be erect, partially erect, flaccid, but there were many who had much bigger penises than me. I couldn’t help but do mental measurements and my friend had told the truth, they went my size up. As the day went on, I began to realize I might have the smallest penis there. I also noticed that often the guys with the biggest penises were the most popular to have sex with. One guy had a cock ring around his penis and it was so fat that several of the couples were joking about it and I even saw a few woman grab it just to touch it and laugh with others.
Finally our friends showed up. We spent time with them and also laughed when we observed this behavior with this guy that had the really thick fat penis. Lenny said that’s Pete, he always popular here, after all this is his place, do you want to meet him? It’s OK my wife said, but I said sure. A few minutes later our hippie neighbor called out to Pete, I want to introduce you to some people. Obviously they all knew one another. Pete said hello and talked about first timers. The funny thing was my wife was sitting and Pete was standing so his big although soft penis was sort of eye level for her. I chuckled to myself as she engaged in conversation with him like this tremendous cock wasn’t in her face. During the conversation there were several times when a woman/wife of a couple would come by asking if he was going to join them. So clearly he was popular. Our neighbor wife Mary even commented at one point to Pete, it’s my turn or something to that effect. Lenny joked and said to Mary that something makes Pete a popular guy with you, I wonder what could that be. However, Pete very seriously said to my wife and me that he enjoyed the sound of woman making an “ahh” sound when he first would enter them. I felt he might be turned on by my wife and us being new but it wasn’t like he got erect. However, not being erect was still in thickness like 3x my erect thickness and the continuing observation not only of Pete but other men there was becoming increasingly obvious that I had a small penis.
While young and still living together we had moved to Miami Beach. The move pretty much solidified that we would get married which we then did. We moved into an apartment complex mainly consisting of people around our age or only somewhat older. There was one couple that lived in the complex that we became friendly with as the complex had a pool for anyone to use. Some of the same people including this couple would spend time there on the weekends as we did. Perhaps, a month or so later now that we were all acquainted, the husband (Lenny) asked if we would ever be interested in using their hot tub with them on their enclosed patio. It sounded nice and we came over. Now, interesting that despite the mainly younger crowd that I mentioned, this particular couple (Lenny and Mary) were a bit older perhaps mid 40’s. They actually were former hippies and he had long hair, a beard, she was not particularly attractive although thin and friendly. It didn’t matter really as we all got along great.
If you ever have used a hot tub one of the nice qualities is it can be relaxing if the warm water is not too hot. We went to their apartment patio and without their saying a word they both stripped naked and climbed in. Well we were young at the time and figured that is what you are supposed to do so we stripped and climbed in very quickly as well. Perhaps also being on their turf, so to speak, had us feel that we were supposed to do what they did. Everyone relaxed; we smoked a little weed, and enjoyed a pleasant afternoon. However, they somehow turned the conversation to swinging, and started sharing some of their experiences but in a non-graphic way. It was more like they were educating us on the lifestyle versus trying to convince ourselves of anything.
At one point maybe 30 or 40 minutes of us being there, Lenny got up to sit on the edge and you couldn’t help but notice a very long soft penis hanging down. He didn’t appear erect but it was like a relaxed erection if that makes any sense. In other words, it was big but soft looking hanging down. His wife started talking about how he was well-endowed since it was right there to see and told us a story of how his first sexual experience was with an older neighbor when he was young and mowed her lawn. He then jumped in the conversation saying she told others about this big penis and he had a few fun experiences with older woman and has always been liberal in sexuality. Now, I was feeling myself getting erect in the water so I had to stay seated. I really didn’t know what my wife was thinking but despite our nudity she at that time of life was shy. And, again, there was never any suggestion that we were to have any sex with them. It is sort of difficult to explain but all that I am sharing was more like matter of fact conversation as part of other conversations than a real sexual focus.
One thing I couldn’t help but notice, however, was his penis was bigger in comparison to mine. But, I figured he was just a uniquely endowed guy. I wondered if my wife seeing his penis gave any thought about mine being smaller. So, my mind wasn’t about her attraction to him. Like I said he was an older hippie and I sincerely doubted she would find him of interest sexually. But, secretly, I wondered was she comparing in her mind like I was or had any thought about it? We eventually got out and headed back to our apartment and not one thing was ever discussed about it. Nevertheless, over the course of a few months time we would occasionally get together with them in their hot tub and really only on a few rare occasions would anything be mentioned about swinging or anything of a sexual nature. Well, until one time…..
