Guys make odd decisions when they've got a hard-on. I'm not excusing it, just trying to rationalise some of the otherwise inexplicable tastes, habits and opinions of some guys.
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Has anyone even noticed the fact that her IM name is "big tits n proud of it" to a guy with a hard on he sees that as, "hey look someone who will help me get off." Maybe if you didn't have such a provocative name you wouldn't get men flashing their dicks at you.
Any name with a sexual connotation CAN and WILL be taken the wrong way by some horny guy looking through his yahoo friends for some girl to help get him off. Getting on yahoo with a name like "big tits n proud of it" is just asking for men (and women if you really need to bring that into this) to stop looking at you as a human being, and start looking at you as a sex object. It's the internet for christs sake. Having a name like that, and then getting a dick flashed at you like you would have never thought it would happen. Oh god how could a name like big tits n proud of it be mistaken for this! I better complain on lpsgWhat does being proud of having big tits have to do with someone showing you their cock? The answer is of course, nothing (I decided to refrain from using the word dick there, just in case you might be confused). A lesbian could easily have a username revolving around tits, and it would still work. Not only that, do you wave money at women with common stripper names and expect them to rip their clothes? The answer should be no, unless you are a moron. The only username that your argument might work for is if her username was "showmeyourdick", which it clearly isn't.
This shift the blame to women game is stupid. Quit being so butt hurt that not every woman thinks your cock is the greatest thing since sliced bread.
Any name with a sexual connotation CAN and WILL be taken the wrong way by some horny guy...
I think Eye Rape should be a crime. Not simply enough to be public indecency; there should be a maximum sentence for doing something to my brain that I cannot unsee.
and by doing this you have decreased the chances of getting "eye raped" by atleast 70%Yep. Agree. So, when I get a friend request from 8inchsteel or footlongjoy or hammerUallnite I will most certainly decline.
So you agree that using a name like big tits n proud and then expecting to not get dicks flashed at you is stupid? I'm glad we can agreeI've already elaborated on how stupidity isn't an excuse.
Eye Rape, are you serious? This one guy told at this one place he worked at staring at someone for 7 seconds or longer was considered sexual harassment. Personally I think people need to get over themselves. So someone you never met and probably never will and quite possibly will never see again looked at you for a couple of seconds at a distance. He never said anything or did anything, and now you want to press charges? *A mock scream* JUDGE THIS MAN IS GUILTY OF HAVING EYES!!! And here I am thinking the human race had actually made some sort of progress on this earth, my bad. Who's to say he was even checking you out either? If you're going to press charges, you need some sort of proof. What, eye witnesses? Security cameras? Oh wait, let me guess, your hurt, burnt out heart, right? Some people are just so ridiculously self-obsessed if they don't get the attention they want, they'll force it on themselves through court instead.
Grow up. Smell the coffee. NOBODY CARES!
So you agree that using a name like big tits n proud and then expecting to not get dicks flashed at you is stupid? I'm glad we can agree
She was talking about someone sending her a photo she didn't want to see; not someone looking at her.
I still think someone who sees that username and assumes that she wants to see their dick is being purposely dense, or in the more unfortunate cases is just stupid. You know what that username instantly conveys to me? She has big tits, and she likes them. No where in that does my dick enter the equation. Maybe if you add 4cock to the username you have it. But gasp, that isn't in the username!
The point is, it's a website about cocks. For a woman to join and then expect that she's not gonna get flashed with dicks on occasion is just ridiculousI don't remember the ToS requiring me to absorb eyefuls of cock in order to be a member when I joined. So what if this is a site about dick? I think we all know what one looks like. I don't think we need a constant visual reminder. It's actually very easy to not look at cock on this site believe it or not. Here is an equation for you.
woman on a dick website + me having a dick != her interested in my dick
when she leads them on with a name like that. Yes, it is partially her fault. I'm not saying all the blame goes to her, but some of it sure as hell doesShe didn't say in the OP that she never expected it to happen. She expressed that she hates when it happens. Just because bad behavior may be considered par for the course doesn't make it 'okay.' But clearly other people's behavior is her fault.