HEllo all, I am in college in Alabama and stay in the on campus dorm rooms. and as a lot of you know they are not very big maybe 16feet deep by 10ft wide room. with community showers on each hall, well I am completely straight and my roomie is gay and very open about it which is completely cool with me(we have had the same room for about 6months now). I dont mind his or anyones elses lifestyle but we had a little problem. His boyfriend wich lives in another hall often spends the night and of course they fool around (normally in the showers) now I will admit I have my girlfriends over from time to time but they never spend the night and I adhere to the dorm rules wich state no guests past 11p.m. and I never do anymore than kiss the girls when he is in the room(mainly for respect of the women a lot of them aren't cool with the whole people watching thing) now I asked him a few weeks ago if him and his boyfriends could refrain from him spending the night (room is small to begin wiht) and if he does if they could keep the noise down since I have football practice at 5 a.m. and they didnt so I gave him another chance still nothing. so I gave him a 3rd and final request a week later. still a no go. at this point I asked my Resident assistant to please have him moved to another room or something or him to be spoken to or anyhthing to help the situation with the RA did and my roomate started claiming discrimination and such and now I am going to have to move to another room. do you think this is right? am I missing something/ did I do something wrong? because as I see it I handled everthing ok. Also the RA said my roomie claimed he fear for his safty because he felt I would take matters into my own hands (I am 6ft 5in and 350lbs he is about 5ft9in maybe 145) and this is the reason I have to move to another room.