Discuss your Orientation

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Rowan Ravenseed, Aug 20, 2008.

  1. Rowan Ravenseed

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    Ok so one of the things i love the most about this forum is the fact that it doesn't just classify the men and women into Gay/Bi/Str8..... it makes a reasonable attempt to allow posters some degree of sexual flexibility with regards to preference.

    This is a major turn on for me personally because while there is still some childish macho bravado going on it is allowing the men that are comfortable with themselves a way to express that .

    So to continue on i would like to further discuss the orientation menus on here and how we feel it reflects us.

    For example i put down that i was 90% Gay and 10% straight because i am essentially a gay identifying man...with a preference for homosexual sex however I do from time to time find women attractive (although not quite sexually) and there are some women i would have sex with and i can even go so far as to identify a "type" of women or a couple of "types" of women that i have a preference for. I felt that saying i was 99% gay and 1% str8 would be an understatement becuase I would quite happily have sex with a women if it were the right women under the right circumstance.
     
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    I couldn't pick 100% gay because:

    1. Unlike some of my gay friends (ironically the ones who will insist that all straight men are really bisexual), I am not repulsed by the sight of an (attractive) naked female body, including in porn.

    2. I am clearly more attracted to certain women and I can tell exactly what physical attributes I like about them.

    3. If I had a choice between taking a shower with...

    a. Donald Trump
    b. A generic chick from Girls Gone Wild video

    ...I would pick b.
     
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    im straight, but appreciate looking at other big dicks, nothing wrong with that right?
     
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    I'd slap a 1% gay tax on that.
     
  5. Rowan Ravenseed

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    It's not a question of wrong or right... does it make you in any way homosexual..... thats a bit of a Grey area... I would say no...others would say yes... in the end though it really doesn't matter the only thing that matters is what you think..... which is why I'm asking.
     
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    Pretty strongly heterosexual, but I think the male orgasm is sexy as well. So in addition to all the straight porn I watch, I'll also watch the odd bit of gay porn as well (mostly zoom-in shots of big dicks or heavy cummers masturbating).

    I don't have any interest in doing anything with other men, but the caveat to this is that I have a bit of a fetish for fantasy fulfillment, so I'd be game for m/m/f or m/m with f watching if the woman I was with was really into it.

    There's not much I could say no to if it turned on the girl I was with ;)
     
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    I'm definitely bisexual. I chose to indicate 'unsure' not because I'm not sure of what my sexual orientation is, but I was unsure with regard to the percentages.

    Normally I would say that I'm 50% 50% or 60%gay 40% straight.

    However, there are days that from the 'male' options I get I wouldn't touch one with a jet of soda! I would however be happy to go home with a girl.

    That also happens the other way round. It really depends on the day and what I'm looking for at the present moment.

    There are also days where I would gladly get both.:smile:
     
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    I'm straight but, big cocks in porn do turn me on. But, only the cock nothing else about men.Once I tried sucking cock but, did it briefly becuase I did not like it and I would never do anything with a guy again. I will just enjoy big cocks in porn.
     
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    I'm not sure if I am answering this because the question is kind of vague. I was into girls as a teen because I think that was what society expected me to be with. Even when I had a g/f in the past, I found myself attracted if a hot guy walked by in the street or anywhere for that matter. I always found my head turning (way a str8 guy would turn for a chick). If a guy walked by with a hot ass and was nice lookin, I looked. As I got older I found myself yearning to experience a m2m which I eventually did. Suddenly it all made sense. In my own case I wasn't bi, and I wasn't str8. It felt right, like my natural inclinations (or whatever you want to call it) were finally being realized. To be honest to others around me I have never dated a girl again, and had to break up with the girl I was with at the time. I admit when I broke up with her I didn't tell her it was because I was gay. I had no problems growing up and attracting women and enjoyed sex with them, but it was more the lust type and getting off and "scoring" kinda thing. With guys it's much more intense for me because it's who I am. It's hard to describe and while I don't like labels, I don't sleep with women any longer, but can still appreciate a woman's beauty, big tits, etc. But that's all it is for me, an appreciation. The fire down below turns on when I see or meet a guy that interests me.
     
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    I've had about 50 gf's and 5 guys in my life. So that makes me about 90% straight and 10% gay.

    In my teens and 20's I had a few gay relationships but have only had gf's for the last 35 years now. However, I still find some guys very attractive and sexy but somehow things haven't gelled.

    Besides, mg present gf is super duper uber magnifique stunningly beautiful and revishingly sexy. In short she's HOT, HOT, HOT . . . drool, dribble, dribble, cough, splutter, So that sort of ties things up for the next, well, who knows how long.
     
