"Disgusted by Penises"

[helgaleena]

I don't get a sinister vibe although I am not claiming I know everything about him. People can surprise you in life and not always in a good way.

I just get the feeling that he is troubled and very unhappy. You're right that he has a ton of issues. This is why he can't keep a relationship going.

I figure maybe men might have a better perspective on what his underlying problem could be. I am good at solving problems, but I can't seem to figure this out. I have asked him about abuse in the past, his sexual orientation, and all of that to give better advice, but he claims he's had no sexual abuse and he's not gay. I am thinking that if he can tell me all that he has so far, why not admit any of that stuff in conversation?

I've already tried telling him to get some help with a professional, but as I mentioned earlier, I seriously doubt he'll follow through on that. Probably out of shame. I am not sure. He's never been someone who likes to look inward too deeply.

Those of us who hate different parts of our bodies have to learn to love our entire selves. I am not going to be able to get a butt-ectomy :tongue: so I try to keep my arse end in some sort of repair and appreciate it as it is. It is still a struggle sometimes. And without the therapy your friend will never get to the bottom of the mystery of why he wishes he had no gonads. Good luck to him.

 

[87chris1987]

I know germaphobes (well, just one really) who hate anything and everything about cum. It's a necessarily evil in their mind.

Never ran into a guy who didn't love his penis, though.

 

[D_Crystallized Ginger]

Those of us who hate different parts of our bodies have to learn to love our entire selves. I am not going to be able to get a butt-ectomy :tongue: so I try to keep my arse end in some sort of repair and appreciate it as it is. It is still a struggle sometimes. And without the therapy your friend will never get to the bottom of the mystery of why he wishes he had no gonads. Good luck to him.

helgaleena ... you are not going... luckily!!! we like your bottom!! my nick was born because of bottoms loving!

 

[Stephenmass]

Does he perceive it as a problem? There are plenty of asexuals in the world.