Disgusted by Abuse Videos/Websites

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  1. sizequeen87

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    I'll take this opportunity while in the Adult website sub-forum to bring up the issue with certain websites I noticed are popping up everywhere.

    Specifically the websites that display full frontal abuse torward women. One website takes the cake and is called "18 and Abused"

    I don't understand how this is legal, let alone popular. It's sad to see that people have resorted to making these horrible, sad, pitiful "re-enactments" and that some sick f*cks actually enjoy this.

    WHY??????
     
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    Yep I agree. Disgusting.
     
  3. B_Nia88

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    You don't have to enjoy s/m but don't call me sick. I love to be dominated by a my man and find these video very hot. S/M is all about respect, communication and trust between 2 or more consenting adults. It is a very big turn on to me and embrace it fully. However, I respect anyone that isn't into it,
     
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    I'm with you Nia, but I am sick
     
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    f'd up indeed. i wouldn't call anyone who is into that 'sick', but perhaps misguided at least.
     
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    why am I misguided?
     
  7. Swordmonkey

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    If people like pain mixed with sexual pleasure then that's what they like. We can't change what people enjoy.
     
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    amen swordmonkey
     
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    I am not a fan of those sites at all. I've seen them and have to turn them off. I know some people enjoy these things but it makes me wonder what in their past lead them to find this enjoyable.

    I once had a girl want to play-fake an abusive roll play. It left me soft in seconds.

    A little boob or butt smacking is ok with me if its ok with my partner but some of the stuff you see online is WAYYYYYY past that. I wouldn't find anything fun in hurting someone - even if they do... So, OP, I hear ya.
     
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    Fuzzy finds these videos repulsive. The girls seem much less attractive when they appear to be eager to take a beating or be shit on or whatever else the clever sadists want to do to her.

    It would be nice to not see these videos, but is it abuse if the woman enjoys it?
     
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    is porn... women enjoying themselves is not the goal.
    consent can be an iffy is someone is contractually obligated to perform. when you consider the fines young folks believe they will have to pay for not fulfilling the contract can be in the hundreds of thousand coercion is ever the standard.
    is not BDSM, is abuse.

    some dudes are sketchy as fuck.
     
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    agree with Nia re s/m
    not my thing, but respect those who enjoy the controlled experiences of it all
    dislike all the other forms of pure sexual titillation crap
    be it vids, images,web sites, or to some degree ... the real life stuff


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    thought i better exclude the common ole porn vids hah
    LOVE viewing on the slim healthy bodies m/f as much as the sexual antics.............
     
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    I personally don't like the videos and but I have encountered a woman who wanted me to do this to her.
     
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    It makes me a sad panda, BDSM is for some people, but not all. That's about like other types of sexual fetishes, it's not everyone's bag or cup of tea..

    But if we were ALL the same...how boring would this world be?
     
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    I think everyone has the right to enjoy whatever they are into,

    However, that said..I don't like it in any form. It's not only Male on Female, but male on male, female on male, and female on female.

    To me, abuse is not hot at all.
     
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    It's as weird to me as the whole foot fetish.
     
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    I do not have any problem with anyone being into "abusive" sex.
    I happen to like to be rough at times as well, and i do not feel bad about it.
    To dominate, or to be dominated appeal to many people, and there is nothing wrong with it, as long as all participants consent to and enjoy the actions.

    Now i do however certainly do see a difference with many of those videos, tho they certainly can be arousing to many people, who i would not call sick for that.
    I can imagine the conditions under those they are produced can be called just that.
    The adult film business is a tough one, and i for myself worry much more about the actors/actresses being abused in the form of a bad contract, committing them to things they can not overlook when signing. About some of them being forced into these kind of movies in a very competitive market, with lots of people who play foul.
    The "abuse" itself to me is not in general sick, not even bad in any way.
    The circumstances under which it is caught on tape tho might very well be.
    I just think the entire field of business is not very good when it comes to rights and protection of those who work in it.
     
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    Yep, another "WHY" to me too :rolleyes:
     
  20. sizequeen87

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    What some people commenting seem to misunderstand is the difference between S&M and abuse re-enactments.
    I'm not talking about a little whip and leather props.
    For g*d's sake it's called

    18 AND ABUSED

    How can you interpret that violence and crying(fake or not) as a-okay?

    The definition of abuse is NOT synonymous with S&M.

    What's next, Underaged, Raped and Murdered??????????
     
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