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    :rofl:
     
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    Ya beat me too it. hehehe
     
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    Perhaps i should have said Discuss your sexual prefernces?
     
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    Nothing to discuss, I'm 100% straight. I have from the time I was a little girl been attracted to boys. It never occurred to me to experiment with women. I've seen attractive women in movie, tv, magazines, etc. but it never entered my mind to want to kiss one or be with one sexually.

    Unlike many here, my sexuality has no continuum. It is firmly fixed at 100% heterosexual woman. :cool:


    Oh come on Donald Trump?? Nobody finds him attractive. :tongue:
     
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    I dunno, I could be hot to fuck him silly, tell him what a piece of shit he is, I then say "Your fired! Now get your sorry ass outta here! :biggrin1:
     
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    Even as little boys we were aware of what happened to little boys when they grew up: they would become much fonder of girls; they would find the right one; they would get married and have children. Some of us grew up liking both boys and girls, a very few of whom we counted as best friends.
    I had the good fortune of having one best friend, a boy my age who was new in town. We became more than friends and we had the privacy to express our friendship; and when we found ourselves doing things which we hadn't ever imagined regular guys like ourselves would do we were both surprised and delighted. That first of many many homosexual experiences seemed so natural and so right; it was a wonderful confirmation of the bonds that existed between us.
    The summer after our junior year in high school he went west to work on a ranch; he informed me that his father had provided him with condoms explaining that, "If you're going to be messing with girls, don't be stupid, be prepared." (Never did find out whether he got to use them.) That summer turned out to be the summer my experience of the whole realm of sexual relationship was broadened by a very comprehensive introduction to sex with a woman. She was/is five years older than I and was no amateur and I was a fast learner; somehow I knew that it was on that side of my sexuality where I would end up. But, I was happy to resume my relationship and the homosexual sex to the end of my high school days.
    I have had only six partners in sex, three men and three women, and all in long-term relationships, All remain friends whom I love dearly. I have always been a faithful partner; casual sex has never been attractive to me. Not all relationships become sexual relationships but they are the ties that make life worthwhile. Our culture does not make it easy for men to bond in deep friendship which to me is key to understanding why we have so many young people who grow up confused.
    I resist all labels and I fully understand those persons who find their settled happiness with a person of the same sex. I am still "stirred" when I have the occasion to visit with any one of my former partners. I haven't any great insight as to how human sexuality ought to be dealt with. But, sometimes I share my thoughts hoping to get some enlightening feedback.
     
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    I am a gender confused girl who soley seeks sex with gay men. I view myself as bi gendered and as a flaming homosexual. I speak with a lisp, use my hands excessively and have a good sense of interior decorating skills. I am in all sense of the word gay and happily so.
     
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    I put 100% straight because I don't want come-ons from other men. Compliments are great from either gender. But sexual come-ons from men are not attractive for me.

    With me, it's about empathy and brotherhood. I see a big dick and I either wonder what it would be like if mine were like that, or I am proud for the guy -- or enraged by jealousy.

    It seems that society will just not allow a type of brotherly pride in being male. Males always have to relate to each other in terms of competition, and so much as noticing that another guy has a penis, so much as looking at another man's penis, is suspicious. Or maybe this is just the US. I've heard we're more hung-up than other countries.

    I sometimes like to imagine what it would be like to BE another man, which in itself I suppose could be seen as sexual. But it's different -- it's actually DEEPER -- than sex with another man. It is purely BEING that other man.

    Sorry. I get too deep sometimes. What was that song? "Shove me in the shallow water before I get too deep."
     
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    I was in college when the concept of "bisexual" was introduced to me. Almost immediately I knew that was me. I'm equally sexually attracted to men and women. Obviously, that would be men and women that I personally find attractive - not just anyone by benefit of being a human being.

    I've had many long-term relationships with men and a handful with women and over the course of the last few years have come to understand that I'm much happier in a male/female relationship - for numerous reasons that I won't go into here. But sexually, I LOVE sex with both men and women and can't imagine giving either of them up.

    I believe most people are at varying places on the straight-gay scale, with few of us firmly at either end - or directly in the middle, for that matter. I identify as bi and had a brief "coming out" period that was necessary for me at the time and made me a stronger person.

    The thought of being with a guy who enjoys seeing other big cocks doesn't bother me at all. Gay male sex has never been a deal to me one way or another, but it's hot to know that the guy can appreciate what another man has - and is willing to get up close and personal without all the homophobia.
     
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