Disgusted by Abuse Videos/Websites

[petite]

It disgusts me, too. The popularity of it is disturbing to me.

I happen to like foot fetishists. They're nice and sweet and attentive. :smile:

 

[Mithra]

The first thing I need porn to have to find it arousing, whether its vanilla or has a D&S element to it (I can enjoy both), is the impression that everyone in the scene is there because they are into it and are enjoying themselves.

 

[B_Nia88]

What some people commenting seem to misunderstand is the difference between S&M and abuse re-enactments.
I'm not talking about a little whip and leather props.
For g*d's sake it's called

18 AND ABUSED

How can you interpret that violence and crying(fake or not) as a-okay?

The definition of abuse is NOT synonymous with S&M.

What's next, Underaged, Raped and Murdered??????????

The violence and crying can be part of S&M role playing I often cry during the act as part of the emotional release of s&m or from the pain but until I say the safe word it continues. It is disrespectful at all if everyone is consenting and is respectful to the other persons wishes/desires and listens for the safe words.

 

[Bardox]

So fetishes out ther are just impossible for people who don't have them to understand them. I know it's difficult to believe, but some women (and some men) out there who like being treated like shit. I'm sure there is a fetish out there that involves combat boots and a deep sea diving helmet. People are fucking goofy. Accept it an move on.

My attitude is that if it gets you off and you can find someone willing to do it with you... go for it. It's your body.

 

[B_Nia88]

So fetishes out ther are just impossible for people who don't have them to understand them. I know it's difficult to believe, but some women (and some men) out there who like being treated like shit. I'm sure there is a fetish out there that involves combat boots and a deep sea diving helmet. People are fucking goofy. Accept it an move on.

My attitude is that if it gets you off and you can find someone willing to do it with you... go for it. It's your body.

thank you for your support bardox

 

[Adomfg]

The original link is honestly the roughest porn I've ever seen. It's degrading to women and treating them like farm animals. It's a lot worse than "normal" porn and I believe one who watches this type of porn continuously could lead them into violent acts against women.

 

[B_Nia88]

The original link is honestly the roughest porn I've ever seen. It's degrading to women and treating them like farm animals. It's a lot worse than "normal" porn and I believe one who watches this type of porn continuously could lead them into violent acts against women.

I am not going to commit violent acts against women. You argument makes it seem like people don't have their own will or control over their actions. Are fans of MMA going to get into fights and commit violent acts against other men.?

 

[gagafan1994]

I am not going to commit violent acts against women. You argument makes it seem like people don't have their own will or control over their actions. Are fans of MMA going to get into fights and commit violent acts against other men.?

I dont care for s&m but is not for others to decide what i(and everyone else) do(does) in the bedroom. I am 100% on nia's side

 

[B_Nia88]

Thank you gagafan why should i feel ashamed that I enjoy very rough sex, i love being dominated, degraded, and humilated i love feeling the power of my man over me. I love feeling the emotions and physical pleasure of very rough sex.

 

[Thirdlegproduction]

Not really sure what is defined as abusive here, but it takes two to tango.

Obviously the women like/love it to some degree otherwise they would'nt participate.
My ex wanted me to do this to her and I felt uncomfortable with it at first as it was not my style to be rough or slap women around but what I do enjoy is making women feel good and sometimes or most of the times women are into this sort of thing.

I have grown a taste for it, but it's all about communication, pleasure and respect unlike what you see at first sight there's a lot more going on beneath the surface.

As for men becoming violent Nia gave a perfect example.

 

[B_Nia88]

Not really sure what is defined as abusive here, but it takes two to tango.

Obviously the women like/love it to some degree otherwise they would'nt participate.
My ex wanted me to do this to her and I felt uncomfortable with it at first as it was not my style to be rough or slap women around but what I do enjoy is making women feel good and sometimes or most of the times women are into this sort of thing.

I have grown a taste for it, but it's all about communication, pleasure and respect unlike what you see at first sight there's a lot more going on beneath the surface.

As for men becoming violent Nia gave a perfect example.

exactly sweetheart communication and respect are the most important

 

[Big_Jimbo]

I'm sure there's a lot of people that think this website is sick and should be illegal. My thought - if you don't like it, don't go there.

 

[Adomfg]

To each their own. I'm just giving my opinion

Doing it in the bedroom and watching it online are 2 different thing tho.

 

[B_Nia88]

To each their own. I'm just giving my opinion

Doing it in the bedroom and watching it online are 2 different thing tho.

I agree both are such a turn on

 

[Mumzi]

It bothers me. I wonder about men who like this. It's way past S&M.

What some people commenting seem to misunderstand is the difference between S&M and abuse re-enactments.
I'm not talking about a little whip and leather props.
For g*d's sake it's called

18 AND ABUSED

How can you interpret that violence and crying(fake or not) as a-okay?

The definition of abuse is NOT synonymous with S&M.

What's next, Underaged, Raped and Murdered??????????

 

[MrMeatFlaps]

The difference is this - if two people consent to extremely rough sex, domination, gagging or whatever then that is their choice. I think that what the OP was stating is more of the fact that a lot of the sites and scenes out there try their hardest to make it look as though the acts are not consentual but are actually one person (or two or three...) forcing themselves on the other. That is not sexy and is abuse. There is a HUGE difference between those two points.

 

[B_Nia88]

The difference is this - if two people consent to extremely rough sex, domination, gagging or whatever then that is their choice. I think that what the OP was stating is more of the fact that a lot of the sites and scenes out there try their hardest to make it look as though the acts are not consentual but are actually one person (or two or three...) forcing themselves on the other. That is not sexy and is abuse. There is a HUGE difference between those two points.

I enjoy rape role play myself it seems very real and I enjoy it very much. Different strokes for different folks.

 

[MalakingTiti]

I enjoy it.

 

[hoggindaz]

i find it disgusting and repulsive that there are people out there who get off on a POV movie of a girl getting punched or slapped or whatever and i imagine alot of people feel the same way.

But to try to make it illegal or think it should be illegal JUST because you don't like it is almost as bad, the knee jerk reaction of " i don't like that, lets all get rid of it and ban it" when it doesn't concern or involve you is what leads to oppression of peoples freedom to express themselves.

 

[D_CountOfMonteCrisco]

Sexual fetishes are always seen as strange or even gross by an outside observer. Sure, s/m porn is really messed up in my eyes and i dont find it appealing in the least, but some people love it. And in my mind, if it is purely consensual between adults, i am totally ok with whatever people feel like doing. Whether that be whipping people or covering yourself in Banana pudding, its whatever you are into