I actually can’t recall if this offer came while we were in the hot tub with them, or just in a social setting. But, on this occasion they had shared that there was going to be a swinger’s type party the following Sunday at a very well to do persons home with a huge private area and would we like to go. I do recall being excited by the thought but my wife quickly laughed and said no. You don’t have to do anything, there is no pressure, you can watch, relax, no one will bother you; it is all very friendly they explained. My wife still was saying that it wasn’t for us. We got back to our apartment and I really wanted to go. I told my wife we would absolutely not do anything with anyone else but it would be fun to see what all this was like. She kept saying no and finally I said that I was going to go myself. We argued and my wife was upset with me. However, I didn’t back off although in reality I pretty much inwardly knew I likely would chicken out going alone. The next day or two my wife said if I promised we would do nothing with anyone else she would agree to go. I might have felt some guilt for sort of backing her into a corner to go but my excitement ruled.
After work the next day, I knocked on the door of our friends and Lenny let me in as he was by himself. OK, I told him we would go and I explained the agreement with my wife that we would not participate sexually with others. He said that was fine not everybody automatically did anyway. He wrote out directions and said there would be a gate and to use their names as folks who invited us. He also provided me with more details and said there could be 50 couples, a few single women, but everyone knew the rules. You will have fun everyone is real nice he added. Then when I got up to leave he said something at the time that seemed a little strange to me and because it was said without much emphasis I am not even sure that I gave it a lot of thought at that moment. He said, your wife may find it exciting because of course most guys are your size and up. (Now remember at this date and time, I believed I had a decent sized penis).
That Sunday finally arrived and we headed in the early afternoon to this place/home. Yes, I was nervous, excited, etc. Interestingly, my wife seemed more calm and confident than I was. In fact, as we got to the gate I actually discussed maybe we should turn-around but my wife was like we are here let’s go. We followed the instructions and when let inside we were surprised to see the elegance of the home. There was no doubt whomever was holding this event was very wealthy. There were cars parked along the front area and grass at the house and there was a large wooden fence around the house. We knocked on the door and were surprised to see a security guard open it. We realized that as our friends had said this was a secured place.
Inside the home, people were dressed casually, some in dry bathing suits, but not one person was naked. We learned that you took your clothes off (it was optional) once you stepped through the back door where there was a big pool and a few small rooms, a shaded area, etc. They had lockers right outside the door. We stripped off our clothes except my wife just was topless and kept the lower part of her bathing suit on. We looked for our neighbors but didn’t see them but we did see many naked people and even one couple fucking. There were a few others watching but at first we were too embarrassed to stand and watch too. However, what I almost immediately noticed was other men might be erect, partially erect, flaccid, but there were many who had much bigger penises than me. I couldn’t help but do mental measurements and my friend had told the truth, they went my size up. As the day went on, I began to realize I might have the smallest penis there. I also noticed that often the guys with the biggest penises were the most popular to have sex with. One guy had a cock ring around his penis and it was so fat that several of the couples were joking about it and I even saw a few woman grab it just to touch it and laugh with others.
Finally our friends showed up. We spent time with them and also laughed when we observed this behavior with this guy that had the really thick fat penis. Lenny said that’s Pete, he always popular here, after all this is his place, do you want to meet him? It’s OK my wife said, but I said sure. A few minutes later our hippie neighbor called out to Pete, I want to introduce you to some people. Obviously they all knew one another. Pete said hello and talked about first timers. The funny thing was my wife was sitting and Pete was standing so his big although soft penis was sort of eye level for her. I chuckled to myself as she engaged in conversation with him like this tremendous cock wasn’t in her face. During the conversation there were several times when a woman/wife of a couple would come by asking if he was going to join them. So clearly he was popular. Our neighbor wife Mary even commented at one point to Pete, it’s my turn or something to that effect. Lenny joked and said to Mary that something makes Pete a popular guy with you, I wonder what could that be. However, Pete very seriously said to my wife and me that he enjoyed the sound of woman making an “ahh” sound when he first would enter them. I felt he might be turned on by my wife and us being new but it wasn’t like he got erect. However, not being erect was still in thickness like 3x my erect thickness and the continuing observation not only of Pete but other men there was becoming increasingly obvious that I had a small penis.